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How to Begin a Wedding Speech: 20 Speech Introductions

Got to give a speech but don't know where to begin? Our wedding speech introduction examples will help you get started

Love them or hate them, the speeches are central to any wedding reception, but it can be nerve-wracking if you're the one standing up to say a few words. Whether you're the bride , groom , father of the bride , best man or maid of honour , we've got you covered with tips to help you begin your wedding speech , including some introduction examples, so you can start strong and feel confident. 

"Getting the introduction right is key because it sets the tone for the whole speech," explains wedding wordsmith and professional speechwriter Amerdeep Sanghera of Lovingly Penned . "You don't want guests thinking, 'Oh no, not another speech'. Instead, you want to see those smiles spread. So the introduction is pretty much the most important part of the whole thing."

Sounds stressful, right? Well, don't panic. From funny opening lines to general tips on how to get started, scroll on to make sure your speech is talked about for all the right reasons… 

How to Start Your Wedding Speech

Knowing how to start your wedding speech - whether it's a traditional wedding speech or if you're going for a more modern take - can be challenging, but we've asked the experts for tips and ideas on how to beginning a wedding speech. 

1. Introduce Yourself

It doesn't matter if you're the father of the bride, the maid of honour, the best man – even the groom – it’s always polite to introduce yourself. Smile as you do so and make a bit of a joke if you feel tense, or reference how important the day is if you don’t feel like joking:

• “Hi, I’m [BRIDE/GROOM’S NAME] – you should probably all know who I am, and if you don’t, well done for sneaking in unnoticed.”
• “Hi, I’m [BEST MAN’S NAME], but you can call me by my full name: [BEST-MAN’S-NAME-WOULD-YOU-LIKE-A-DRINK].”
• “Hello, I’m [FATHER OF THE BRIDE’S NAME] and I’m so delighted to welcome you all here on this beautiful day.”

Don’t go overboard with a long-winded introduction about yourself – a line or two about who you are and your role in the day will be enough.

To grab the audience's attention, be confident and keep it simple. If in doubt, start with the thank-yous. If you’re the best man, it’s fine to start with a joke (check out some of our  tried and tested best man jokes to inspire you) but remember, this isn't a stand-up routine and you should always add how honoured you are to be part of the day. 

2. Make Eye Contact

Pick a few reassuring faces in the crowd and pitch your speech to them – but don’t focus just on one person. Aim for a couple of different locations around the room so the whole audience feels engaged. "A simple way to do this early on is to ask people to give the couple a round of applause," adds Amerdeep. 

If the idea of making eye contact is too much, pick inanimate objects to focus on but mix them up.

3. Have Notes to Hand

Don’t think you need to know your whole speech off by heart – you’ll feel more confident if you have your notes to hand and no one will judge you for it. If you don’t want it to feel too scripted, simply give yourself cue cards to work from.

4. Don’t Drink Too Much

Don’t try and drown your nerves before you stand up. You might not remember your performance, but everyone else will (for a long time). Consider a one-drink limit before you begin your speech and save the celebratory fizz for after you’ve completed it – slur free!

5. Consider Hiring a Pro

If you're really stumped on how to begin your wedding speech, a professional speechwriter will help you gather your thoughts and anecdotes and put them into a coherent structure to get you started.

Speech Introduction Examples

Here are a few more ways to introduce your speech, no matter what role you’re playing in the wedding day – just tweak it to suit you and your speech.

Bride and/or Groom or Newlyweds 

• “We would like to welcome all of you here today to celebrate and thank you for choosing to spend the day with us."
• "Hello everyone! I hope you're having a wonderful day so far."
• "On behalf of me and my new [WIFE/HUSBAND/SPOUSE], I'd like to thank you all for coming today!"
• "Hi everyone - hopefully you all know who I am, otherwise you might be at the wrong wedding..."
• "If you don't know me, allow me to introduce myself - I'm the luckiest person in the world!"

Father of the Bride or Groom

• “Friends and family of [NAME] and [NAME], thank you for being here today to celebrate their marriage.”
• “The highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage.”
• “Today, promises have become permanent and friends have become family.”
• “Thank you for joining us today on such a wonderful occasion.”
• "What an honour I have, to give a speech today on my child's wedding day."

Maid of Honour or Bridesmaid Speech Introduction Examples

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• “Welcome to the most important day in the lives of [NAME] and [NAME].”
• “Today is a celebration and we are here to celebrate with [NAME] and [NAME].”
• “Love has brought [NAME] and [NAME] and everyone in this room together today.”

Amerdeep also recommends: "Hello, beautiful people! I can't help but feel like I'm on stage at the Oscars, standing here. Sadly, there's no red carpet or golden statue for me, but I do have the privilege of celebrating two incredible people and their love story tonight."

Hitched Editor Zoe Burke chose to go for humour when it came to starting her maid of honour speech. "I was the first one speaking and I knew I needed a laugh quickly to help with my nerves, so I said 'Well, I've had the chance to wear a beautiful dress, carry a gorgeous bouquet and walk down the aisle without any of the financial pressure or stress of planning a wedding, so thank you!'

"It can be trickier figuring out how to start a wedding speech if you're not one of the traditional speech givers, but adding in some humour always helps!"

You can see more maid of honour speech examples  here.

• “My name is [BEST MAN] and it’s an honour to be here today as [GROOM]’s best man.”
• “Hi, I’m [NAME] and it’s time for me to do this speech I scribbled down about an hour before the ceremony started.”
• “I must admit, I’m not accustomed to public speaking. Up until I was asked to give this speech I thought a toastmaster was a kind of kitchen appliance!”
• “Before I begin, I must admit that [NAME] and [NAME] have asked that I remove anything resembling innuendo from this speech – I’ve promised if I come across anything even slightly risqué, I’ll whip it out immediately.”

"Another favourite of mine is, 'Alright, let's kick off this party! But before we hit the dance floor, let me share a few stories about our fearless groom and his journey to this moment…'" adds Amerdeep.

If you’re still worrying about your wedding speech, don’t miss our guide on how to deal with wedding speech nerves .

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Free Wedding Speech Examples to Celebrate the Big Day

These wedding speech examples will help your write a memorable wedding toast for the big day.

If someone has asked you to make a speech at a wedding, then you probably know the wedding couple pretty well. And since you know and love them, you'll want to make that speech personal, meaningful, engaging, and maybe even a little charming. Don't worry - we've got your back with free wedding speech examples you can use as guides. Use any of these sample wedding speeches as a jumping off point to help you speak from the heart. You've got this.

Best Man's Wedding Speech

The best man's speech is usually upbeat and lighthearted. He may tell some stories about the couple, and if he has known one or both of them since childhood, he may add a few tales from that period, too.

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Lighthearted & Amusing Best Man Speech Example

(Name) has asked me to talk today about what a great guy he is, and so I can honestly say that he's handsome, brilliant, funny and perrr.... (TURN TO GROOM) ... (Groom's name), I can't read your writing. What's this last word? Since we met, I have seen his transformation from an awkward youth to a slightly less awkward adult, and it is my great pleasure to speak on this important occasion.

Of course, we wouldn't be here today without (partner's name) and his/her/their ability to get shy old (groom's name) to propose. (Partner's name), I'm sure it was worth the wait. I often think that (partner's name) makes (groom's name) look good. Mainly by standing next to him. He/she/they is/are full of warmth, humor, and initiative.

Marriage is a serious matter which shouldn't be entered into without careful consideration and since (groom's name) took his sweet time proposing, I think it's safe to say he's thought about this for a long time. (Add humorous story about his commitment issues here).

In conclusion, these two married today for better and for worse. (Groom's name) couldn't have done better and (partner's name) couldn't have done….. (look down at notes and pause) better either. I'd like to thank the attendants on behalf of the couple. They all look wonderful, and I'm sure you'll all agree they have performed their role splendidly. And finally, on behalf of everyone here, I can truly say we wish nothing but the best for your future. You are a unique and perfectly matched couple, and we hope that all your dreams come true, and you have a magical life together. Ladies and Gentlemen, please join me in a toast............. To (couple's names).

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Groom's Wedding Speech

The groom's speech should be one that primarily expresses his appreciation for the love and support of his friends and family. He should also express his devotion to his new spouse.

Heartfelt Groom's Speech Example

I would just like to thank everybody for coming today, especially those that have traveled quite a ways to celebrate this day with us. Ever since I first started dating (spouse's name), his/her/their family has made me feel welcome and, well, like a member of the family. Now, I am officially part of that wonderful family, and I'm very grateful.

I would like to thank both sets of parents since neither (spouse's name) nor I would be here today if it weren't for them. I would also like to thank you for all your love and support over the years, and for all the advice you have given us. If we can raise a family half as wonderful, then we will be very happy.

I must also thank my new in-laws for bringing up such a compassionate and intelligent son/daughter/child. And, to my husband/wife/partner, you look absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for everything you've done. You know everything about me and love me just the same. I have my faults, yet you still agreed to marry me. I am extremely lucky today to be the one to marry you, and I know this is the start of many happy years together. I would like to thank (best man's name) for agreeing to be my best man and all the attendants for their help and support. Here's a toast to you all.

Bride's Wedding Speech

The bride's speech is very similar to the groom's speech. She should also express her appreciation to her family and friends and express her love for her new spouse.

Elegant Bride Speech Example

(Spouse's name) and I feel privileged to be sharing our day with all our friends and family who have been so important to us throughout our lives. Many of you traveled for quite a long distance. Thanks to all of you for the efforts and sacrifices you have made to be with us today.

I also want to thank the most wonderful parents a child could ever have. Not only for the love, support and guidance over the years, but also for everything you've done to help make this day perfect. We would have never managed without you both, and today would not have been possible or so special. Thank you to both sets of our parents from the bottom of our hearts.

Now it's time to thank my beautiful bridesmaids for everything they've done and for being the greatest friends ever. To my maid of honor, (maid of honor's name), you have been a lifesaver. You truly are the definition of a best friend and sister. Thank you for always being there for me.

(Spouse's name), I want to thank you for making my life complete. I am so lucky to be your wife, and I look forward to our life together. Finally, we would like to thank each one of you for being here with us on this special day.

Groom's or Bride's Father Speech

The groom's or bride's father should give a speech that welcomes the bride or groom into the family. He should also mention the joining of the two families and express well wishes and thoughts of happiness for the newly married couple's future.

Thoughtful Welcome Speech Example

Good afternoon everyone. First of all, on behalf of my wife and I, I would like to welcome (groom's or bride's parents) into the family. I'd also like to welcome relatives and friends of both families and thank you all for being here, especially those of you who have traveled a long way to make this special occasion so memorable. (Bride and groom's names) have obviously worked really hard on this beautiful wedding, and I'm sure everyone here agrees that the ceremony was wonderful.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to thank everyone else involved in making the day so special. At this point, I would like to formally welcome (bride or groom) into the family, even though you have been part of it for a good while now. Without sounding too corny, (bride or groom's name), you are a great person who clearly loves our (son/daughter/child) and obviously makes him/her/them very happy. I think you have been with (groom or bride's name) long enough now to know what you are getting yourself into by joining our family, so, to be honest, I don't have any sympathy for you. Seriously though (groom or bride's name), we are glad that you are part of our family, and I am proud to have you as a (son-in-law or daughter-in-law).

Sticking with tradition, I'd like to leave the new couple with some words of advice as they enter into this next stage of their lives together. As a great philosopher once said, a man who gives in when he is wrong is a wise man. Whilst a man who gives in when he is right is married. All that remains is for me to ask that you all join me in a toast to the happy couple. May you both live as long as you like and have all that you need for as long as you live. Ladies and Gentlemen, I give you (bride and groom's names).

Maid of Honor's Speech

The maid of honor's speech might give thanks to the bride for being chosen as the honored attendant. She might also give a little history as to how the bride and groom met, as well as when she first noticed that they had fallen in love. The bride's maid of honor could also relate some humorous, though not embarrassing, stories about the bride or the newly married couple.

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Gracious Maid of Honor Speech Example

When (bride's name) asked me to be her maid of honor, I started wondering where the custom of having a bridesmaid originated from. My research led me to the interesting origins of many of our wedding customs, and everything is done to protect the bride from misfortune on her wedding day.

In the old days, sometimes marriage was by capture, and a maiden was guarded by her family to prevent seizure. The bridesmaids would often act as decoys by wearing dresses similar to the bride's to confuse the kidnappers and to keep evil spirits away. Today, I have done my best to keep the evil spirits away, but at least the family wasn't a problem!

