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Welcome to the Best Man Speech Generator, the latest addition to the aiwizard spellbook. Have you been entrusted with the honorable task of delivering a best man speech but find yourself tongue-tied? Look no further! Our AI Best Man Speech Generator is designed to create a customized, heartfelt speech that will leave the newlyweds and guests impressed. Simply provide some details to guide the AI, hit "Generate Speech," and receive a compelling best man speech in an instant.

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(*Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out all the different ways the Speechy team can help you write & deliver a great speech. Or check out our new AI-powered team member, SpeechyAI .)

Is SpeechyAI For You?

Are you a professional comedian? Do you regularly write and present speeches? Are you well-versed in the modern wedding speech do’s and don’ts?

If not, SpeechyAI might be for you.

Next… Do you hate the thought of rehashing Goggled gags and lame wedding gags? Are you strapped for time and money but know you need help?  Are you getting flashbacks of all the terrible best man speeches you’ve had to witness in the past?

If so, SpeechyAI is definitely your new best friend.

Let’s face it, not everyone possesses the natural flair for public speaking or the ability to effortlessly weave humour and sentiment into a coherent narrative.

Enter SpeechyAI, the revolutionary AI Best Man Speech Generator from Speechy.

Designed to alleviate the pressure of crafting an unforgettable speech, SpeechyAI leverages cutting-edge technology to create personalise, eloquent, and entertaining speeches. And how does it do that? Well, the human team behind Speechy has to take a bit of credit…

An Independent Review

when  Tie the Knot  asked if we’d be happy for couples to test out SpeechyAI we had no hesitation.

And, honestly? We don’t think we could have written a better review ourselves!

Mark, one of the grooms taking part in the publications Planning Diaries series, said everything we could have hoped him to and more!

– ‘It was like having a conversation with a friend’

– ‘It was like reliving our love story, one hilarious memory at a time’

– ‘The tool crafted a masterpiece; funny, heartfelt and tailored to our story’

– ‘It was like a comedian providing the punchlines and an editor polishing the paragraphs’

Score? 10/10 – plus extra brownie points for pre-wedding peace of mind

Speechy Expertise

SpeechyAI has not been designed by a bunch of AI geeks. Instead, it’s been lovingly developed by the speechwriters at Speechy; an elite team of TV scriptwriters and professional comedians.

The team have

• Written for a range of BBC comedy and entertainment shows (TV and radio)
• Appeared as the wedding speech expert on BBC Sounds Best Men podcast with Jason Manford and Steve Edge
• Written the new wedding speech bible for couples ‘The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches’ published by Little, Brown
• Featured everywhere from The New York Times to The Times, The Daily Mail to Brides, and even The Drew Barrymore Show

The team has spent nine months building and testing SpeechyAI and programmed it with all our best speechwriting tips and techniques. No wonder it’s so bloody good.

How The Hell Does It Work?

You might just want to head straight to the chase and check out our SpeechyAI product page where there’s even more detail, but in summary, it works by asking you a series of questions online.

There’s about 40-50 of them but you don’t need to answer them all. Some of them are essential information but a lot of them are just prompts to help you think about the possible content SpeechyAI can possibly play with. Basically, the more it has to consider, the better your speech will be.

You can bash out your answers in about 45 minutes, but you don’t need to do this in one hit. You can start and come back to it another day.

Incorporating personal details, memorable moments and little insights, allows SpeechyAI to generate a speech that feels authentic, intimate and original.

When you feel you’ve added enough, you can then submit the content for SpeechyAI to work its magic.

AI utilises advanced natural language processing algorithms to generate a speech that’s based on your unique responses. And, here’s the thing… it can hunt out opportunities for humour and make you sound like a comedy genius. No joke.

‘I was honestly stunned by the quality of some of the lines that SpeechyAI generated in our period of testing. Gags that would have probably taken my hours to come up with, it generated in three minutes’, s ays Speechy founder, Heidi Ellert-McDermott.

While the overall speech (luckily for the Speechy team) wasn’t quite up to the standard of the human writer’s work (which comes with a price tag of £499 and a turnaround time of around a fortnight), there was no doubt that it was an excellent and ambitious junior team member.

‘We believe there’s still a strong market for the human ghostwriter but we’re proud SpeechyAI offers expert help and original wit at such an affordable price. It really is remarkable. I’m hopeful it’s going to kill off all those blooming awful best man ‘jokes’ that make so many wedding speeches so cringy’, says Heidi.  

Okay, So It Can Be Funny, But Can It Write A Flowing Speech?

Yep, it can.  SpeechyAI knows how to create a strong structure and compelling narrative. It knows a best man speech needs to be humorous but it also knows it needs to be a heartfelt tribute to a true friend too.

SpeechyAI also recognises the importance of paying a tribute to the groom’s partner and ticking off all the essential speech etiquette, including ideal length (between six and nine minutes delivery ideally; never longer than ten!).

Will The Speech Be Perfect?

No. First drafts rarely are.

SpeechyAI (like even the best human speechwriter) might misinterpret an anecdote slightly or it may produce a line or two that you just don’t like or that doesn’t sound genuinely ‘you’.

That’s why we’ve also created an Edit function that splits the speech into sections, where you can either edit the speech yourself or get AI to do it for you.

Is It A Cop-Out?

Well, in the same way that using a calculator is cheating.

Back in the 80s teachers and parents were worried calculators would stop kids using their brains and there’d be a generation of folk who couldn’t count to five, and look at us now; we can count all the way to seventeen.

Like most forms of tech, SpeechyAI helps you harness thoughts and supercharge them. SpeechyAI serves as a testament to the fusion of AI and human creativity, marking a new era in the art of speechwriting.

And hopefully, fewer best men resorting to shockingly bad jokes under pressure!

The Speechwriting Experts

The Speechy team  are TV-trained scriptwriters/comedians by trade & we’ve helped 1,000s of speakers around the world deliver their dream speech.

Our advice has been quoted everywhere from  The New York Times  to  Grazia  and from Forbes to The Observer . Our founder has also featured on the  BBC Sounds’ Best Men podcast with Jason Manford and written ‘ The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches’ , published by Little, Brown.

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You give the instructions, we write the speech - instantly!

Our state-of-the-art AI technology creates unique and tailored speeches that are sure to leave a lasting impression on the audience. Our system takes into consideration your specific guidelines and instructions to ensure that your speech is not only personalized but also compelling and heartfelt .