Both of you have found your other half. Thank you (bride's name) for being such a wonderful best friend. I'm glad you have found (spouse's name), and I know that he/she/they will always love you. Always love and respect each other. Remember that a married couple are indeed best friends, and good friendships are built not with time, but with trust! May you grow old together on one pillow, and may your life be filled with happiness and joy! My love to the both of you!

Craft Your Perfect Wedding Speech

Giving a wedding toast or speech doesn't have to be complicated or difficult. Base your speech ideas on your history with the couple, your friendship, and their love. With these examples to follow, you can craft a wedding speech that honors the newlywed couple and expresses your gratitude for being a part of their special day. Remember, the most important part of your wedding day speech is to speak from the heart.

How to Begin a Wedding Speech: Great Opening Lines

Handy one-liners to get your speech off to an amazing start.

If you've read our post on how to make a great wedding speech , you'll know that it's really important to start strong! Well, here we're showing you how to do exactly that, with a list of the best wedding speech opening lines . The beauty of this list is that it works for any kind of wedding speech, whether you're the bride, groom, best man, bridesmaid, father-of-the-bride, or even the flower girl or the groom's granny!

We've made sure to include lots of different options so there's something to suit every style of speech, whether you want to keep it simple, bring the audience to tears, or give them a giggle with a joke . Some of our wedding speech opening lines can be customised, too, to help you make your speech even more personal. So, let's dive in!

Our Favourite Wedding Speech Opening Lines

To help you find what you're looking for, we've split our sample opening lines into three categories; simple and sincere opening lines, funny opening lines and opening lines with quotes from famous people.

Note: (name) can indicate yourself, the bride/groom, the couple as a whole, or another member of the wedding party.  

Wedding Speech Opening Lines: Simple and Sincere Opening Lines

"Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, and thank you (name) for the kind introduction."

"Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. As (name's friend/relative), I'm delighted to welcome you all here tonight."

"Thank you so much, (name), for such a wonderful introduction. I only hope I can live up to your kind words!"

"Hello everyone. I hope you're all having a great night so far."

"Hello, I'm (name) and, for those of you who don't already know me, I'm (relation to couple)."

"Hi everybody, I'm (name), and I'm here to talk a little bit about my good friend (name)."

"Hi everyone, I'm (name), and I'm going to talk a little bit about (name). When I was writing this speech, I asked myself how I could sum up (X) years of friendship, laughter and adventures in one speech, and I decided that I can't. We'd be here all night."

"Hello everybody and welcome. I think we can all agree that it's been a wonderful day so far. (Couple names), you should be really proud of the amazing day you've put together. We're all very lucky to be a part of it."

"Hello everyone. I hope you're all having a great night so far. My life changed completely on (date, year), when (name) came into my life, and it changes again today, as they embark on their latest adventure with (name)."

"Hi everybody. Thank you for the warm welcome. Mark Twain once said that 'there are only two types of speakers in the world. 1. The nervous and 2. Liars.' I'm definitely in the former category, so I hope you'll forgive me if I'm a little bit shaky this evening."

Wedding Speech Opening Lines: Funny Opening Lines to Make Guests LOL

"Hi everyone, I'm (name), and before any of you ask, yes I am single."

"Hi everyone, I'm (name), and I'll be your speaker for the next 95 minutes."

"Hi everybody. If you don't know who I am... well, you're probably at the wrong wedding! But stick around, we need extra people for the conga line."

"Hi everyone. You're probably wondering why I gathered you here today. I've got a once-in-a-lifetime investment opportunity that I know you're going to - sorry, wrong speech!"

"Hello everyone! Thank you all for being here on such an exciting night. Yes, the rumours are true, I will be debuting some new choreography on the dance floor this evening. But in the mean time, I suppose I should talk a little bit about (couple names)."

"Hello, and welcome. You may know me as (name's friend/relative), but tonight, I go by the title, (name), Lord of the Dance."

"Hi everyone. Just in case you don't already know, I'm (name) and I'm the best man. There are some really successful, good-looking, charming men in the room tonight, but now that it's written on the ceremony program in black and white, it's official - I am the best."

"Hi everyone, I'm (name), and I'd like to begin my speech with a quote from the great Seamus Heaney/Maya Angelou/Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr./Mother Teresa... but unfortunately I left my speech in my other jacket. So you'll have to make do with me!"

“Hi everyone. If I could just say a few words … I’d be a better public speaker! That gag was actually stolen from Homer Simpson, which should give you an idea of the caliber of speech you can expect from me tonight.”

"Hi everyone, and welcome. Webster's dictionary describes a wedding as, 'The process of removing weeds from one's garden'. That's a Homer Simpson quote, which should give you an idea of the caliber of speech you can expect from me tonight.”

"Hello everyone, I'm (name.) According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right?"

"Hi everyone. When I was preparing this speech, (name) gave me a list of topics that were strictly off-limits, so I'd like to start with those."

"Hi everyone. I'm (name). Anyone who knows me knows that I'm (name)'s biggest fan. So much so, that I was actually quite hurt when I learned that I wasn't going to be involved in the first dance!"

"Hi everyone. I just want to take a few minutes to talk about my good friend (name). I first met (name) when we were 13, and since then, I've always looked up to him. He was, after all, the only 6ft 2' student at (school name)!"

"Good evening everyone. To our English speakers, I'd like to say welcome, we're delighted that you could be with us today to celebrate the marriage of (couple names). To our (other language) speakers, I'd like to say (use Google Translate or ask a native speaker to translate, 'My llama is very handsome. I hope my translation is correct.')"

Wedding Speech Opening Lines: Beginning with a Quote

"Hi everyone. I'd like to begin my speech with a quote from Dr. James Dobson, who said, 'Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without.' "

"Hi everyone. I'd like to begin my speech with a quote from Franz Schubert, who said, 'Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.' "

"Hi everyone. I'd like to begin my speech with a quote from The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., who said, 'There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage.' "

"Hi everyone. I'd like to begin my speech with a quote from Franklin P. Jones, who said, 'Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.' "

"Hi everyone, I'm (name.) I hope you're all having a wonderful day so far. When I got married to my partner (name), somebody told me, 'Don't just be husband and wife, be president of each other's fan clubs,' and I'd like to pass on that same advice to (couple)."

"Hello everyone. I'd like to begin with a quote from Mignon McLaughlin, who said, 'A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.' Over the past (x) years, I've had the pleasure of watching (name) fall in love with (name) over and over again."

Click herefor a handy checklist of people to thank in your wedding speech , plus how to keep the speeches from being too long !

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Master the Art of Delivering an Unforgettable Wedding Welcome Speech

Crafting the perfect speech can be overwhelming, but with Wedding Cheers, it doesn't have to be. We're dedicated to streamlining the speech writing process, ensuring most of our customers receive a first draft in under ten minutes. How do we achieve this? By segmenting speeches into manageable chunks, allowing you to infuse your personal touch and ideas. Once you've provided your insights, our advanced AI takes over, seamlessly weaving together a captivating speech. Whether you aim to evoke laughter, sentiment, or inspiration, Wedding Cheers ensures your audience remains engaged from start to finish.

Writing a best man speech can be a daunting task, but fear not! We've outlined some essential byte-sized "Bits" to help you compose a memorable toast. Follow these steps, and you'll have the audience laughing, crying, and cheering by the end.

Begin your speech by welcoming the guests and expressing your gratitude.

1 . Setting the Tone

An encouraging, positive greeting sets the atmosphere for the rest of the speech.

"Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you all for being here today..."

2 . Acknowledgment

Recognize the effort people have made to be part of the wedding.

"We appreciate the long distances traveled by some to join us at this occasion..."

3 . Gratitude

Expressing thanks at the onset makes guests feel valued and appreciated.

"We are deeply grateful for your presence and participation..."

Introduction

Introduce yourself and define your relationship to the bridal couple.

1 . Establish Identity

State who you are to familiarize yourself with the audience.

"For those who don't me, I am John, the groom's older brother..."

2 . Define Relationship

How you are connected to the couple gives context to your speech.

"As a close friend of both the groom and bride for over a decade..."

3 . Relevance

Highlighting your bond lends more personal touch and authenticity to your speech.

"Having seen their relationship blossom from friendship to something more..."

Expression of Joy

Depict your happiness for the newlyweds and their journey ahead.

1 . Celebration

Convey your excitement for the union.

"This is a joyous occasion as we celebrate the love between..."

2 . Sentiment

Raw expressions of emotion make your speech more heartfelt.

"I couldn't be any happier to see these two amazing people tie the knot..."

3 . Authenticity

Expressing your genuine feelings enhances the sincerity of your speech.

"Seeing them together, I genuinely feel they are perfect for each other..."

Storytelling

Share anecdotes about the couple to engage the audience.

1 . Relevant Anecdotes

Choose a story that is relevant to the couple.

"I remember the time when both of them got lost in a theme park, only to realize that they enjoy each other's company..."

2 . Captivation

Opting to share a funny or endearing story can captivate your audience.

"Their hilarious attempt at cooking their first Thanksgiving turkey, still brings tears of laughter to my eyes..."

3 . Shared Memories

Recalling memories resonates with mutual friends in the audience and creates an emotional impact.

"To our college buddies here, who can forget the time when..."

Description of Couple

Highlight the couple's qualities and their growth in their relationship

1 . Admirable Qualities

Speak about distinct qualities or achievements of bride and groom that speak to their character.

"Our groom here, as most of us know, is a talented guitarist. And the bride, a compassionate veterinarian..."

2 . Complement

Mentioning how the couple compliments each other signifies their bond.

"Where one is impulsive, the other is calm and pragmatic, striking a perfect balance in their lives.."

Sharing how the couple has grown gives a sense of their journey.

"Over the years, I've seen them transform, taking the highs and lows in stride, building an unshakeable bond..."

Advice & Blessings

Impart advice on love and marriage and give your wishes for their future.

Your life's lessons can prove to be valuable advice for the couple.

"In my experience, communication is key in any relationship..."

2 . Personal Anecdotes

Personalizing advice by tying it to an anecdote makes it relatable.

"When I had a disagreement with my wife early in our marriage, I learnt the importance of patience..."

3 . Blessings

Endeavor to finish your advice on a positive note by offering blessings.

"May you always find joy in each other, as you face whatever life throws your way..."

Conclude your speech by offering a toast to the bride and groom.

1 . Indication

Make it clear that the speech is nearing its end and prepare the crowd for the toast.

"As my speech comes to a close, please raise your glasses..."

2 . Raise a Toast

Offer your heartfelt best wishes to the bride and groom.

"To Jane and John, for a lifetime filled with love and happiness..."

3 . Invite Participation

Encourage others to join in and share in this joyous moment.

"Let us all toast to the newlyweds' bright future..."

Thank everyone once again before you sign off.

1 . Reinforce Thanks

Reiterate your appreciation for the audience's presence.

"Thank you again, for being part of this momentous day..."

2 . Acknowledgment of Effort

Recognize everyone's contribution to the success of the event.

"A successful wedding isn't just about the couple, but also about the amazing friends and family who support them..."

3 . Goodbye

End your speech on a high and positive note.

"Let's enjoy the rest of the evening celebrating this new, lovely union. Thank you, and enjoy the celebration!"

Crafting the perfect best man speech might seem daunting at first, but by breaking it down into manageable "Bits" and following this guide, you're well on your way to delivering a memorable oration. Remember, it's the genuine emotion and sincerity behind your words that will resonate the most. So, embrace the moment, speak from the heart, and celebrate the joyous union of two special people in your life. Here's to making memories and raising a toast they'll cherish forever!

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The Ultimate Guide to Writing a Memorable Marriage Welcome Speech

Weddings are one of the most cherished events in a person’s life, a time filled with love, joy, and celebration. A crucial part of this celebration is crafting the best wedding welcome speech, a moment where heartfelt words can set the tone for the entire day. Whether you’re the newlywed, a close family member, or a dear friend, delivering a memorable wedding welcome speech can leave a lasting impression on all the guests. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know about crafting and delivering a speech that will resonate with your audience and make your wedding day even more special.

Understanding the Importance of a Wedding Welcome Speech

What is a wedding welcome speech.

A wedding welcome speech is a formal or informal address delivered during a wedding celebration. It’s an opportunity for someone close to the couple—be it a family member, friend, or even the couple themselves—to express their emotions, share fond memories, offer congratulations, and give their blessings to the newlyweds. This speech serves as a warm, heartfelt introduction to the wedding day, setting the stage for the festivities to come. Whether it’s light-hearted or deeply sentimental, the welcome speech is a beautiful way to kick off your nuptials with a toast that honors the love and commitment of the couple.

Is a Wedding Welcome Speech Necessary?