Why should I use it?

With bestmanspeechpro.com, you can rest easy knowing that your speech will be one-of-a-kind and perfectly suited for the occasion. Say goodbye to the stress and pressure of crafting the perfect speech and let our AI do the work for you.

Why choose BestmanSpeechPro?

Our advanced AI uses natural language processing and machine learning to understand your instructions and create a speech that truly represents you as a best man. You can instruct the AI on things you want to include in your speech, and the AI will craft an eloquent speech based on your specific instructions. Our AI is trained on a diverse range of best man speeches and can understand the nuances of language and tone, allowing it to craft a speech that is unique to you and the occasion. We understand that writing a best man speech can be a daunting task, especially if you're not naturally confident in your writing abilities. With BestmanSpeechPro, you can leave the writing to us and trust that your speech will be of the highest quality.

How it works

Our process is simple and straightforward:

1. After buying credits, click on "App" in the top menu, or go to bestmanspeechpro.com/app. 

2. Provide us with your instructions, including information about the occasion, your relationship with the groom, and any specific themes or messages you would like to convey.

3. Our AI will analyze your instructions and craft a unique speech that is tailored to you.

4. Review the speech and request any revisions or adjustments you would like made.

5. Receive your final speech, ready to deliver on your special day.

With BestmanSpeechPro, you can have peace of mind knowing that your speech will be well-written, engaging, and tailored to your specific needs as a best man.

See how easy it is

Weddings are a time of joy, love, and unforgettable memories. If you’ve been honored with the role of the best man, you have the unique privilege of supporting the groom on one of the most significant days of his life. Alongside this honor comes the daunting task of delivering a speech that’s heartfelt, funny, and memorable. But fear not, modern technology offers a surprising assistant in the form of artificial intelligence (AI). Intrigued? Let’s explore how AI can help you craft the ultimate best man speech.

Need help writing a best man speech? Check out Typli's AI speech writer here .

Understanding the AI Advantage

AI has seeped into our daily lives in ways we never imagined, from smartphone assistants to customer service chatbots. Its reach now extends to the realm of speech writing. While AI cannot replicate the deep personal connections you share with the groom, it can significantly reduce the stress of writing a speech by assisting with structure, content, and delivery.

Crafting the Perfect Structure

The first step in crafting any speech is establishing a robust framework, and AI tools can help you build that framework in minutes. These tools use algorithms to suggest a speech structure based on successful patterns. They often come with templates that include traditional best man speech components like the opening remarks, anecdotes about the groom, comments about the couple, and toasts.

Sample AI Suggested Structure:

Introduction

Relationship with the groom

Humorous anecdotes

Sentimental stories

Words of advice or quotes

Compliments to the bride and the couple

Concluding thoughts

Generating Content Ideas

Perhaps you’re stuck on what stories to tell or how to word your speech. AI can help generate content ideas or even create drafts based on a series of questions it asks you about the groom, your relationship, and the couple. The resulting content can include jokes, one-liners, and touching sentiments that are tailored to your responses.

AI-Prompted Questions Might Include:

How did you meet the groom?

Can you share a memorable moment you both enjoyed?

What are some quirks or habits of the groom that are light-hearted and can be shared?

How would you describe the couple’s relationship?

Improving Language and Delivery

Even if you’re confident with the raw content of your speech, AI can assist with refining the language, improving grammar, and suggesting synonyms to make your speech more engaging. Moreover, certain AI software can help you rehearse by offering feedback on pacing, pronunciation, and modulation — crucial elements that can transform a good speech into a great one.

Personalization with a Human Touch

Although AI offers an efficient way to structure and polish your speech, remember that the most impactful moments will come from your own personal experiences and genuine emotions. AI can facilitate the process, but it’s up to you to personalize the delivered content. Adding your unique perspective and heartfelt emotions will resonate best with the audience and, most importantly, the newlyweds.

AI-Assisted Best Man Speech Tips

Writing a memorable best man speech with AI’s help involves more than just inserting anecdotes into a templated structure. Here are some tips to ensure that your speech strikes the right chords:

Start with Sentiment, End with a Bang

Begin your speech with a touch of sentiment, expressing your happiness for the couple and your relationship with the groom. Then, transition to humor and storytelling, keeping the audience engaged and entertained. Make sure to end on a high note with a powerful toast that leaves everyone raising their glasses.

Practice Makes Perfect

Use AI tools for practice and feedback, but don’t rely solely on them. Practice your speech in front of friends or family and adjust based on their reactions. Personal interaction is invaluable.

Keep it Brief

Attention spans are limited, especially at a joyous event like a wedding. A general rule is to keep the speech under five minutes. AI can help you trim the fat and focus on the highlights.

Be Sensitive

AI might suggest a joke or two, but it’s your job to gauge appropriateness. Understand the audience and avoid anything that could be offensive or embarrassing to the couple or guests.

Tie in a Quote or a Toast

To add depth, use a meaningful quote about love or marriage. AI can suggest quotes, but choose one that truly aligns with the couple’s relationship. End with a heartfelt toast that encapsulates your wishes for the couple.

The Future of Speech Writing with AI

As AI continues to evolve, the future of speech writing looks promising. With more sophisticated natural language processing, AI may be able to offer even deeper personalization and emotional intelligence, leading to speeches that are not only funny and touching but also a true reflection of our human experiences.

Embracing AI Support for Your Best Man Duties

Using AI to help write your best man speech isn’t about being disingenuous or robotic; it’s about enhancing your ability to convey your real feelings and stories in a memorable way. Embrace the support that AI offers, but remember that the true essence of a great best man speech lies in the personal touch you bring to it.

In the end, it’s the balance between AI efficiency and personal sentiment that will help you deliver a speech that won’t just be remembered — it will be cherished.

Daniel Errante

Lead Software Engineer, Typli.ai

Daniel is a software engineer, entrepreneur and AI enthusiast who has a passion for writing great software and coaching software development teams on how to build reliable, scalable and secure software. Over the past few years he has developed an interest in building artificial intelligence applications and is the head software engineer at Typli.ai.

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AI Best Man Speech: Create a Personal, Funny Wedding Speech in Any Style (Free Prompts + Examples)

Ever since ChatGPT burst onto the scene, there are tons of  AI tools that can write copy for just about every occasion – including your best mate’s big moment: The Best Man Speech! 

To avoid any frustration in creating your speech, we’ll show you how to:

• Choose the right AI assistant
• Create prompts that get the best results
• Personalise your speech 

Time to put the robots to pen!

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Hold on, can chatgpt write a best man speech.

Sure! It might lack in personality and funny stories, though. So if you want to use AI, we’ve got some special tips and prompts to help you write a truly epic speech in no time.

The 7 Steps to Create an AI Best Man Speech

If you’re short on words, lacking inspiration, or just total rubbish at writing a speech that’s not snore-inducing, here are the exact steps you need to follow to let AI do the heavy lifting:

Step 1: Pick your AI platform

There’s a bonanza of AI tools ready to lend a hand! Some, like HyperWrite and Verble, are specifically designed for speech writing , while others, like Inflection, Gemini, Perplexity, and ChatGPT, are more multi-purpose and get the job done well too.

Step 2: Ask AI to help you get started

If you’re not sure how to ask AI to write a best man’s speech, you can do exactly that. 

In the text box where you enter prompts, ask, 

“How do I ask AI to write a best man speech?”

As a response, you’ll be asked to provide some details about the groom (and the bride), their relationship, any anecdotes or memorable moments you want to include, and if there’s a specific tone or style you want to use. 

You’ll also often get a template to follow to help you create better speech prompts, but this isn’t essential, as you can work in any order.

Step 3: Begin entering your prompts

With a basic idea of what you need to do, you can start giving AI your prompts.

Examples of what you can prompt include:

“Best man’s speech inspired by Lord of the Rings, in the style of Gollem,  include an anecdote about how a wet cat led the couple to meet. Make it funny and heartwarming.”

“Formal best man speech including an all-ages appropriate jokes and advice for newlyweds.”

“Funny, heartwarming, personal best man speech in the style of Billy Connolly.”

You can also request speeches that suit different types of grooms, whether this ties in with their personalities or their interests. This helps the AI to tailor its results to suit you. 

For example, you can ask for a speech for:

• Hopeless Romantic

Really, the options are endless, so you can be as creative as you like. Or at least as creative as suits the wedding.

Step 4: Get specific with your instructions

There are some elements that just about every best man’s speech needs, and these include:

• An icebreaker.
• A brief overview of your role in the groom’s life (e.g., friend, brother, best gay uncle, etc.).
• A funny or heartwarming anecdote.
• Advice and well wishes for the newlyweds.
• Compliments to the bride, groomsmen and bridesmaids.
• A final toast.

To get AI to add these elements, you can simply enter them into the prompt section. You don’t have to do them element by element either; the robots will work out where everything fits together. 

You’ll now have a pretty good speech that’s ticking all the boxes. But when you read it aloud, you notice something is missing. Maybe it’s not funny enough? 

Perhaps it doesn’t tie in with the wedding’s theme, or maybe it’s too risqué—or not risqué enough?

Tell AI what you want using prompts like:

• Make it funnier
• Add a quote about love
• Include wisdom from an old married couple
• Include reference to a beach/winter/seasonal theme
• Make the advice risqué/sexier/cheekier

Step 5: Cut the cheese

At the end of the day, AI isn’t human, and it does have a propensity for being cheesy . And not just a mild gouda but full-on vieux-Boulogne on a sunny day.

So, go over your speech and look for those sprinklings of parmesan. Such as: 

They say that love is like a fine wine, it only gets better with age. And judging by the way these two look at each other, I’d say they’ve found themselves a couple of rare, vintage bottles.

Let’s sprinkle in a few more jokes to keep the laughter flowing like the tide. Today, as I look at him standing here, ready to embark on this incredible journey with [Bride’s Name], I couldn’t be prouder to call him my friend.

If any of the text made you cringe or groan, remove it! 

Step 6: Check your timing

Calculating the length of a speech based on the text is not easy, so you need to get practicing. A good way to do this is to read your AI masterpiece out loud at the same pace you would on the wedding day and set the timer.

If it’s too short, tell AI to “ make it longer” . If it’s too long, tell AI to “make it shorter” .

You should get specific here with what you want to add or what you want to cut. For example:

“Include two more jokes and words of wisdom about married life”

“Remove a joke and any long descriptions”

Yikes. You did this, and now you no longer praise the bridesmaids. In fact, any mention of them has been obliterated. You’ll need to prompt this again to get them back in the speech. 

In fact, now’s a great time to revisit your checklist and ensure you’ve covered everything you wanted upfront.

Step 7: Final touches

You’ve got your speech ready to go, you’ve ticked all the boxes on your list, and you’re convinced there won’t be a dry eye in the house. But it’s not quite long enough.

If this is the case, do yourself a favor and separate your text out and see where you can add to it. While most AI doesn’t have a word count limit, longer texts can hamper the system’s ability to generate a coherent or non-repetitive response. 

If you want a longer anecdote or to add a funny story about some of the mischief you got up to , consider creating a new prompt and then adding it to your speech. Or, if you think your final toast needs work, start a separate prompt and refine it this way.

You’ll have to do some tying together, but it beats writing a whole speech from scratch!

From Tongue Tied To Toastmaster

If you want to nail your role as best man , AI is your best friend. The trick is to refine your prompts and ensure that you cover all your bases.

Once you’re done, you should have a speech you’re proud of, the bride and groom will love, and the guests won’t fall asleep during. 

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Relieve stress and put your stories and emotions into a heartfelt wedding speech with help from AI.

"Those who are terrified of wrestling with words for a speech and are not tech-savvy, he said, may find a service like ToastWiz — which is tailored to write specifically for weddings, unlike ChatGPT — more helpful."

"Another friend suggested she try ToastWiz, a paid service for crafting speeches that uses AI."

"ToastWiz, an AI tool that prompts people to input personal details and memories and uses GPT-4 to come up with a clean, clear, but still personal speech."

"Another AI tool for those who don’t want to look like tools in front of 150 people is ToastWiz, which, for the low price of $29.99, can make sure the happy couple is indebted to you forever."

A wedding is a joyous occasion to look forward to...

Friends, family, food, drinks. What's not to love?

...But not if you're anxious about writing your speech.

We don't like stress. We hate it.

That's where ToastWiz comes in.

Avoid the anxiety that comes with speech writing and write a personalized, memorable wedding speech draft in just minutes.