While a wedding welcome speech is not strictly necessary, it offers a wonderful opportunity to personalize your wedding celebration and make your guests feel truly special. This speech allows you to express your heartfelt gratitude to your loved ones, share in the joy of the occasion, and set a warm, inviting tone for the rest of the festivities. Although it’s not a requirement, a well-crafted wedding welcome speech can significantly enhance the atmosphere of your wedding, creating a lasting impression on your guests and making the day even more memorable.

The Impact of a Well-Delivered Welcome Speech on Your Wedding Reception

A well-crafted wedding welcome speech has the power to shape the entire atmosphere of your wedding reception. It expresses gratitude to the guests, shares in the collective joy, and creates an inclusive environment that makes everyone feel like they’re a part of something truly special. The right words can evoke laughter, tears, and applause, making your wedding a day to remember. A great welcome speech can turn a good wedding into an unforgettable one by setting a positive, celebratory tone that resonates throughout the event, ultimately delivering a memorable speech.

Preparing to Write Your Wedding Welcome Speech

Who does the wedding welcome speech.

Traditionally, the newlyweds themselves may choose to give the wedding welcome speech, but they are not the only ones who can do so. Parents, close family members, the officiant, or a beloved friend might also be great choices to take on this role. The key is to select someone who is comfortable with public speaking and who can articulate the emotions of the day with sincerity and warmth. Members of the wedding party can also deliver the speech, adding a personal touch that makes the occasion even more memorable for the guests.

When Should You Give a Wedding Welcome Speech?

The timing of the wedding welcome speech is flexible, depending on the structure of your wedding day. It can be given at the beginning of the ceremony, during the reception, or even at the rehearsal dinner. Each moment offers a unique opportunity to set the tone, whether it’s introducing the ceremony with a few heartfelt words or kicking off the reception with a lively toast. Whichever you choose, be sure to allocate a few minutes for this important moment in your wedding day timeline.

Know Your Audience

Understanding your audience is crucial when crafting your wedding welcome speech. Gauge the mood of the wedding and tailor your speech to fit the atmosphere. For a more formal wedding, a speech with elegant language and sentimental reflections might be appropriate. In contrast, for a casual, relaxed wedding, you might opt for a more humorous and light-hearted approach. Be sure to acknowledge both sides of the family and mutual friends, creating a sense of unity among the guests.

Crafting a Memorable Wedding Speech

Structuring your speech.

Structuring your wedding welcome speech is crucial to ensure it flows smoothly and effectively conveys your message. Here’s a suggested outline to help you get started:

Introduction : Begin with a warm welcome, introduce yourself, and explain your relationship to the couple. This sets the stage and helps the audience understand your perspective.

Express Gratitude : Thank your guests for attending and express your gratitude for their love and support. This acknowledgment makes everyone feel appreciated and included.

Share a Personal Story : Share a brief, personal anecdote that highlights the couple’s relationship and your connection to them. This adds a personal touch and makes your speech more engaging.

Welcome and Toast : Welcome your guests to the celebration and raise a toast to the happy couple. This formalizes the welcome and sets a celebratory tone.

Conclusion : End with a heartfelt message, a few words of wisdom, or a final toast to the newlyweds. This leaves a lasting impression and wraps up your speech on a positive note.

Weaving Personal Stories and Humor

Adding personal anecdotes and humor to your speech can create a deep connection with your audience. Reflect on moments that define the couple’s relationship—perhaps a funny incident or a touching memory that showcases their bond. A well-placed light-hearted joke can ease any nerves and set a relaxed, enjoyable tone. These personal touches make your speech not just memorable but meaningful, resonating with the couple and guests alike. Conclude your speech by transitioning to the dance floor, setting an energetic tone for the festivities to follow.

Acknowledgments: Whom to Thank

In any wedding speech , acknowledging those who helped make the day possible is essential. Take a moment to express gratitude to the parents, wedding planners, and anyone who played a significant role in the wedding preparations. A heartfelt thank you will not go unnoticed and adds an element of grace and humility to your speech.

Key Elements of a Heartfelt Toast

A wedding toast should encapsulate the essence of the couple’s journey together. Focus on themes of love, commitment, and the future they are building together. Your words should reflect the deep connection they share and offer your best wishes for their life ahead. Whether your toast is emotional, humorous, or a mix of both, it should leave a lasting impression that echoes throughout the celebration.

Writing Tips for a Memorable Welcome Speech

Step 1: let the crowd know you.

When starting your wedding welcome speech, it’s essential to introduce yourself and establish your connection to the couple. This helps your guests understand your perspective and makes your speech more relatable. Here are a few tips to help you introduce yourself:

Start with a Warm Welcome : Begin by greeting your guests warmly and thanking them for being part of such a wonderful occasion.

Brief Introduction : Introduce yourself and explain your relationship to the couple, e.g., “I’m the bride’s father” or “I’m the groom’s best friend.”

Share a Personal Anecdote : Share a brief story or a funny opening line that highlights your connection to the couple. This not only breaks the ice but also sets a personal and engaging tone for your speech.

Step 2: Plan in Advance

Planning your wedding welcome speech in advance is crucial to ensure it’s well-structured, engaging, and effectively conveys your message. Here are a few tips to help you plan your speech:

Brainstorm Ideas : Start by brainstorming ideas, personal anecdotes, and stories that highlight the couple’s relationship. Think about moments that showcase their love and commitment.

Create an Outline : Use the suggested structure to create an outline for your speech. This will help you stay on track and ensure your speech flows smoothly.

Practice Your Speech : Practice your speech several times to become comfortable with the content and delivery. This will help you feel more confident and ensure a natural, engaging presentation.

Lead Into it With a Song

One creative way to transition into your wedding welcome speech is by using music. The DJ or live band can help by playing a meaningful song that resonates with the couple or the moment. This approach not only grabs the guests’ attention but also sets a harmonious tone that seamlessly blends into your speech.

Speak from the Heart

Above all, your wedding welcome speech should come from the heart. Write with sincerity and honesty, letting your genuine emotions guide your words. Keep it short and sweet—aim for a speech that engages the crowd without overstaying its welcome. Your goal is to create a warm, inclusive atmosphere that makes everyone feel part of this special occasion.

Thank Your Guests for Attending

Expressing gratitude to your guests is perhaps the most important element of the wedding welcome speech. These are the people who have come to celebrate your love and commitment, so acknowledging their presence with heartfelt thanks is essential. Make sure your gratitude is sincere, and keep it concise to maintain the flow of your speech.

Keep it Short and Sweet

A wedding welcome speech should be concise—ideally between two and three minutes. This time frame is long enough to convey your message without losing the audience’s attention. Remember, the goal is to engage the crowd and set the tone for the rest of the celebration, so brevity is key.

Delivering Your Wedding Welcome Speech with Confidence

How to deliver a wedding welcome speech.

There’s no single formula for delivering a perfect wedding welcome speech, but there are some universal tips to help you along the way. Start with a funny or engaging remark to capture the audience’s attention. Sharing personal experiences or offering advice makes the speech more relatable and engaging, ensuring it resonates with everyone present.

Practice Your Delivery

Practice is essential to delivering a smooth, confident speech. Familiarize yourself with your speech, but don’t stress about memorizing it word for word. Instead, focus on the flow and key points, allowing your delivery to feel natural and sincere. Remember, it’s the sentiment behind your words that truly matters.

Stay Calm and Confident

Public speaking can be nerve-wracking, especially at such a significant event. Take deep breaths to calm your nerves before you start speaking. Focus on speaking slowly and clearly, and make eye contact with the audience to create a connection. Remember, everyone is there to support you and share in your joy.

End with a Toast

Conclude your speech by inviting everyone to join you in a toast. Raise your glass to the happy couple, offering well-wishes for their future together. This final gesture brings your speech to a heartfelt close and sets the stage for the rest of the celebration.

Overcoming Nerves and Managing Your Time

Managing your time: tips for a smooth delivery.

Planning is key to ensuring your speech flows smoothly and fits within the allotted time. Keep your speech concise, avoiding unnecessary tangents or filler words that could dilute your message. Practice multiple times before the wedding to become comfortable with both the content and delivery.

Overcoming Nerves: Delivering Your Speech with Confidence

It’s natural to feel nervous before delivering a speech, but there are ways to manage these nerves. Avoid overindulging in alcohol beforehand, as this can impair your delivery. Instead, consider a one-drink limit before your speech, saving the celebratory drinks for after you’ve successfully completed your toast. The goal is to deliver a great speech, not to get drunk.

Making Your Wedding Welcome Speech Unforgettable

Making it your own: tips for personalization.

Making your wedding welcome speech personal and unique is essential to creating a memorable and impactful speech. Here are a few tips to help you personalize your speech:

Incorporate Personal Anecdotes : Share personal stories and anecdotes that highlight the couple’s relationship and your connection to them. These stories add depth and make your speech more relatable.

Use Humor and Wit : Don’t be afraid to use humor and wit to make your speech engaging and entertaining. A well-placed joke or funny story can lighten the mood and make your speech more memorable.

Add a Personal Touch : Include a special message, a quote, or a poem that resonates with the couple. This adds a unique element to your speech and makes it more meaningful.

Use Your Own Voice : Write and deliver your speech in your own voice and style. This authenticity will shine through and make your speech more sincere and impactful.

By following these tips and incorporating your own personal touches, you can create a wedding welcome speech that is heartfelt, memorable, and truly reflective of the joyous occasion.

How Can I Make My Wedding Welcome Speech Memorable?

To make your speech truly memorable, focus on being sincere, adding humor, and including personal stories that highlight the couple’s relationship. Incorporating quotes, poems, or songs can add depth and resonance to your words, making your speech stand out. End with a meaningful toast or a special message to the couple, leaving a lasting impression on everyone present. Aim to deliver the best wedding welcome speech by engaging the audience and setting a celebratory tone.

What Topics Should I Avoid in a Wedding Welcome Speech?

While it’s important to be sincere and heartfelt, certain topics are best left out of a wedding welcome speech. Avoid controversial subjects, inappropriate jokes, references to ex-relationships, or anything that might embarrass the couple or guests. Keep your speech light-hearted, positive, and focused on the joy and love of the occasion.

Sample Wedding Speeches and Examples

Sample wedding welcome speech.

“Good evening everyone, and welcome! For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], [your relationship to the couple]. I’m honored to stand here today to celebrate [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name] as they begin this incredible journey together.

I’ve had the privilege of watching their relationship grow over the years, and it’s clear to anyone who knows them that they are truly meant to be. [Insert a short, personal anecdote that highlights the couple’s bond].

Today, we’re here to celebrate love—love that is patient, kind, and unwavering. [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your marriage be filled with all the joys and blessings that life has to offer.

Thank you all for being here to share in this special day. Now, if you would all join me in raising a glass—here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness for [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Cheers!”

Wedding Welcome Speech Examples

Whether you’re looking for a traditional, modern, or humorous approach, there are countless examples of wedding welcome speeches to inspire you. These samples can provide a starting point, helping you to craft a speech that feels true to your relationship with the couple and the tone of the wedding.

Final Tips and Reminders

Additional tips for a wedding welcome speech.

Be genuine and speak from the heart.

Keep it concise, aiming for a speech that is between 5-7 minutes long.

Balance humor and emotion to keep the audience engaged.

Practice your speech multiple times to become comfortable with the content and delivery.

What is the Purpose of a Wedding Welcome Speech?

The purpose of a wedding welcome speech is to celebrate the couple, express love, and share memories, adding a personal touch to the wedding ceremony. It’s an opportunity to set the tone for the day, creating a warm, joyful atmosphere that makes the wedding truly unforgettable.

Final Thoughts on Writing a Memorable Wedding Welcome Speech

Crafting a personalized wedding welcome speech is a beautiful opportunity to express your joy, gratitude, and love for the couple. By focusing on heartfelt content, practicing your delivery, and following these guidelines, you can create a moment that resonates with your guests and makes your wedding day even more special. Don’t miss the chance to make your wedding truly unforgettable—let your words be the first step toward a day filled with love and happiness.

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Wedding Reception Welcome Speech Guide

Setting the tone for a wedding reception is crucial in ensuring that the guests feel welcomed and engaged. One of the key elements in achieving this is delivering a well-crafted welcome speech. In this guide, we will explore the importance of a welcome speech, provide tips on how to create an engaging one, and offer a comprehensive outline to ensure you cover all the essential aspects.

Why is a Welcome Speech Important?

A welcome speech serves as an introduction to the wedding reception and allows the couple to express gratitude to their guests for attending the celebration. It sets the stage for the entire event, creating an atmosphere of warmth, appreciation, and excitement.