• Prompts to share your stories and memories
• Defeat writers block
• Create in minutes

Q: How do I get a speech?

ToastWiz's short form guides you to put your stories and feelings into words. Once you complete the form, you will receive three ToastWiz wedding speech drafts within minutes for $29.99.

Q: Who writes the speech?

ToastWiz sends your completed form to an artificial intelligence (AI) model. The AI model compiles your inputs to create three wedding speech drafts. The AI model uses OpenAI’s GPT-4 to generate the wedding speeches.

Q: Are the speeches good?

Your ToastWiz speeches are the result of your inputs with some help from artificial intelligence. ToastWiz speeches have proper grammar, are compelling, and are personalized based on your stories.

We find that many people like to create a wedding speech draft from ToastWiz and then edit it.

While ToastWiz is very good, it is not perfect. In some cases, the speeches will contain minor false information that will need to be edited.

Q: How long are the speeches?

Each ToastWiz speech is typically 350 - 600 words long. This equates to about 3 - 5 min (depending on how fast you talk). The more stories you give ToastWiz, the longer your speech will be.

Q: What is the price?

The price is $29.99 for three speech drafts.

Q: Why three speeches?

The goal of providing three speech drafts is to give you multiple options to choose from. You can see what phrasings and openings you like so you aren't limited by one speech. We do not offer other quantities at the moment.

Q: Are there returns or refunds?

If you're not happy, we're not happy. We offer a 100% money-back guarantee. For more info, please see our refund policy .

Q: What types of speeches does ToastWiz help write?

ToastWiz helps craft heartfelt wedding speeches for best men, maids of honor, groomsmen, bridesmaids, cherished friends, parents, and siblings of the bride and groom, ensuring every special moment is celebrated with eloquence and warmth.

ToastWiz speeches are perfect for rehearsal dinners and receptions.

Q: What is the turnaround time?

The wedding speeches are emailed to you within minutes after you checkout.

Q: Will I be able to give the speech right away?

We recommend reviewing and editing the speech before giving it. While the speeches have proper grammar and are structured well, we find that most ToastWiz users like to make edits to the speech before giving them.

Q: Is the speech unique? Do you use a template?

Every ToastWiz speech is unique based on your inputs. We don't use a template.

Q: How do I get started?

Get started here !

• How to Deliver an Unforgettable Best Man Speech with Tomco AI

As the best man, you have the important task of delivering a speech that celebrates the happy couple and sets the tone for the rest of the wedding reception. Writing a best-man speech can be nerve-wracking, but with Tomco AI's guided template, you can create a funny and heartfelt speech that will leave a lasting impression.

Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template is designed to help you strike the perfect balance between humor and sentimentality. Whether you're a seasoned public speaker or have never given a speech before, Tomco AI's template can guide you in crafting a memorable speech that will have the bride, groom, and guests laughing and crying.

Using Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template is easy. Simply choose the tone and style of speech you want to deliver, answer a few questions about the bride and groom, and let the AI generate a draft for you. From there, you can customize and personalize the speech to your liking, using the AI's suggestions and guidance along the way.

Choosing Your Speech Style

Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template offers several different speech styles to choose from, including funny, serious, professional and appropriate - or you can always write your own. You can select the style that best fits your personality and your relationship with the happy couple.

Answering Questions About the Bride and Groom

To craft a truly memorable speech, it's important to include personal anecdotes and stories about the bride and groom. Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template includes a section to input personal information about the person getting married to reflect on your relationship with the couple and find the right words to celebrate their love.

Template in Action

Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template provides a starting point for your speech, but it's important to make it your own. Use the template as a guide, but don't be afraid to add your own personal touch to make your speech truly unforgettable.

Here's an example of a best-man speech written by Tomco AI:

Good evening, everyone. For those of you who don't know me, I'm the best man, and I have the honor of standing here today to celebrate the marriage of Thomas and Michelle.

Now, I have to be honest with you all. When Thomas first told me he was getting married, I thought he had lost his mind. I mean, let's face it, he got lucky. But then again, Michelle needs to have her head examined for saying yes to him. But as I got to know them as a couple, I realized that they are a match made in heaven.

One thing that really stands out about Thomas and Michelle is their strange sense of humor. They have this uncanny ability to make each other laugh, even in the most awkward situations. I remember one time we were all out to dinner, and Thomas accidentally spilled his drink all over Michelle's lap. Instead of getting upset, they both burst out laughing and started making jokes about it. It was hilarious.

But in all seriousness, I have never seen two people who are more perfect for each other. They complement each other in every way, and their love for each other is truly inspiring. Thomas, you are a lucky man to have found such an amazing woman to spend the rest of your life with. And Michelle, well, you must be crazy, but I'm glad you are.

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. Thomas and Michelle, may your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and lots of strange jokes that only the two of you understand. Congratulations!

Tips & Tricks

Here are some additional tips and tricks for delivering an unforgettable best-man speech:

Keep it short and sweet.

Practice, practice, practice.

Use props or visual aids to enhance your speech.

End on a high note.

In conclusion, Tomco AI's Best Man Speech template can help you create a speech that will make the couple feel special and leave the audience with lasting memories.

By choosing the right style, reflecting on your relationship with the couple, and adding humor and sentimentality, you can deliver a speech that will be remembered for years to come.

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March 10, 2023

By  Claire

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Being asked to be the best man is an honor, but with great honor comes great responsibility – and one of the biggest responsibilities is delivering an unforgettable speech. A memorable best man speech can make a wedding reception truly special, but it can also be a daunting task for many people. Fear not, as we have some tips to help you write the perfect best man speech.

Understanding the Role of the Best Man

Being chosen as the best man is a great honor, but it also comes with a lot of responsibilities. The role of the best man is not just limited to being the groom’s right-hand man, but it involves several important duties that must be fulfilled to make the wedding day a memorable one for everyone.

As the best man, you are not only responsible for throwing the bachelor party, but you also have to make sure that it is a night to remember for the groom and his friends. From picking the perfect venue to arranging the activities, it’s your job to ensure that the groom has a blast on his last night as a single man.

Another important responsibility of the best man is to organize the groomsmen. You have to ensure that everyone is dressed impeccably, knows their cues and duties, and is ready to make the wedding day a success. You are the leader of the groomsmen and must make sure that everyone is on the same page.

Duties and Responsibilities

Planning a bachelor party can be a stressful task, but it’s also a great way to bond with the groom and his friends. You can plan a trip to a different city or even a weekend getaway to make it more exciting. But, as the best man, you have to make sure that the party doesn't get out of hand. You don't want the groom to wake up with a hangover on his wedding day!

When it comes to organizing the groomsmen, you should make sure that everyone is aware of their roles and responsibilities. You can create a schedule of events to keep everyone on track and ensure that everything runs smoothly on the big day. You can also arrange for transportation and make sure that everyone arrives at the wedding venue on time.

The Importance of the Speech

Delivering a memorable wedding speech is undoubtedly the biggest challenge of them all. Your speech is an opportunity to honor the groom, convey your affection for the bride, and share anecdotes that make everyone laugh or even get choked up. It’s important to prepare your speech well in advance to ensure that you don't miss out on anything important.

You can start by introducing yourself and sharing how you met the groom. You can then talk about the qualities that make him a great person and why he is such a good friend. You can also share some funny anecdotes that you have shared with him over the years.

It’s important to remember that your speech should not be too long or too short. You don't want to bore the guests, but at the same time, you don't want to rush through it. Practice your speech in front of a mirror or with a friend to ensure that you deliver it with confidence and ease.

Remember, the wedding day is all about celebrating the love and commitment between the bride and groom. As the best man, your job is to make sure that everything runs smoothly and that everyone has a great time. With a little bit of planning and preparation, you can make the wedding day a memorable one for everyone!

Knowing Your Audience

When preparing your best man speech, it’s important to consider your audience. You will be speaking to diverse group of people, including the bride and groom's families, close friends as well as guests. Here are a few aspects to consider when crafting your speech:

The Bride and Groom

While your speech is about the groom, don't forget to mention the bride. Speak about e their love story, bond and connection. It’s important to mention how much the groom has changed since they met their partner.

Friends and Family

You will be speaking in front of family members and friends from both families. Avoid inappropriate subjects and jokes that might be offensive to anyone. Always keep it lighthearted, warm and polite.

Cultural and Religious Considerations

Take into consideration the cultural and religious background of your listeners. If the gathering is diverse, keep in mind that everyone might not understand your inside jokes and anecdotes.

Crafting Your Speech

Now that you know your audience, let’s start crafting your speech.

Finding Inspiration

Start early and jot down your thoughts, stories, and ideas. Think about the good memories you have with the groom and his partner. A good speech is personal and honest, and sharing genuine anecdotes is one of the best ways to engage with the audience.

Balancing Humor and Sentiment

A perfect best man speech involves an excellent balance between humor and sentiment. While it’s important to make the guests laugh, be mindful on focusing on the positive aspects.

Incorporating Anecdotes and Stories

Personal stories and anecdotes are an essential element of a successful speech. The listeners want to hear about the groom and the bride's personal experiences. Share something special that the two have shared and how they complement each other's strengths and weaknesses.

Avoiding Common Pitfalls

Keep the speech within acceptable and tasteful limits. It's tempting to crack a joke but remember, you don't want to offend anyone. Stay away from sensitive subjects. Avoid discussing your personal experiences if they’re not appropriate for the audience.

Structuring Your Speech

The introduction.

Start your speech with a proper introduction so the audience knows who you are and how you are related to the groom. Start with something funny or a little anecdote about the groom to get the audience involved in your speech.

The body of your speech is where you’ll deliver the main content. Share stories that show the groom's character in good light, highlight the relationship of the newly wedded couple, keep it positive. It’s good to incorporate a few funny stories in between.

The Conclusion

Conclude your speech with the best wishes for the couple’s new life together. You can also make it a little emotional, but avoid causing anyone to cry uncontrollably. Propose a toast to conclude your speech with a bang.

Follow these tips, prepare early, and you’ll be delivering the perfect best man speech in no time!

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Compose a speech that is fitting for the role of the best man at a wedding, with a focus on delivering a memorable and impactful message that will resonate with the bride, groom, and all attendees. The speech should be well-crafted and thoughtfully planned, incorporating personal anecdotes, humor, and heartfelt sentiments to showcase the unique bond between the best man and the groom. It should also be delivered with confidence and poise, capturing the attention of the audience and leaving a lasting impression on all who hear it.

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“I'm the best man in my friend's wedding this summer, and I'm dreading the speech. I have absolutely no idea what to say. Should I get an AI to help me? Or would that make me the worst man?” 

—Lost for Words

You're certainly not alone in realizing that some onerous creative or emotive task can be completed relatively painlessly with AI. The same thought has undoubtedly occurred to the tongue-tied Tinder user who discovers that he can enlist a digital Cyrano to pen his opening lines to a prospective date; or to the exhausted mother who recognizes that she has at her fingertips a tireless Scheherazade that can produce an infinite scroll of bedtime stories for her children; or to the overworked son who realizes that he can generate, in seconds, a personalized poem for his father's retirement party.

Creatively expressing our feelings to others is time-consuming, uncompensated, and emotionally taxing—that is, at any rate, the message implicit in some of the marketing of large language models. When Microsoft, for instance, introduced its AI Copilot products in March, it imagined a mother using the software to generate a speech for her daughter's high school graduation.

There are multiple ways you might use an LLM to produce a moving toast, ranging from the least intrusive (asking ChatGPT for writing tips or a quick proofread) to the more hands-on (generating a draft of the speech, which you can then customize). New sites like ToastWiz have built tools on top of GPT-4 that allow you to plug in “your stories and feelings” and generate three unique outputs for $30. Meanwhile, wedding-planning apps like Joy have incorporated AI that promises to help users with their “toughest wedding-related wordage.” The feature can produce toasts, or even vows , in the style of Shakespeare or Rumi, and aims to help users “bring their emotions on to paper in fun and creative ways.”

These aren't the first commercial products that have promised to offshore the difficult work of human expression—or what is increasingly called “emotional labor.” Long before the recent AI boom, people turned to human ghostwriters to pen wedding speeches. (“Toast whisperers,” as The New York Times noted in 2015, were an under-the-table service that many clients were too embarrassed to admit paying for.) And I imagine that you, like many people, have for years sent greeting cards that leverage the words of a professional writer to articulate what are allegedly your own thoughts and emotions. This practice, of course, was not without controversy and critics. Hallmark's very first slogan, introduced in 1944, was “When you care enough to send the very best,” a linguistic sleight of hand that inverted the most common critique of commercial greeting cards—that relying on the words of professionals was, in fact, evidence that you did not care enough to speak from your heart.