Opening Remarks

In your opening remarks, it’s essential to convey your appreciation for the presence of your guests. Let them know that their attendance means a lot to you and that you are honored to have them share in this special day. Additionally, acknowledge the significance of the event, highlighting the importance of love, commitment, and the joining of families.

You can also take this opportunity to briefly mention the couple’s journey, like how they met, their experiences together, or any unique aspects of their relationship. This personal touch helps build a connection with the audience and sets a positive tone for the rest of the speech.

Warm Welcome to the Guests

To create a welcoming atmosphere, express your gratitude for the effort your guests have made to attend the wedding. Acknowledge that the celebration would not be the same without their presence. Let them know how much their support means to you and your spouse-to-be. Make them feel valued for their roles in your lives and for sharing in this joyous occasion.

Introducing the Couple

Take a few moments to introduce the couple to the guests. Share a brief background of both individuals, including their names, where they come from, and any significant details about their lives. You can also provide a glimpse into their love story, such as when and how they fell in love, their shared interests, or their shared dreams for the future.

Describe their personalities and values, mentioning qualities that make each of them special and unique. This helps the audience understand and connect with the couple on a deeper level. Paint a picture of their relationship and what it means to witness their love on this beautiful day.

Acknowledging and Thanking Family Members

Recognizing and expressing gratitude to family members is an essential part of any welcome speech. Start by acknowledging parents and grandparents, recognizing their unconditional love and support. Express heartfelt appreciation for their guidance throughout your lives and in the wedding planning process.

Don’t forget to mention siblings and other close relatives who have played a significant role in your journey. Let them know how much their presence means to you and how grateful you are for their love and support.

Acknowledging and Thanking the Bridal Party

Your bridal party members are not just friends, but individuals who have stood by you during the planning process and throughout your lives. Introduce and thank your maid of honor and best man, highlighting their special relationships with you. Recognize the bridesmaids and groomsmen, expressing gratitude for their support, time, and effort in making your wedding day extra special.

Expressing Gratitude to Vendors and Service Providers

While the focus is often on the couple and their guests, it’s essential to recognize the hard work and dedication of the vendors and service providers involved in making the wedding reception a success. Take a moment to thank the event planner for their organizational skills and attention to detail.

Express appreciation to the catering team and venue staff for their excellent service. Acknowledge the photographer, florist, and other vendors, recognizing the beauty and memories they have helped create on this special day.

Sharing Anecdotes or Humorous Stories

Lighten the mood by sharing anecdotes or humorous stories about the couple. These can be lighthearted incidents that showcase their personalities or experiences that brought laughter to your lives. Engage the audience with your stories and encourage laughter and enjoyment throughout the speech.

Expressing Hopes and Wishes for the Future

Offer words of wisdom and advice to the couple as they embark on their journey together. Share your hopes and wishes for their future, emphasizing the importance of communication, compromise, and unwavering support. Encourage guests to provide their love and guidance as the couple navigates through life’s ups and downs.

Wish the couple a lifetime of happiness, love, and fulfillment. Share in their joy and excitement as you envision the wonderful adventures that lie ahead for them as a married couple.

Closing Remarks and Toast

Summarize the speech by reiterating your gratitude to the guests for their presence and support. Raise a toast to the couple’s happiness and future, inviting the audience to join in a celebratory cheer. Include a memorable closing line that leaves a lasting impression on the guests, reinforcing the love and joy felt throughout the reception.

End the welcome speech on a positive and uplifting note, encouraging guests to enjoy the wedding reception to the fullest. Remind them to embrace the love and happiness that fills the room and to create beautiful memories that will be cherished for a lifetime. Thank them once again for being part of this special day and for making it truly memorable.

Your Ultimate Guide to Writing a Meaningful Wedding Speech

• Lauren is a contributor for The Knot covering topics such as music, cakes, venues and speeches.
• She has been published in a wide array of lifetsyle-oriented publications including SELF and Allure.
• Lauren is a proud graduate of Syracuse University's SI Newhouse School of Public Communication.

Getting asked to speak at a wedding is exciting, but it can also be nerve-wracking, especially since you're not a professional speaker or speechwriter! So, if you're unsure how to write a wedding speech , know you're not alone. Whether you're a member of a wedding party or a parent or sibling of the soon-to-be-married couple, you may be wondering what to say in a wedding speech. However, that's where we come into the picture: Keep reading for a full rundown of wedding speech tips , insight and, last but not least, a fully written example that you can use as a guide. Happy speechwriting!

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How to Write a Wedding Speech

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Writing your wedding speech is no easy feat. To help ensure things go as smoothly as possible, we tapped into Renée Dalo, owner of Moxie Bright Events in Los Angeles, California. Below, she shares a step-by-step guide.

Brainstorm a great opening.

To captivate other guests' attention, Daloe recommends taking some time to brainstorm a great opening. For example, she says, "Try to resist saying, 'For those of you who don't know me, I'm Erica's sister, Michelle.'" Instead, skip this entirely in favor of something more fun and creative.

Start with a story.

…but be sure to make it a short one, says Dalo. "Make sure it's relevant to your friendship and/or the couple." When selecting what story to share, the wedding pro recommends sterling clear of any that involve ex-partners—and for that matter, anything negative about the newly married couple. "Even if you think it's funny , she says, "it's not." Instead, think of a special moment or fun memory you shared with the couple. What did it involve? What was so great about it? All of these things are worth considering as you jot down your wedding speech.

Share your well wishes.

After all, what would a wedding speech be if it didn't include some well wishes for the newlyweds? "Make sure to include both people in the couple in your remarks," advises Dalo.

End with a toast.

Cap off your speech on a fun and sentimental note by ending with an actual toast . Dalo recommends this foolproof example: "Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple. Cheers to X and Y, and best wishes for a lifetime of laughter!" Afterward, go in for a hug with the couple, making for the perfect photo op !

Rehearse away.

After you write your speech down, spend a significant amount of time rehearsing it so that you feel confident and comfortable while giving the actual speech. "Don't try to wing it," says Dalo. "You're going to want to rehearse this [so that] you can be as calm and present as possible."

Still trying to figure out where to start? Don't fret: If you could use some additional assistance writing your wedding speech, consider Provenance , which helps users create personalized, meaningful wedding speeches using AI-powered tools along with real responses to personal questions.

Take the Provenance Toast Builder , for example. Couples can invite those who will be giving wedding speeches—including the father of the bride , mother of the bride , father of the groom , mother of the groom , maid of honor and best man —to use the Toast Builder. Upon being invited to use the platform, these individuals will "get alerted to how long their speech can be," as well as any other important information to mention—or steer clear of. "From there," says Provenance CEO Steven Greitzer, "you can see the status of the speech and the estimated length."

To help get those creative juices flowing, check out the below wedding speech example.

Hi! As Lisa's younger sister—and now maid of honor—I've had the unique privilege of growing up alongside her. Since we're just two years apart, we've been each other's built-in best friends from the start. Like most sisters, we bickered constantly throughout our childhood, hurling insults over clothing, makeup and missing pieces of jewelry: I'll finally admit it, Lisa, I was the one who lost your charm bracelet at summer camp! All kidding aside, I hope I've made it up to you with this epic speech.

When Lisa first met Jay on the train coming home from work (romantic, I know!), we lived together in a tiny one-bedroom apartment in the city, an experience that only brought us closer together. After their first date to their now-favorite pizza place, she came home all giddy—bubbly, smiling, and laughing. She told me that the two of them already planned their next date. I had never seen her so happy. The look in her eyes since that night has not faded, and if I know Jay—which I do!—he will make sure it never will.

Like Lisa, Jay is kind, patient, and compassionate, and this was evident from the first time we met, which was right before his and Lisa's second date. I ran to the door to catch a glimpse of the guy who was slowly but surely stealing my sister's heart. Upon meeting, Jay and I instantly hit it off. He greeted me by name, hugged me, and took the time to sit down and truly get to know me. Less than 10 minutes later, we were already cracking jokes. It was clear to me then that Jay was, without a doubt, my sister's perfect match.

Lisa and Jay, you've set the bar (very) high for all of your friends and family when it comes to relationship goals. The love and commitment you share with each other is inspiring and everlasting. I know Jay will spend the rest of his life making Lisa happy and supporting her through every endeavor—and I know she'll do the same, too.

So, Lisa and Jay, I wish you nothing but a lifetime of love and happiness together. And I'm so excited to have a front-row seat to all that's in store. Everyone, please join me in raising a glass to the newlyweds!

Keep it short and sweet.

According to Dalo, your wedding speech should be "no more than three minutes." She continues, telling The Knot, "Three minutes is a long time, and when you figure in getting up to the mic and then hugging afterward, it's about five minutes total which is ideal." If you go any longer, you run the risk of losing guests' attention and potentially boring them (a no-no in our book!).

Acknowledge both partners.

"A big speech taboo that we see way too often is when the person giving the speech only talks about the partner they're closest with, unintentionally making the other partner feel left out and unimportant," says Greitzer. If you need a helping hand, Greitzer recommends using the Provenance Toast Builder , which offers "thoughtful prompts to encourage you to share why they're both 1) good people and 2) a great match for each other."

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If you feel as though public speaking isn't easy, you're not alone. Many people find it to be a particularly anxiety-inducing experience. This is especially true when you're feeling the added pressure that comes along with giving a speech at a loved one's wedding. Not only do you have the attention of dozens (if not hundreds!) of guests, but you're also trying to appeal to a group of people in a wide range of ages from all different phases of the couple's lives. Plus, you want your speech to delight the couple of the hour and be as appealing to your group of friends as it is to the newlyweds' grandparents . All to say: It's a tough task.

Before you panic, know that we're here to help. Ahead, we're sharing a comprehensive guide on the best tips to keep in mind before giving your speech , as well as some examples and templates to help get your creative juices flowing—all from noteworthy speakers, well-established speechwriters, and wedding planners.

Wedding Speech Template

Every great wedding speech has one thing in common: the right flow. Factor in these guidelines to help you find your own organic rhythm.

Congratulate the Couple

Express how happy you are that the two of them are getting married and what it means to you to witness it.

Open With a Statement or Question

Don't lead with a joke or a reference to how nervous you are. "The goal is to engage your audience, not make it a boring one-way message," says award-winning motivational speaker Jaime Pfeffer . "You'll lose them if you do this."

Introduce Yourself

After your opener, introduce yourself, says Fallon Carter, the founder and creative director of Fallon Carter Events . "A lot of times, people don't know who is speaking, and they don't know their relationship to the bride or the groom," she says. "It's really important to identify yourself, so make sure you've prepared something."

Tell a Story

When you’re writing your speech, think about stories that could be grouped together. "Choose anecdotes that all fit a theme and support your argument," says Kristine Keller, a writer and the co-founder of Speech Tank . The theme will help tie it together, making your toast feel intentional instead of random.

Address Both Partners

You may not know them both well, but you shouldn’t focus all of your attention on your friend and ignore their new spouse. "Even if you’ve only met your friend’s partner once or twice before, find a way to include him or her in your toast," says Marisa Polansky, a book editor, author, and co-founder of Speech Tank. "Tell the story of their engagement or share something your friend told you about them that proves what a great partner he or she is."

Go for the Crowd-Pleasers

"Anything that’s an inside joke may have been funny at the time, but no one else will understand what you’re talking about," Keller says. "Run your stories and jokes by a neutral audience to see if they are as funny as you think." And remember, a little humor is fine , but this is a toast—not a roast.

Focus on a Few Points

Susan Bender Phelps, the CEO of Odyssey Mentoring & Leadership , says to keep it concise. Select one to three aspects of the newlyweds that you love and appreciate, along with no more than three short stories to illustrate each of these points (or that one point). "The simple, succinct story or stories where the bride and groom are the hero will work best," she says. This is an excellent way to structure your speech and keep your message focused.

Raise Your Glass for a Toast

To wrap up your speech, invite everyone to raise their glass to the couple, or to love, etc., then cheers glasses together and take a sip.

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13 Expert-Approved Wedding Speech Tips

Now that you've established the right framework for your words, take note of these essential tips from the experts to truly ace your speech.

Just Get Started

Figuring out where to start when drafting your toast can be tough. "When we work with our clients, we always start with a stream of consciousness," Keller says. "We ask them to just start telling us stories. You might not think every anecdote is important, but all of a sudden you’ll land on a real gem."

Start Writing Things Down

When you’re doing this at home on your own, Polansky says to just start writing stuff down. "Put it all down on paper," she recommends. "Don’t worry about editing as you’re writing, just get it out and then go back and pick and choose details when you’re done." This will help you identify a theme, which is what you’ll need to make your toast really memorable.

Use Examples

"If you’re trying to make a point about the bride or groom's personality—say, that she or he's particularly loyal—don’t just say that and move on," Polansky says. "Pick a specific moment that proves your point. Have something to back it up!" Including some proof will make sure your listeners really buy what you’re saying about the couple.

Make It Quick

"The best length for a toast is about three minutes," Polansky says. "It’s enough time to say what you need to say, but short enough that you’ll still have everyone’s attention when you ask them to raise their glasses to toast the happy couple."

Rehearse Regularly

The better prepared you are, the more confident you'll be and the better your speech will be, says Barry Maher , an author and professional speaker. A good rule of thumb is to practice the speech enough that you can remember the points you want to make and the order in which you want to make them. That way, you can look out to the crowd and make eye contact every so often.

Think you know what three minutes feels like? You may want to reconsider. "Practice reading your speech out loud (not in your head!) and time yourself," Polansky says. "Don’t wing it, especially if you’re nervous. Give yourself time to prepare. Practice with an audience to check your timing, and give yourself time to make edits."

Record Yourself Practicing

Use your phone to take a video of yourself practicing, suggests Kate Kenfield , a speaker, writer, and sex educator. "It can be a little uncomfortable to watch yourself, but you'll be able to identify distracting mannerisms, such as the verbal pauses 'um,' 'uh,' and 'like,'" she says. "It's also a good idea to practice your speech in front of someone else. "A second opinion can help you craft your piece and make it that much stronger," she adds.

Don't forget about your body language. Rehearse the speech in front of a mirror and notice things like your facial expression, eye contact, and hand position.

Avoid Alcohol

Although it may be tempting to look for some liquid courage, alcohol definitely won't do you any favors, says Amy Morin , a keynote speaker and the author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do . "It may cause you to slur your speech and forget your lines, so wait until after your toast to celebrate," she advises. If you need a drink to loosen up the nerves or can't refrain from participating in a toast without being rude, stick to one glass of Champagne before you address the crowd.

Use Nerves to Your Advantage

A little nervousness can actually liven up your speech. "I get worried if I'm not a little nervous," Maher says. "I'll actually try to make myself a little tense to get my energy level up." The key is to harness that energy and communicate it in a positive, genuine way; tensing up to the point that you forget your words or panic won't make for a great presentation.

Be Yourself

Keep in mind that you're not putting on a show, only sharing your personal perspective. Trying too hard to force the funny can yield the opposite of the desired effect, cautions Matt Dalley, the co-founder of Simply Eloped . "I've noticed that keeping it short and sweet, heartfelt and warm, and coming across as authentic and focused on the couple is something we are all capable of and generates some very wonderful moments," he says.

Address Your Audience

Focusing on yourself only enhances nerves, says Mark Black , a speaker and life strategy coach. "Instead, concentrate on your audience and how you want them to feel," he recommends. "This will help you to speak from the heart, allowing your speech to do what it's supposed to do: Make the couple feel special while also engaging the audience."

Never Embarrass the Newlyweds

It's a wedding toast, not a roast. While this should go without saying, keep the bachelor or bachelorette party jokes out of it, and remember that grandma and possibly a few colleagues are in the audience, says Laurie Battaglia , a keynote speaker and workplace strategist. "It's okay to look back at childhood and refer to something funny, but ask yourself if you'd like 200-plus of your closest friends knowing that story about you."

Don't Overstuff Your Speech

"If you’re a fast talker, try to slow yourself down so that everyone will understand you," Polansky says. (Better to cut a few lines than to try to fit a 10-minute toast into a three-minute time frame.)

Don’t count on your phone, which may lock or turn off mid-speech. Instead, print out your toast or put it on note cards for reference. "It’s your moment to have the floor, so don’t risk forgetting your point," Keller says.

Use Your Notes

Try to avoid reading your speech straight from a piece of paper. However, having a couple of notes handy is encouraged. "You're likely to be nervous, excited, and exhausted, which can make you forget your lines," Morin says. "The audience won't care if you glance at your notes. In fact, there's a good chance they won't even notice."

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Wedding Speech Brainstorm Ideas

Need some inspiration? Ask yourself these questions to get the brainstorming process going.

• Who will speak before you? After you? How will this affect the content of your toast?
• Is there someone you should thank for making the event possible and inviting you to speak?
• What would you want to hear in this speech if you were in the audience?
• What is your first memory of the bride/groom?
• What is your favorite memory of the bride/groom?
• What did he/she say when he/she first told you about his/her partner?
• How did you know they were meant to be ?
• What has the bride/groom or the couple as a whole taught you?
• What qualities do you admire in them?
• When are times that they displayed these qualities?

Wedding Speech Examples to Make Your Own

Wondering what it looks like when all of these elements come together? Wedding vow and speechwriter Katelyn Peterson, owner and creator of Wedding Words , offered us three examples of successful toasts to inspire your own.

Maid of Honor Wedding Speech Example

"Hi, I’m Maya, the bride’s older sister. With Lucy being three years younger, we fell right into our respective roles as sister-rivals growing up. We constantly fought over stolen clothes, monopolizing the phone back when landlines were a thing, and what boy band to blare from the car speakers. I’m still Team Backstreet Boys while Lucy is forever indebted to NSYNC.

Looking back on those memories, I should have stepped up and granted Lucy permission to wear my favorite sweater for picture day, to hand her the phone once in a while, and to let her play, 'Bye Bye Bye.' Even I can admit that’s a good one. But despite Lucy being the younger sister, she has always been more patient, more accommodating, and more thoughtful than me. And that’s because when it comes to the people she loves, she’s all in.

She’s the one to prioritize their desires. She’s the one to compromise first. And, she’s the one to support their dreams as if they were her own. 

This is why it makes me so happy to know that Lucy has found a home in David. He matches her in compassion, thoughtfulness, and warmth. And I know he’ll spend his life prioritizing her desires, being ready to compromise, and supporting her dreams as his own.

Cheers to Lucy and David! May you always feel loved because you always put each other first."

Best Man Wedding Speech Example

"Hello, everyone. My name is Luke, and I’m the best man . I met Robert eight years ago when I became his neighbor. His reputation preceded him as I had heard about the 'Block Party King' before my closing papers were inked. 

Rob has never been the guy to wear fancy clothes. In fact, I’m still in shock seeing him in that tux tonight. And he’s never been the guy to show off, even though the work he’s put into his vintage Mustang could make Henry Ford himself envious.

But when it comes to cooking, he should receive an award. His pulled pork is a staple at our summer block parties and his homemade barbeque sauce has remained our neighborhood’s best-kept secret. But the most satisfying part about his delicious dishes is that there’s always plenty to go around. And Rob makes sure your plate is never empty. I have no idea how he pulls it off, but Rob has a covert ability to scoop seconds onto your plate without you ever seeing him do it. I hope you all came hungry tonight, folks. You’ve been warned! 

The first time I met Jasmine I could immediately tell she was an amazing person. She laughed at his jokes, which I never thought anyone would get. She supported his career and the nonstop travel involved. But most importantly, whenever we’re all hanging out, Jasmine is the one always topping off Rob’s plate with more pasta, more chicken, more of everything. When she’s around, it’s never empty. 

And that’s when I saw what a perfect match they were for each other. I know they will always put each other first, make sure their needs are met, and will never allow the other to go hungry.

So let’s raise our glasses to toast the newlyweds! As you begin this next chapter together, may your plates and your hearts always remain full."

Father-of-the-Bride Wedding Speech Example

"Good evening, family, and friends. I’m Daniel Lee, the father of the bride. I’d like to welcome you to this special occasion where we get to celebrate the love between my daughter Allison and her new wife, Kristin. 

Standing up here today, I’m reminded of all the moments that led to this significant one. The dance recitals that ended with standing ovations and the soccer games that concluded with winning scoreboards. 

But, while those were fun and rewarding times, those aren’t the moments I cherish most with Allison. The memories that make me smile the brightest are those in-between the big stuff moments. It’s the makeshift magic shows in our living room using a bedsheet that Allison confiscated from our linen closet to convert into a curtain. It’s the countless tea parties she hosted with exclusive invitations just for me and her beloved stuffed bear, Buttons. And it’s the way she’d beg to stay up for just five more minutes but was asleep on the couch by minute number two.

Those everyday, blink-and-you’ll-miss-them moments with Allison are the ones that gave color to my life and filled my heart with a happiness I never knew could exist.

So, my beautiful daughter, as you begin your life with Kristin today, I have one wish for you: May your warmest memories come from the ordinary moments throughout your marriage, and may those moments give you a reason to smile brighter every day. Cheers! I love you both."

A Guide to Wedding Reception Toasts

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• 60 Quotes to Use for Your Wedding Toast

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Best Wedding Speech Opening Lines

If you have read our Ultimate Guide To Writing & Delivering A Great Wedding Speech or Toast post, then you know that adding a little bit of humor can really help break the ice and calm your nerves. If you are drowning in the sea of wedding speech examples online and need help writing a speech that you can be proud of- you’re in the right place.

The key to delivering a great wedding speech is how it begins and ends. So today, we’ve rounded up some great opening lines that will have the guests praising your witty wordsmithing. And the great news is these can work for any type of wedding speech ( Father of the Bride , Best Man , Groom , and more).

How you open your wedding speech is critical because you only have 30 seconds to capture the guests’ attention and intrigue them enough to listen. Kicking off your wedding speech with one of these gems, and you’ll have a terrific speech.

Spice Up The Introduction

Ditch the old boring introduction “For those who don’t know me; I am – blah, blah, blah” by adding a little spice and humor. Here are a few examples.

“Hi, Ladies & gentlemen. If you’re in this room tonight and don’t know me, you’re probably at the wrong wedding. I am, of course, [NAME] I’ve been [GROOM’S NAME] wingman for 25 years.”

“Hello and welcome to this evening’s reception, [BRIDE’S NAME]; YOU truly are MY biggest fan. Wait, that didn’t come outright. As I was saying….”

Address the Nerves

We know delivering a speech in front of a crowd of people has a way of bringing on nerves, anxiety, and downright fear for many. The fact that you are nervous can be a great way to open your wedding speech while also helping you to relax.

“Good evening, everyone. I am [NAME], I am the best man this evening and must say – I’m pretty nervous up here. So, I will rely on that expert advice of “picture the crowd naked” to get over it. And I must say…bridesmaids, you look incredible this evening.”

Add a Little Humor; Corny Jokes Are OK

Pretty sure most will agree that there is no better way to start a wedding speech than a well-delivered joke . But when deciding which jokes you can include, make sure to consider your audience. One of the biggest wedding speech gaffes you could make is to offend the Mr. & Mrs. or the guests, so keep it PG. With that said, if you can get them to laugh in the first 30 seconds, you’re going to kill the speech.

“Hello, I’m the father of the bride [NAME]. This entire day has been beautiful, romantic, and emotional so far. In fact, I’m getting emotional. The wedding cake has me in TIERS. (looking at a 3-tiered cake).”

Deliver a Hilarious Joke With a Straight Face

Saying something downright hilarious and absurd with a straight face will always get the crowd to laugh (and sometimes cheer). If you can pull this off, you’re on your way to an unforgettable wedding speech.

“As Abraham Lincoln once said, [say something outrageous than Lincoln never said—an inspirational quote, movie line, piece of advice, etc.] … and that’s what brings us all together tonight to celebrate [COUPLE’S NAMES].” ( source )

“Thank you all for joining us here to celebrate the joining of two beautiful souls. I promise my toast is going to be like a mini-skirt, long enough to cover the goods but short enough to hold your attention.”

History in the Making

Here’s a simple and funny opening line that is appropriate for any presenter and any type of wedding.

“Family and friends, today we are witnessing a unique event in history – it’s the first, and probably the last time anyone will trust me to give a speech!”

Add Something Funny About The Previous Speech

Ok, hear us out on this one because this could really turn disastrous. If you are not first in the speech order, your opening line can be to say something funny about the previous presenter or speech. Just make sure it is not derogatory or insulting. Keep it clean, or you’ll make a few enemies. Here’s a great way to do it!

“I just want to start by congratulating (PREVIOUS PRESENTERS NAME) on their incredible wedding speech tonight. I knew that speech would be hard to follow and I was right; I couldn’t follow a word of it.”

Relationship Advice

“I’d like to begin my speech this evening by giving the happy couple some relationship advice. Unfortunately, I’m single and spend the majority of my time dressing my dog in cute outfits and trying to get their photos viral on Instagram.”