Such products have long approached what sociologist Arlie Russell Hochschild calls the “commodity frontier”—the threshold of activities we deem “too personal to pay for.” It's a perimeter that exists even when the products we enlist are (for the moment) free, and the arrival of new technologies calls for its constant renegotiation. In the case of AI, there have already been some breaches of this still-hazy border. When Vanderbilt University enlisted ChatGPT to generate an email offering condolences to the victims of the mass shooting at Michigan State, the school was criticized for using automated tools for a gesture that demanded, as one student put it, “genuine, human empathy, not a robot.”

Writing a wedding speech would seem to require similar emotional engagement. But perhaps you have reasoned that intent and selection—“It's the thought!”—are what matters in these situations. You are, after all, the one providing the model with the essential, albeit rough, emotive ingredients to produce the finished product. In conversations about AI-generated text, the prompt is often spoken of as the logos , the spiritual breath of human authenticity that animates the synthetic output (dismissed as so much mechanical “wordage”) with life and meaning. Just as the computer was, for Steve Jobs, a “bicycle for the mind,” so language-generation tools might be regarded as the vehicle that transports the spirit of our emotions from their point of origin to a desired destination.

But I'm not sure it's so easy to separate intent from expression, or emotions from behavior. Some psychological experiments have demonstrated that it's our words and actions that allow us to experience emotions, not the other way around—like the famous example of how forcing oneself to smile can induce a feeling of happiness. It's possible that expression, including linguistic expression, is not a mere afterthought in our emotional lives, but the whole point. If that's true, then the decision to outsource your speechwriting might contribute to a kind of emotional atrophy, a gradual loss of the ability to truly inhabit your internal states—or modulate them. A podcaster recently boasted that a friend of his who struggles with anger management uses AI “tone filters” when communicating with people who provoke his temper, feeding rageful rants into ChatGPT and asking the model to rewrite them “in a nicer way.”

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If I can offer some more prescriptive parting advice, Lost, I'd urge you to consider that the logic of the commodity frontier can work in reverse. It's not that there are certain realms of human experience that are intrinsically too sacred to automate, which seems to be what you're getting at when you ask whether using AI for your speech would make you the “worst man.” On the contrary, it may be that human intimacy blooms in precisely those pockets of life that have not yet been widely exploited by commercial or mechanical forces. Perhaps our very notion of meaningful human connection depends on our refusal to relinquish such emotional work.

In the end, it's the effort we put into a task that determines its subjective significance. If you decide to hand over the speechwriting work to a machine, then you are essentially confirming that it is meaningless boilerplate. If, on the other hand, you decide to write the toast yourself, you will undoubtedly come to see this work—and the end product—as important, if only because your actions have reinforced your belief that it is worthy of your time and attention. Maybe the speech won't achieve a toast-masterish polish or a Hallmark card's concision, but your words may lead you to your own emotions, which, for the time being, we aren't so eager to automate.

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Pat yourself on the back—you're the best man. It's a good feeling when one of your loved ones asks you to be their right hand for the wedding. Beyond the fun best man duties , like planning an epic bach party , you'll have to give a rousing best man speech. We believe it's arguably the most meaningful duty, but don't let that get you nervous. Whether you're a public speaking pro or have only delivered speeches while on the eighth-grade debate team, boost your chances of making your best man speech a hit by using our helpful tips, ideas and examples for inspiration.

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Printable Best Man Speech Template

Delivering a best man wedding speech doesn't have to feel like a chore. Use the template below as a checklist while you're writing your best man speech.

How to Write a Best Man Speech Outline

We're guessing the thought of crafting a flawless best man speech from scratch feels pretty overwhelming right about now. Start by drafting a bare-bones outline (trust us, drawing up a rough outline is way more palatable than writing a fully fleshed-out speech). You don't need to include every element in your wedding speech . Instead, customize it to fit the couple, the event and your relationship with the groom.

1. Have a killer opening line.

Successful best man speeches always start with a good opener. Introduce yourself and explain your connection to the happy couple. Have fun with this part by sharing a quick joke or quoting a poem so your speech doesn't start off stale. For example, "Hello everyone! For those of you who don't know me, thank you so much for coming to my wedding. [pause for laughter] Sorry about that...I'm a little nervous."

2. Thank the other speakers.

Once you address the audience, give props to the previous speaker to help lead into your speech. If you know your speech has a sillier sentiment, now's your chance to warn your audience in the change of direction. Here's an example: "Let's give it up to the amazing speech given by the wonderful maid of honor . If you enjoyed how thoughtful and sweet her speech was, you better get the tissues ready for this one!"

Next, express your gratitude to the couple's parents. Thank the couples' parents for not only raising incredible adults and, if they helped pay for the wedding, for hosting such a great party. Here's an example: "I'd like to begin by expressing my deepest gratitude to the couples' parents for raising such amazing people, who I'm fortunate to call my best friends. I would also like to thank their parents for hosting such an awesome celebration for all of us to enjoy this evening."

3. Say a few words about your friend's new spouse.

Another writing a best man speech tip is always to give a special shoutout to the new spouse so they feel welcomed and included. Yes, we know you most likely have a closer relationship with the groom, but don't let that stop you from showering them with kind words––it's their big day too. Talk about the qualities you like about them and why you love them in the groom's life. Try this, "I'm so happy [Spouse's Name] fell in love with [Groom's Name]. Firsthand I've seen the grace, intelligence and confidence [Spouse's Name] has, which explains why [Groom's Name] knew he wanted to marry [Spouse's Name] after their first date."

4. Share personal stories.

What's going to make your best man speech stand out are personal stories. We suggest adding one or two anecdotes, like your favorite memories with the groom (and their partner, if you want). Avoid choosing a story that rambles on and has no sentimental or funny ending—keep it lighthearted and short. Here's a silly example, "I remember when we first met in first grade. [Groom's Name] had just glued his hand to his face but still used his free one to shake my hand and ask if I wanted to be his friend."

5. Talk about the couple's relationship.

This is the time to speak about why the groom and their new spouse are a great couple. Share how they first met and how their relationship has grown so other guests can get a better insight into the newlyweds. If you helped the love birds meet, say something like this in your best man speech: "I know I said earlier I'm the best man, but I lied. I'm actually Cupid because I'm the one who introduced these two eight years ago."

6. Propose a toast.

Finally, close out your best man speech with a heartfelt toast. Ask everyone to raise a glass and provide well wishes to the newly married couple. Steal this wedding toast : "Everyone, please join me in raising a glass to such a wonderful couple. I wish you a lifetime of peace, love and happiness. Love you guys!"

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Now that you know how to write the outline, let us provide you with some inspiration. Here are four best man speech ideas for every type of delivery.

Short Best Man Speech Example

Short best man speeches can make the grade just as much as long ones. Try this short but sweet example.

As the poet, Dante once said, 'A great flame follows a little spark.' When [Groom's Name] met [Spouse's Name], there was a little spark. I know because I talked to him the next day.

From the way he talked about [Spouse's Name], this stranger he chatted up at a Halloween party, I could tell this spark was something special.

You two are fantastic together. May the flame burn long, and may sparks continue to fly. Cheers to the newlyweds!

Funny Best Man Speech Example

Funny best man speeches are our favorite. You get to show off your comedic skills while giving loving well-wishes to the happy couple.

Hello! For those who don't know me, I'm [Your Name], the best man. I've known [Groom's Name] since middle school, which means that it was before we learned mullets weren't a good look for either of us.

[Groom's Name] and [Spouse's Name] told me there are some topics I should avoid in this speech so…[Look through cue cards, then shake head and dramatically drop them all to the floor but one.]

[Reading from the remaining cue card] [Groom's Name] is really the best friend I've ever had. He's done so many wonderful things it would be difficult to name them all. Hey, [a Groomsman's Name], I can't read your handwriting here!

But seriously, it's all true. This guy is a great friend, the best I've got, and I'm very proud to stand by his side today.

[Spouse's Name], I was hoping to be the best-looking person in the room today but obviously, I failed miserably. You look beautiful and radiant. I'm beyond happy for the two of you.

May you always find joy in the little things, like your Xbox and 'Star Wars.' Oh wait, that's my personal goal. You should actually find joy in each other, and do everything you can to have a lifetime of happiness together. Let's toast the newlyweds!

Best Man Speech for Brother Example

Need best man speech examples for your brother? Use our speech below as a guide to delivering a sweet message to your older or younger brother.

On my fourth birthday, my parents got me a brother…I wanted a puppy.

But seriously, as a kid [Groom's Name] wanted to do everything I did. He used to follow me around. He used to sneak into my room and play with my Matchbox cars. Our parents could get him to eat his broccoli by making me eat my broccoli.

It wasn't until after I went to college that he started going down his own path. He started doing volunteer work. He found a job he loves, a pretty killer apartment and, of course, he found [Spouse's Name].

[Spouse's Name], you're the nicest person I've ever met, and my brother is so blessed to have someone like you in his life. Thank you for being there for him.

I'm so happy you two found each other especially because I'm gaining a sister today. Oh, and I want to set the record straight. I'm glad I didn't get a puppy that day. I love you, little bro.

Congratulations to both of you. I wish you lots of laughter, love and joy as a married couple. Cheers to the newlyweds!

Best Man Speech for Best Friend Example

For those who need a best man speech sample for their best friend, we got you covered. Here's how to tell your BFF you're happy for them on their special day.

Good evening, everyone! I'm [Your Name], and I'm extremely honored to call myself [Groom's Name]'s best man. Also, please excuse the puffiness under my eyes, I've been happy crying since before the ceremony.

I first met [Groom's Name] while working at a pizza joint called Domenica's while in college. I hated being a server with all my heart, but whenever [Groom's Name] and I were scheduled together, it made it so much more bearable.

We laughed until we cried, ate hundreds of garlic knots and I can't tell you the amount of times we accidentally got pizza dough stuck to the ceiling during our pizza toss competitions. But even after we both quit and moved on to bigger and better things, we still kept in touch and I'm eternally grateful.

One of those bigger and better things was [Spouse's Name]. [Groom's Name] really discovered the perfect piece to his puzzle. [Spouse's Name] laughs at his bad jokes, listens to his long monologues about Batman vs. Superman and most importantly, loves him no matter what. [Spouse's Name] is a phenomenal and caring person who deserves the world, and I know [Groom's Name] will do everything he can to give it to them.

Thank you both for allowing me to be a part of your beautiful wedding, and I can't wait to see what else is in store for you in the future. Love you guys, and cheers to the handsome couple!

Best Man Speech Tips

Good news! We got how to give a best man speech tips from Dominic Bliss, wedding writer and author of Being the Best Man for Dummies. Study up on these helpful pointers below to minimize pre-speech jitters and ensure a smooth delivery.

Plan ahead.

The first tip in our guide on how to write a best man speech is to get started in advance. (As in, do not procrastinate.) "Start writing a best man speech at least two months before the wedding," Bliss says. "As the wedding nears, there are lots of events—suit fittings and a coed shower, perhaps—that could distract you from getting your writing done." Brainstorm and write down any stories, jokes or best man speech quotes you want to include. The more time you have to prepare your best man speech, the better. This way, you'll be able to be fully present at upcoming wedding festivities.

Be genuine.

Whether the wedding guests are strangers or family, it can feel nerve-racking to deliver your best man speech with all eyes on you. To ease the awkwardness, provide anecdotes and stories about your relationship with the couple. Everyone loves a bit of nostalgia, and the guests get to know you better.

With that said, stay true to how you normally act while making your speech. There's no need for you to change who you are for some made-up public speaking persona. If you feel more comfortable cracking jokes throughout your speech, do it. If you are better at being sentimental and don't mind leaving everyone misty-eyed, take that approach. Remember, the couple chose you to speak at their wedding because they felt you could add something special to their big day. As long as you deliver a heartfelt speech, the newlyweds and guests will love it.

Know what topics to avoid.

There are a few topics to omit from the best man speech. No matter how funny you (and even the groom) might think they are, someone is bound to be offended or put off if you mention:

• Negativity about marriage in general.
• Past relationships.
• Previous marriages/divorces.
• Drinking, drugs, gambling.
• "Adult" humor or any other mention of sex.

After all, your best man speech should celebrate the newlywed couple and their love rather than causing future friction. Keep it PG.