Just Be Yourself

The pressure is undoubtedly on when you have been asked to present a wedding speech. And while you may be tempted to WOW the guests and couple with witty jokes and charming sentiments, the best advice is just to be yourself. And you can even use this as your opening line. Here’s how.

“(NAME) knows that I’m am incredibly nervous about this speech, so they gave me some great advice. They said, ‘Don’t try to be too witty, charming, or intellectual… just be yourself!'”

We hope that you enjoyed this guide to the best wedding speech opening lines. If you need more guidance on wedding speech examples or wedding toast inspiration, we have you covered. Visit our Complete Guide To Wedding Speeches & Toasts . You’ll be writing a killer wedding speech in no time.

Wedding Welcome Speech

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Ladies and Gentlemen,

Good evening and welcome! My name is [Your Name], and I am honored to be here tonight to celebrate the marriage of two incredible people, [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. On behalf of the couple and their families, I want to thank you all for joining us on this joyous occasion.

Welcoming the Guests

First and foremost, I’d like to extend a warm welcome to everyone who has traveled from near and far to be here today. Your presence means so much to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], and it adds to the magic of this special day. Whether you’ve come from across town or across the country, we are grateful to have you with us.

Acknowledging the Families

I’d like to take a moment to acknowledge the parents of the bride and groom. To [Bride’s Name]’s parents, [Parents’ Names], and to [Groom’s Name]’s parents, [Parents’ Names], thank you for your love, support, and for raising such wonderful individuals. Today is a testament to the love and guidance you’ve provided throughout their lives.

Celebrating the Couple

Now, let’s talk about our wonderful couple, [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. From the moment they met, it was clear that they were meant to be together. Their love for each other is evident in everything they do, and today, we are here to celebrate that love. [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], we are all so happy for you and excited to witness this beautiful chapter in your lives.

The Evening’s Agenda

We have a fantastic evening planned, filled with delicious food, heartfelt speeches, and plenty of dancing. But before we dive into the festivities, let’s take a moment to appreciate the effort that went into making this day so special. Thank you to everyone who contributed to the planning and preparation of this beautiful celebration.

First Toast

To kick off the evening, I’d like to invite [Name of Speaker, e.g., the father of the bride], to give the first toast.

[Allow the speaker to give their toast]

Thank you, [Name of Speaker], for those wonderful words.

Dinner Announcement

Ladies and gentlemen, dinner will be served shortly. Please take your seats and enjoy the meal. During dinner, we’ll hear more speeches from those who hold a special place in the hearts of [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name].

Closing the Welcome

As we celebrate tonight, let’s remember that this day is about love, joy, and the beginning of a new journey for [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. So let’s raise our glasses and make a toast to the newlyweds. Here’s to love, laughter, and a lifetime of happiness.

Thank you all for being here, and let’s enjoy the evening!

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26 Wedding Speech Examples: Crafting Your Unforgettable Speech

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Hi, Friend!   Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author, the first ever bridesmaid for hire and have written over 1000 wedding speeches for people all around the world! Let’s dive into some wedding speech examples to get you inspired for your own!

Welcome to the ultimate guide for crafting the perfect wedding speech! We’ve got you covered with 26 wedding speech examples that’ll have everyone raising their glasses. From heartfelt anecdotes to clever quips, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know to deliver a toast that’ll be remembered long after the last dance.

Btw, check out this if you’re looking for a guide on how to write a wedding speech .

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• A Complete Wedding Speech Guide
• A list of Wedding Speech Jokes

TL;DR: Key Takeaways for Memorable Wedding Speeches

• Tailor your speech to the couple and the audience
• Balance humor with sincerity
• Keep it concise (3-5 minutes is ideal)
• Practice your delivery
• Include personal anecdotes and specific memories
• Be mindful of cultural sensitivities
• Consider incorporating multimedia elements
• Express gratitude and well-wishes
• Don’t be afraid to show emotion
• End with a heartfelt toast

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The Importance of a Wedding speech

A wedding speech is a cherished tradition that allows loved ones to express their joy, share meaningful memories, and offer heartfelt wishes to the newlyweds, creating a lasting emotional impact on the couple and guests alike. Beyond its sentimental value, a well-crafted wedding speech has the power to set the tone for the celebration, bringing laughter, tears, and a sense of unity to the gathering, while also providing a beautiful keepsake for the couple to treasure for years to come.

Purpose and Audience

Giving a wedding speech can be scarier than walking down the aisle in six-inch heels. But here’s the secret sauce: know your purpose and your audience. Are you the best man trying to roast the groom without making his new in-laws faint? Or the maid of honor aiming to make everyone cry (in a good way, of course)? Your role sets the tone. And as for the audience, read the room! If Aunt Edna’s pearl-clutching at your mildest joke, maybe dial back the stand-up routine.

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Structure and Content

Structure is your friend. Think of your speech like a sandwich: a tasty intro to grab attention, a meaty middle filled with juicy stories and heartfelt moments, and a satisfying conclusion that’ll leave everyone feeling warm and fuzzy. And please, don’t just Google “ funny wedding jokes ” and call it a day. Your speech should be as unique as the couple’s first dance song.

Length and Delivery

Nobody has ever complained that a wedding speech was too short. Aim for the sweet spot of 3-5 minutes. Any longer and you risk losing your audience to the siren call of the open bar. As for delivery, channel your inner Meryl Streep (or The Rock, if that’s more your style). Practice in front of a mirror, your cat, or that judgmental houseplant. And make eye contact! Nothing says “I care” like staring at your shoes for five minutes straight.

Cultural Sensitivity

If you’re at a multicultural wedding, think of yourself as a cultural diplomat in a fancy outfit. Be aware of traditions! What’s hilarious in one culture might be more offensive than pineapple on pizza in another. If you’re not sure, ask! The couple, their families, or even that know-it-all cousin who studied abroad for a semester. Better safe than sorry.

Personalization

Your speech should be as unique as the couple’s love story. Ditch the generic templates and dig deep into your memory bank.

26 Wedding Speech Examples

Maid of honor wedding speech example – sentimental.

Emma, my incredible best friend and beautiful bride. When we first met in high school, bonding over our shared love of terrible rom-coms and even worse dance moves, I never imagined I’d be standing here today, watching you marry the love of your life. But here we are, and I couldn’t be happier.

Over the years, you’ve been my rock, my confidante, and my partner in crime. You’ve seen me through my best and worst moments, always with a kind word and a warm hug. And when you met Jake, I saw a light in your eyes that I’d never seen before. I knew he was the one for you.

Jake, you’re not just gaining a wife today, but a best friend, a fierce advocate, and a karaoke partner for life. Take care of our girl, and know that you’re getting one of the best people I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing.

Emma and Jake, may your love continue to grow, may your laughter never fade, and may your life together be as beautiful as the love you share. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and terrible dance moves. Cheers to the happy couple!

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Maid of Honor Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Well, folks, as Emma’s maid of honor, I’m contractually obligated to embarrass her in front of all her loved ones. Don’t worry, Emma, I’ll keep it PG-13… mostly.

First off, let’s talk about Emma’s infamous “cooking” phase in college. Did you know that she once set off the fire alarm trying to boil water? Jake, I hope you’ve got the local pizza place on speed dial. And let’s not forget the time she decided to give herself a haircut the night before a big job interview. Spoiler alert: it didn’t go well, but she got the job anyway. That’s our Emma – failing upwards with style!

But for all her questionable life choices, Emma’s made one brilliant decision today – marrying Jake. Jake, you’re getting a woman who can turn any situation into an adventure, even if that adventure involves explaining to the fire department why the smoke alarm is going off… again.

Emma, you’re my best friend, my partner in crime, and now, officially, someone else’s problem. Just kidding! Jake, take care of our girl. And remember, if she ever offers to cook you a romantic dinner, I’ve left the number for poison control under your plate. To the happy couple!

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Wedding Vows Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental (Bride’s Perspective)

David, my love, my best friend, my soulmate. As I stand here before you, I am overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude for the journey that has led us to this moment.

From our first awkward date at that tiny coffee shop, to our late-night talks about our dreams and fears, to the day you proposed under a sky full of stars, every moment with you has been a gift. You’ve taught me the true meaning of partnership, of unconditional love, and of finding home in another person.

I vow to stand by your side through all of life’s adventures, to support your dreams as fiercely as you’ve supported mine, and to love you with every fiber of my being. I promise to be your biggest cheerleader, your trusted confidante, and your partner in all things.

I vow to face life’s challenges with you hand in hand, to celebrate our joys and weather our sorrows together. David, I give you my heart, my trust, and my future. I love you today, tomorrow, and always.

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Wedding Vows Wedding Speech Example – Humorous (Groom’s Perspective)

Jessica, my darling, my better three-quarters (let’s be honest here). I stand before you today, ready to embark on the craziest adventure of our lives – marriage.

I vow to love you unconditionally, even when you insist on watching rom-coms for the millionth time, or when you “borrow” my favorite sweatshirt and it mysteriously disappears into the black hole that is your closet.

I promise to be your partner in crime, whether we’re planning our next vacation or trying to figure out how to assemble Ikea furniture without divorcing. I vow to always kill the spiders, open the tight jar lids, and pretend to remember all the names of your cousins at family reunions.

I promise to love you through bad hair days, pizza-for-breakfast days, and “I-have-nothing-to-wear” days. Jessica, I choose you to be my wife, my best friend, and the person I’ll blame when the WiFi isn’t working. Here’s to a lifetime of laughter, love, and trying to figure out what’s for dinner. I love you, even more than I love pizza – and that’s saying something!

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Best Man Wedding Speech Example  – Sentimental

John, my best friend, my brother in all but blood. Standing here today, watching you marry the love of your life, Sarah, fills me with an indescribable joy.

From our childhood adventures in your backyard treehouse to our college shenanigans and beyond, you’ve been a constant in my life, always there with a laugh, a helping hand, or a word of encouragement when I needed it most.

Sarah, from the moment John met you, I saw a change in him. He became happier, more driven, and even started doing his own laundry – a miracle if I’ve ever seen one. You bring out the best in him, and for that, I’ll be forever grateful.

To John and Sarah, may your love story continue to unfold with the same magic that brought you together. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventure. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness for two of the most deserving people I know. Cheers!

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Best Man Wedding Speech Example  – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Mike, John’s best man and long-suffering friend. I’ve known John since we were kids, and I can honestly say that Sarah is the best thing that’s ever happened to him – apart from me, of course.

John, buddy, I never thought I’d see the day when you’d willingly commit to anything other than your fantasy football league. Yet here we are, and I couldn’t be prouder. Sarah, you truly are a saint for taking on this project of a man. I hope you know what you’re getting into – his idea of cooking is microwaving leftover pizza, and he still thinks axe body spray is an acceptable substitute for a shower.

But in all seriousness, John, you’ve been my best friend through thick and thin. From covering for me when I snuck out in high school to being my wingman at bars (albeit a terrible one), you’ve always had my back. Sarah, thank you for making my best friend the happiest I’ve ever seen him. You two are perfect together, like peanut butter and jelly, or in John’s case, like pizza and more pizza.

To the happy couple! May your love be as endless as John’s appetite and as strong as Sarah’s patience. Cheers!

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Wedding Officiant Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate the union of Emily and Michael, two souls brought together by love and bound by their commitment to each other.

Emily and Michael, your journey to this moment is a testament to the power of love. From your first chance encounter at a local coffee shop, to your first date where you talked until the restaurant closed, to this very moment – your love has grown, deepened, and flourished.

Today, you stand before your friends and family, ready to declare your love and commitment to one another. Marriage is a sacred bond, a promise to love, support, and cherish each other through all of life’s joys and challenges. It is a journey you embark on together, hand in hand, heart to heart.

As you exchange your vows and rings, remember that these are symbols of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver – for each is the giver and each is the receiver.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your union be blessed with happiness, understanding, and compassion. Emily and Michael, it is my honor to officiate your wedding and to be the first to present you as a married couple.

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Wedding Officiant Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Friends, family, and those who got dragged here against their will, we are gathered here today to witness the voluntary imprisonment… I mean, the joyous union of Alex and Jamie.

Now, I’ve known Alex for years, and I can confidently say that Jamie is the best decision Alex has ever made. And that’s including the time Alex decided to get that “No Ragrets” tattoo – which, ironically, they immediately regretted.

Marriage, my friends, is like a walk in the park. Jurassic Park, that is. It’s exciting, sometimes scary, and occasionally, you might need to outrun a T-Rex. But with the right partner by your side, even facing down prehistoric predators can be an adventure.

Alex and Jamie, as you embark on this wild journey called marriage, remember these words of wisdom: Always say “I love you,” never go to bed angry, and most importantly, agree on which way the toilet paper roll should go. Trust me, it’s the little things that count.

By the power vested in me by a surprisingly easy online ordination process, I now pronounce you married. You may now kiss your partner and seal your fate… I mean, your love. Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you the newly married couple! May your marriage be long, happy, and full of laughter – you’re going to need it!

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Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My dearest Olivia, my little girl. It seems like only yesterday I was teaching you how to ride a bike, and now here you are, radiant in white, marrying the love of your life.

As I look at you today, I’m filled with an overwhelming sense of pride and love. You’ve grown into an incredible woman – kind, intelligent, and strong. I’ve watched you overcome challenges, achieve your dreams, and now, find a love that makes your eyes light up in a way I’ve never seen before.

Daniel, from the first time Olivia brought you home, I knew you were special. The way you look at her, the way you support her dreams, and the way you’ve become a part of our family – I couldn’t have hoped for a better partner for my daughter.

Olivia and Daniel, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that love is both a gift and a responsibility. Cherish each other, support each other’s dreams, and never forget to laugh together.

To my daughter and new son-in-law, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless joy. I love you both. Cheers to the happy couple!

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Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Olivia’s dad, also known as the guy who’s about to be significantly poorer after today. But hey, who needs retirement anyway?

Olivia, my darling daughter, I’ve been dreading this day since you were born – not because I’m losing you, but because I knew I’d have to make a speech in front of all these people. You couldn’t have just eloped, could you?

I still remember the day you were born. I held you in my arms and thought, “I’m going to have to pay for a wedding someday.” Well, that day has come, and let me tell you, weddings were a lot cheaper 25 years ago.

Daniel, when Olivia first brought you home, I had my doubts. But then I saw how happy you make her, and I realized something important – I can finally cancel her phone plan and car insurance.

In all seriousness, Daniel, you’re the son I never had, mainly because your mother-in-law said one kid was enough. Welcome to the family, son. Remember, our family motto is “We put the ‘fun’ in dysfunctional.”

To Olivia and Daniel, may your love be as strong as the WiFi signal you’ll fight over, and may your marriage be longer than the line for the open bar tonight. Cheers!

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Father of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My son, Ethan, and my new daughter-in-law, Sophie. As I stand here today, my heart is full of joy and pride.

Ethan, from the moment you were born, you’ve been a source of endless happiness in our lives. I’ve watched you grow from a curious little boy into the remarkable man you are today. Your kindness, your integrity, and your sense of humor have always made me proud to be your father.

Sophie, from the first time Ethan brought you home, you’ve been a ray of sunshine in our family. The way you love our son, the way you’ve embraced our family as your own – we couldn’t have wished for a more wonderful addition to our family.

Ethan and Sophie, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Father of the Groom Wedding Speech Example  – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Ethan’s dad. I’m the guy who taught him everything he knows – except for all the things his mother insisted I was doing wrong.

Ethan, son, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I’ve been paying for your car insurance for far too long. Sophie, he’s your responsibility now. No takebacks!

I still remember when Ethan was a little boy, he used to say he wanted to be just like me when he grew up. Well, son, you’ve succeeded – you’re also losing your hair and marrying way out of your league.

Sophie, when Ethan first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him how to properly load a dishwasher.

In all seriousness, Ethan and Sophie, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Ethan’s case, like pizza and more pizza. Your mother and I couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family, Sophie.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Ethan’s Wi-Fi password and may your marriage be longer than the line at the open bar tonight. Cheers!

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Mother of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My darling Sophia, my beautiful daughter. As I look at you today, resplendent in white, my heart overflows with love and pride.

From the moment I held you in my arms, I knew you were destined for greatness. I’ve watched you grow from a curious little girl into the remarkable woman you are today. Your kindness, your determination, and your infectious laughter have been a constant joy in our lives.

Thomas, from the first time Sophia brought you home, I saw the way her eyes lit up around you. You’ve brought so much happiness into her life, and by extension, into ours. Your gentleness, your humor, and the way you support Sophia in all her endeavors make you the perfect partner for our daughter.

Sophia and Thomas, as you embark on this beautiful journey together, remember that marriage is a partnership built on love, trust, and mutual respect. Support each other’s dreams, face challenges hand in hand, and never forget to find joy in the little moments you share.

May your love continue to grow deeper and stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Mother of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Sophia’s mom. I’m the one who taught her everything she knows – except for how to pick up her clothes from the floor. Sorry about that, Thomas.

Sophia, my darling daughter, I’ve been preparing for this day since you were born. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I’ve been dreaming of the day I could finally turn your bedroom into my personal yoga studio.

I still remember when Sophia was a little girl, she used to say she wanted to be just like me when she grew up. Well, sweetheart, you’ve succeeded – you’re also marrying someone who can’t load a dishwasher properly. It must be genetic.

Thomas, when Sophia first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach her how to cook something other than microwaved ramen.

In all seriousness, Sophia and Thomas, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like wine and cheese, or in Sophia’s case, like Netflix and procrastination. Thomas, we couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family.

To the happy couple! May your love be as endless as Sophia’s shoe collection and may your marriage be stronger than the coffee you’ll need to survive her morning crankiness. Cheers!

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Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear son, Nathan, and my new daughter-in-law, Emma. Today, as I watch you join your lives together, my heart is filled with an indescribable joy.

Nathan, from the moment you were born, you’ve been the light of our lives. I’ve watched you grow from a mischievous little boy into the compassionate, intelligent, and kind-hearted man you are today. Your sense of humor, your dedication, and your ability to see the best in others have always made me proud to be your mother.

Emma, from the first time Nathan introduced you to us, I knew you were special. The way you love our son, the way you’ve embraced our family as your own – we couldn’t have wished for a more wonderful addition to our family. Your kindness, your strength, and your infectious smile have brought so much joy into Nathan’s life and ours.

Nathan and Emma, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love, understanding, and growth. Support each other’s dreams, face life’s challenges together, and always find reasons to laugh together.

May your love continue to deepen with each passing day. May your home be filled with warmth, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless happy memories. We love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love!

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Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m Nathan’s mom. I’m the one who spent 18 years trying to teach him basic life skills, most of which I’m pretty sure he’s already forgotten. Emma, good luck with that.

Nathan, my darling son, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m eager to see you married off, but because I’m excited to finally have someone else to call when you can’t figure out how to use the washing machine.

I still remember when Nathan was a little boy, he used to say he wanted to be a superhero when he grew up. Well, son, you’ve sort of succeeded – you’re marrying Emma, and that definitely requires super-human patience.

Emma, when Nathan first told us about you, we were overjoyed. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that vegetables are not, in fact, the enemy.

In all seriousness, Nathan and Emma, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Nathan’s case, like video games and “just five more minutes, Mom!” Emma, we couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our family.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Nathan’s ability to sleep through multiple alarms, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Nathan tried to cook a turkey for Thanksgiving. Cheers!

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Brother of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear sister, Olivia, and my new brother-in-law, Jack. It’s an honor to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Liv, as your big brother, I’ve had the privilege of watching you grow from an annoying little sister (sorry, but it’s true) into the amazing woman you are today. Your kindness, your determination, and your ability to light up any room have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Jack. Your eyes sparkled in a way I’d never seen before, and I knew he must be someone special. Jack, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how happy you make my sister. Your loyalty, your sense of humor, and the way you support Olivia in all her dreams make you the perfect partner for her.

Olivia and Jack, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a partnership. It’s about supporting each other, laughing together, and facing life’s challenges hand in hand.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventures. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Brother of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Ladies and gentlemen, for those who don’t know me, I’m Olivia’s brother, also known as the guy who’s been protecting her from spiders and bad boyfriends for the past 28 years. Looks like I can retire from at least one of those jobs now, Jack.

Liv, my dear sister, I’ve been preparing for this speech since the day you were born. Not because I’m particularly eloquent, but because I’ve been gathering embarrassing stories about you for nearly three decades. Don’t worry, I’ll only share the PG-rated ones… maybe.

I still remember when Olivia was five, she declared she was going to marry her pet goldfish. Well, sis, I’m glad to see your taste in life partners has improved significantly. No offense to Bubbles the goldfish, may he rest in peace.

Jack, when Olivia first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had someone who could reach the top shelf in the kitchen. Welcome to the family, man. Your official duties include killing spiders, opening tight jars, and pretending to laugh at dad’s jokes.

In all seriousness, Olivia and Jack, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like coffee and donuts, or in Olivia’s case, like online shopping and buyer’s remorse.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Olivia’s WiFi password and may your marriage be longer than the list of TV series she’s binge-watched. Cheers!

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Brother of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My brother, Ethan, and my new sister-in-law, Madison. It’s an honor and a joy to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Ethan, as your little brother, I’ve always looked up to you. From teaching me how to ride a bike to showing me how to tie a tie, you’ve been my role model and my best friend. Your kindness, your integrity, and your ability to make everyone around you feel valued have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Madison. The way your face lit up when you spoke about her, I knew she was someone special. Madison, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my brother. Your warmth, your intelligence, and the way you support Ethan in all his endeavors make you the perfect partner for him.

Ethan and Madison, as you embark on this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love and partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow deeper and stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Brother of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m Ethan’s younger, funnier, and let’s face it, better-looking brother. I’m also the reason Ethan learned how to share his toys at an early age. You’re welcome, Madison.

Ethan, my dear brother, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I finally get to embarrass you in front of all your friends and family. It’s payback time for all those noogies and wedgies, bro.

I still remember when Ethan was ten, he swore he’d never get married because girls had “cooties.” Well, brother, I’m glad to see you’ve finally realized that cooties aren’t real. Or maybe Madison just has really good cootie repellent.

Madison, when Ethan first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that socks don’t belong on the living room floor. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include deciphering Ethan’s handwriting and explaining to him that “fine” never actually means fine.

In all seriousness, Ethan and Madison, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like peanut butter and jelly, or in Ethan’s case, like dad jokes and eye rolls.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Ethan’s morning breath and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Ethan tried to give himself a haircut. Cheers!

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Sister of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My beloved sister, Emily, and my new brother-in-law, Alex. It’s an honor to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Em, as your big sister, I’ve had the joy of watching you grow from a feisty little girl into the incredible woman you are today. Your compassion, your strength, and your ability to find joy in the smallest things have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Alex. Your eyes sparkled with a happiness I’d never seen before, and I knew he must be someone truly special. Alex, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my sister. Your kindness, your sense of humor, and the way you support Emily in all her dreams make you the perfect partner for her.

Emily and Alex, as you begin this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love, growth, and partnership. It’s about supporting each other, laughing together, and facing life’s adventures hand in hand.

May your love continue to deepen with each passing day. May your home be filled with warmth, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless beautiful moments. I love you both dearly. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Sister of the Bride Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Hello everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m Emily’s sister, also known as the one who taught her everything she knows about fashion, makeup, and how to sweet-talk dad into extending her curfew. You’re welcome, Alex.

Em, my dear sister, I’ve been preparing for this speech since the day you were born. Not because I’m a great public speaker, but because I’ve been collecting embarrassing stories about you for the past 25 years. Don’t worry, I’ll only share the ones that won’t make Grandma faint.

I still remember when Emily was seven, she announced she was going to marry her favorite boy band member. Well, sis, I’m glad to see your taste in men has improved. No offense to Justin Timberlake, but I think Alex is a much better choice.

Alex, when Emily first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make her happy, but because we finally had someone who could reach the top shelf in the kitchen without a stepladder. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include killing spiders, opening tight jars, and pretending to be interested when Emily talks about her latest Netflix obsession.

In all seriousness, Emily and Alex, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like wine and cheese, or in Emily’s case, like online shopping and next-day delivery.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Emily’s obsession with taking selfies, and may your marriage be filled with more joy than the time Emily finally learned how to parallel park. Cheers!

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Sister of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental

My dear brother, Michael, and my new sister-in-law, Sarah. It’s a privilege to stand here today and celebrate your love.

Mike, as your little sister, I’ve always looked up to you. From protecting me from imaginary monsters under the bed to being my confidant during tough times, you’ve been my hero and my best friend. Your kindness, your perseverance, and your ability to make everyone around you feel valued have always inspired me.

I remember the day you told me about Sarah. The way your eyes lit up when you spoke about her, I knew she was the one. Sarah, from the moment you became a part of our lives, I’ve seen how you bring out the best in my brother. Your warmth, your intelligence, and the way you support Michael in all his endeavors make you the perfect partner for him.

Michael and Sarah, as you start this new chapter of your lives together, remember that marriage is a beautiful journey of love and partnership. It’s about supporting each other’s dreams, facing challenges together, and finding joy in the simple moments you share.