Consider adding jokes.

If you want to deliver a funny best man speech, consider poking some fun at the groom. "Every groom will have some funny characteristic or quirk you can ridicule," Bliss notes. "As long as it's something everyone can appreciate, it's sure to get a laugh. Avoid obscure references or inside jokes. You want older guests and those who don't know him well to see the funny side too." Be strategic about your jokes too. You can make jokes about the groom but leave their new spouse alone.

Write it down.

Even those with a great memory will feel more confident with a written speech or at least a few bullet points to keep them on track. Nerves can mess with your memory, so don't think you're a failure if you have to bring notes with you. (Even CEOs do this at corporate events.) Bliss suggests using small note cards instead of a sheet of paper since they "won't flap around."

And yes we know many groomsmen will want to read off their cell phones out of convenience, but wedding planners recommend against it. The lighting from your phone screen can ruin the wedding photographer's photos and can be distracting to guests. Practice writing down your speech instead—it's quite soothing.

Practice with an audience.

This tip is a must when it comes to writing a best man speech. Even if you think you have this whole thing in the bag, practice delivering your wedding speech aloud at least three times. When you're by yourself, take a video and watch the playback to get a feel for how your speech is going. (Do you say "um" between every sentence? Are your gestures a little robotic?) If your friends can't offer critiques in person, "send [the video] to a close friend who won't be going to the wedding and who can give you honest feedback," Bliss recommends.

Finally: don't mumble. A great best man speech becomes boring if it's monotonous or guests are straining to hear you. Speak confidently and slowly.

Best Man Frequently Asked Questions

If this is your first time giving a best man speech, you might have a lot of questions. Here are answers to the top wedding speech inquiries.

How Long Should a Best Man Speech Be?

In general, the best man speech length should be at least three minutes, but no more than five minutes. This is enough time to say something meaningful before guests get too antsy. Of course, you should adjust your speech length to the event. If you're speaking at a last-minute wedding, it might require a brief speech, while a formal affair could call for a longer toast. But you might also be wondering, "how many words should a best man speech be?" We suggest between 700 to 1000 words.

How to Start a Best Man Speech

Begin your speech by addressing the audience and thanking them for attending the wedding. Here's an example, "Hello, everyone. On behalf of the newlyweds, I want to thank everyone for attending this amazing celebration." You can even butter up the crowd by saying how lovely everyone looks this evening. Then, introduce yourself and how you know the groom or couple. This is a great opportunity to add a funny story or memory you have with them that can lead you into the rest of your speech.

How to End a Best Man Speech

Raise your glass and offer a toast wishing the couple a lifetime of happiness, excellent health and success. Your toast can include one final joke or be a marriage quote from your and the groom's favorite movie. Either way, take this chance to sincerely express the newlyweds well. Remember, concluding the speech is the easiest part.

Does the Best Man Have to Give a Speech?

It's not required, but it's expected that the best man gives a speech—especially if the other honor attendants are giving one. If speaking in public makes your stomach turn, consider showing your appreciation for the couple in a different way. We've seen best men do upbeat choreography, sing the couple's favorite song or even present a wedding video they made.

When Does the Best Man Give His Speech?

Following the traditional wedding speech order , the best man speaks after the maid of honor and is the last speech during the reception. There's no need to use this itinerary since the speech order depends on your reception timeline and wedding party size. The to-be-weds might even ask you to deliver your speech during the rehearsal dinner, which most likely will be in front of a smaller audience (score!). Before the wedding and during, double-check with the couple to ensure you know when to give your best man speech so no one has to hunt you down when it's your turn.

Elon Musk Is The World’s Richest Person Again Thanks To His New AI Startup

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Elon Musk had a Memorial Day Weekend to remember, announcing over the holiday that his new artificial intelligence startup xAI had raised $6 billion at an $18 billion pre-money valuation . That’s enough to push Musk past French luxury goods tycoon Bernard Arnault— yet again —for the title of the world’s richest person.

Forbes estimates Musk’s net worth to be $209.5 billion as of Tuesday’s market close, $5.2 billion more than Arnault, who is worth an estimated $204.3 billion. Amazon’s Jeff Bezos fell to a close third–with a fortune estimated at $200 billion–after trading the number two spot with Musk in recent months.

Musk launched xAI–best known for its Grok chatbot–last July to compete with the likes of ChatGPT creator OpenAI, which Musk also cofounded in 2015 before leaving the company three years later. Musk, who has accused ChatGPT of being “woke,” sued OpenAI in March , alleging that its pursuit of profits has undermined its original mission of developing open-source artificial general intelligence that will “benefit humanity.” In the Sunday press release announcing its recent fundraise, xAI touted the release of an open-source version of Grok among its accomplishments to date. In a tweet the following day , Musk invited engineers to “Join xAI if you believe in our mission of understanding the universe, which requires maximally rigorous pursuit of the truth, without regard to popularity or political correctness.”

Forbes estimates that Musk owns a 60% stake in xAI worth $14.4 billion after the recent deal, which was led by a group of investors that also backed his $44 billion (enterprise value) takeover of Twitter (which Musk has since renamed X): Valor Equity Partners, Vy Capital, Andreessen Horowitz, Sequoia Capital, Fidelity Management & Research Company, and Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal of Saudi Arabia’s Kingdom Holding Company. The rest of Musk’s fortune is largely tied up in his nearly 12% Tesla stake (excluding options) and estimated 42% SpaceX stake–each worth around $75 billion at Tuesday’s market close. Meanwhile, Forbes estimates that the value of Musk’s 74% stake in his social media company is now worth roughly $7 billion– or nearly 70% less than he paid for it in 2022.

Tesla’s seesawing stock and soaring SpaceX shares have moved Musk into, and out of, the planet’s No. 1 spot in recent years. Arnault most recently overtook Musk in late January, when a Delaware judge voided nearly $50 billion of performance based Tesla stock options originally granted to Musk in 2018, after ruling that Musk and certain Tesla board members failed to prove that the process underlying the award was fair. Tesla shareholders are set to vote on the reapproval of Musk’s options–which Forbes discounted by 50% following the Delaware ruling–on June 13. Meanwhile, SpaceX is reportedly looking to do a tender offer that would value the company at around $200 billion—up from $180 billion last December. So in other words, Arnault’s days at the top may have already been numbered.

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