May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with countless beautiful memories. I love you both. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness!

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Sister of the Groom Wedding Speech Example – Humorous

Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m Michael’s sister, also known as the one who taught him everything he knows about style, cooking, and how to charm his way out of trouble. You’re welcome, Sarah.

Mike, my dear brother, I’ve been waiting for this day for a long time. Not because I’m particularly sentimental, but because I finally get to reveal all your secrets in front of your friends and family. Don’t worry, I’ll keep it PG… mostly.

I still remember when Michael was eight, he declared he’d never get married because it would interfere with his career as a professional video game player. Well, bro, I’m glad to see you’ve finally realized that there’s more to life than beating your high score. Although, Sarah, I should warn you – he still gets pretty excited about new game releases.

Sarah, when Michael first told us about you, we were thrilled. Not just because you make him happy, but because we finally had hope that someone would teach him that the laundry basket is not, in fact, an optional piece of furniture. Welcome to the family! Your official duties include deciphering Michael’s grocery lists and explaining to him that “I’m fine” never actually means fine.

In all seriousness, Michael and Sarah, you two are perfect for each other. You complement each other like coffee and donuts, or in Michael’s case, like dad jokes and eye rolls.

To the happy couple! May your love be as strong as Michael’s ability to fall asleep anywhere, anytime, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Michael tried to assemble IKEA furniture without reading the instructions. Cheers!

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Joint Wedding Speech Examples

Joint wedding speeches are a relatively new trend, but according to speechy the have become more popular in the recent years.

So I thought, why not include some examples.

Joint Wedding Speech Example – Sentimental (Best Man and Maid of Honor)

Best Man (James): Good evening, everyone. I’m James, the best man, and standing beside me is the maid of honor, Emily. We’ve known Alex and Sarah since college, and we’re honored to share this special day with them.

Maid of Honor (Emily): When James and I were asked to give a joint speech, we immediately agreed. After all, who better to talk about the bride and groom than their best friends who’ve been there through it all?

James: I’ve known Alex since our freshman year when we were roommates. From day one, I knew he was someone special – kind, loyal, and always up for an adventure.

Emily: And I met Sarah in our first psychology class. Her infectious laugh and compassionate nature made us instant friends.

James: I remember the day Alex met Sarah. He came back to our dorm with this goofy grin on his face, talking about this amazing girl he’d just met.

Emily: Sarah called me that same night, gushing about the cute guy she’d bumped into at the campus coffee shop. Little did they know that their chance encounter would lead to this beautiful day.

James: Over the years, we’ve watched Alex and Sarah’s love grow. They’ve supported each other through tough exams, celebrated each other’s victories, and built a relationship based on trust, respect, and genuine friendship.

Emily: Sarah, you’ve been my rock through so many life events. Your strength and kindness never cease to amaze me. Alex, thank you for loving our girl so completely and for being such a wonderful addition to our friend group.

James: Alex, you’ve been more than a best friend to me – you’re the brother I never had. Sarah, thank you for making my best friend happier than I’ve ever seen him.

Emily: As we stand here today, we’re not just celebrating a wedding. We’re celebrating the union of two incredible individuals who make each other better every single day.

James: To Alex and Sarah, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing year. May your home be filled with laughter, your hearts with love, and your lives with endless adventures.

Emily: May you always find comfort in each other’s arms, strength in each other’s support, and joy in each other’s smile.

James and Emily (together): To Alex and Sarah – our dear friends, and now, husband and wife. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Cheers!

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Joint Wedding Speech Example – Humorous (Father of the Bride and Father of the Groom)

Father of the Bride (Tom): Good evening, everyone. I’m Tom, Jessica’s dad, and this distinguished gentleman beside me is Bob, Ryan’s father. We’ve been asked to give a joint speech tonight, which is fitting because we’ve been joining forces for years now to keep these two out of trouble.

Father of the Groom (Bob): That’s right, Tom. When our kids first started dating, we thought we’d finally get a break. Little did we know we were just trading one set of headaches for another.

Tom: I remember the day Jessica told us about Ryan. I was thrilled – not just because he made her happy, but because I finally had someone else to blame for the dents in my car.

Bob: And when Ryan introduced us to Jessica, I was ecstatic. I thought, “Finally, someone who might be able to teach my son that socks don’t belong on the coffee table.”

Tom: Over the years, we’ve watched Jessica and Ryan’s relationship grow. They’ve supported each other through thick and thin, good times and bad, and countless pizza deliveries.

Bob: Ryan has always been an, let’s say, “interesting” kid. When he was five, he wanted to be a dinosaur when he grew up. Jessica, I’m glad you’ve managed to slightly adjust his career goals.

Tom: And Jessica, well, she’s always been our little princess. Ryan, I hope you know that “princess” is just a fancy word for “someone who always gets their way.” Good luck with that, son.

Bob: But in all seriousness, we couldn’t be happier to see these two tying the knot. They complement each other perfectly, like peanut butter and jelly, or in their case, like Netflix and procrastination.

Tom: Jessica, sweetheart, you’ve made us proud in so many ways. Your kindness, your intelligence, and your ability to put up with Ryan’s jokes are truly impressive.

Bob: And Ryan, my boy, seeing the man you’ve become and the way you love Jessica fills my heart with joy. Your mother and I couldn’t be prouder.

Tom: As fathers, we’re not losing a daughter and a son today. We’re gaining…

Bob: …a whole lot of expenses. Seriously, do you two know how much grandkids cost these days?

Tom: To Jessica and Ryan, may your love be as strong as our new combined credit card debt, and may your marriage be filled with more laughter than the time Ryan tried to propose and forgot the ring.

Bob: May you always support each other’s dreams, have patience for each other’s quirks, and most importantly, may you always remember whose turn it is to do the dishes.

Tom and Bob (together): To the happy couple! May your love story be long, your arguments short, and may you always remember – we’re just a phone call away… unless you need money or babysitting. Cheers!

Final Thoughts: Toasting to Your Success

At the heart of every great wedding speech is genuine emotion and a desire to celebrate love. Whether you’re the wise-cracking best man, the sentimental maid of honor, or the parent trying not to ugly-cry through your entire speech, your sincerity will shine through. Don’t let the pressure get to you.

Even if you stumble over a few words or your voice cracks with emotion, in ten years, the only thing people will remember is how much love was in the room. Now go forth and speak your heart out! And if all else fails, just raise your glass and say, “To love, laughter, and happily ever after!” Cheers to you, cheers to the happy couple, and cheers to love in all its beautiful, messy, wonderful forms!

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Standing up and speaking at a wedding, whether it’s the groom’s speech, the father of the bride speech, or the eagerly anticipated best man speech, can be quite nerve-wracking. We provide examples of wedding speech introductions, along with instructions on how to start your speech, so you can feel confident and get off to a strong start.

How do you begin a wedding speech example?

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. I’m honored to greet you all tonight as (name’s friend or relative). “I just wanted to say thank you for such a wonderful introduction, (name). I only hope I can live up to your kind words! ” Cached.

If you’ve read our article on how to write a great wedding speech, you’ll know how crucial it is to start strong. Today, we’re going to show you how to do just that with a list of the best wedding speech opening lines. We’ve made sure to include a variety of options so there’s something to suit every style of speech, whether you want to keep it incredibly simple, bring the audience to tears, or wow them with a joke. Some of our wedding speech opening lines can also be customized to help you. So let’s get started!

We’ve divided our sample opening lines into three categories: straightforward and sincere, humorous, and opening lines that include quotes from well-known figures. Hopefully, this will make it easier for you to find what you’re looking for.

Please take note that (name) can refer to you, the bride/groom, the couple as a whole, or another wedding party member.

How long should the welcome speech at a wedding be?

Keep it short and sweet. Typically, reception speeches shouldn’t last longer than three minutes. You could always extend your time slot if you’d like, but since you two are just married, you probably won’t. (It’s your wedding, so follow your rules.)

Let us assist you in making a memorable toast to begin your wedding.

Many family members will toast you throughout the course of your wedding. Even though family members, close friends, bridesmaids, and groomsmen frequently give wedding speeches during the ceremony and reception, you can still participate in the fun. Couple speeches, particularly welcome speeches at weddings, are increasingly common additions to the toasting repertoire. You might feel compelled to say a few words to the loved ones who have chosen to celebrate your special day with you, even if public speaking isn’t your favorite thing in the world. When else will you have all of your loved ones in one place?

You’ve come to the right place if you’re thinking about giving a welcome speech at a wedding. We’ve put together the ultimate wedding welcome speech guide right here to assist you in writing a toast that will go down in history.

How do you write a five-minute wedding speech?

Prepare ahead of time. dot. Tell them about yourself and how you know the bride and groom. dot. Congratulate the newlyweds and extend your gratitude to the hosts, visitors, and wedding party. dot. Make it your own. dot. Identify three traits and give three examples for each. dot. Describe the couple. dot. Have an introduction, middle, and conclusion. dot. Think about your audience.

You’ve just been asked to make a speech at the wedding of someone you love. It can be intimidating, which is why many people choose to avoid public speaking, so it can be both an honor and a nightmare if you’re not used to giving speeches. But it’s time to band together when your best friend asks you to give a speech at his or her wedding. Now that you’re wondering if you even know how to write a wedding speech, we’ll tell you what makes some speeches funny and memorable and what makes others cringe-worthy and uninspiring. With a focus on what you should do, what you shouldn’t do, and how to deliver your killer wedding speech like a pro, we’ve put together the ultimate guide on how to write a wedding speech.

The following list of “dos” should help you if you’re wondering how to write a wedding speech.

If the bride just asked you to give a wedding speech but you don’t know how to write one, now is not the time to put it off. You probably haven’t given too many public speeches before because public speaking is one of the top fears that people have. You might not do too well winging this one unless you’re a performer or an experienced improv comedian. The best way to avoid freezing up when you take the microphone if you get nervous in front of an audience (as most of us do) is to be prepared.

How should a welcome speech be concluded?

After thanking the audience once more for coming, conclude the speech by introducing the following speaker. As a result, it will be simpler to transition effectively from the speech to the subsequent event.

After dealing with the commotion of pre-event marketing and registration procedures, there is one more critical task you must complete: introducing yourself to the attendees. The way you greet people in person not only sets the tone for what happens later, but it also influences how attendees feel about your event. While an engaging opening speech for the event will greatly increase engagement, a dull welcome speech may kill the excitement. So how do you pick the proper words?

Actually, there are no restrictions at all. Depending on what you want to accomplish, you can create your event welcome strategy using speeches, presentations, light shows, or articles. The key here is to greet them in a way that expresses the purpose of your event. There should be something in the welcome that describes what you do, whether it’s a corporate meeting or personal achievement awards. Making this concept the focal point of your opening statement is your aim.

Here is a fantastic illustration of an opening ceremony designed for the 2016 TNW Conference:

How do you write a punchy, succinct wedding speech?

8 Tips for Better Speech Writing Make fun of the bride-to-be a little by telling a joke. Give the bride a compliment and mention the bridesmaid. Give the newlyweds a few words of wisdom. Here, something funny is fantastic.

To put it mildly, it can be difficult to write a best man speech. But it isn’t required to be. You can say what needs to be said, impress people, and still be humorous if you follow our advice for writing concise, best-man speeches. The good news is that it only takes a few minutes, after which you can breathe normally once more and enjoy the day!

An excellent speech will always contain the necessities. Just the beginning should include a toast that is appropriate, a heartfelt introduction, some jokes, and words of encouragement. Here are some pointers for crafting a fantastic best-man toast.

“Good evening, everyone! Let’s raise our glasses and wish the newlyweds a happy marriage!

How should you address guests at a wedding?

Welcome to our wedding website! dot. Yes, we did say that. We can’t wait to celebrate our marriage with all of our loved ones, so please join us. dot. The countdown to our eternal union has begun. We appreciate you saying “yes” to attending our special day. Dot, nice to see you here. The location must be here.

With these samples of wedding website wording, we’ve done the creative writing for you.

When a member of your family visits your wedding website, they will first see a welcome message. Therefore, if you want to ensure that they stay and use it, create an engaging and powerful welcome message for your wedding website. While your wedding website should contain all the pertinent information, including maps to the ceremony location, your wedding registry, a dress code, guest accommodations, and pictures of you and your spouse-to-be, In the design of your website, the welcome message is a crucial component that shouldn’t be ignored. We’ve gathered a few of our favorite examples and suggestions to help spark your creativity so you can create the best welcome message for your wedding website.

When you’re ready to get started, go to The Knot to create your own stunning wedding website quickly and easily. You can even select templates and fonts to match your save-the-dates and wedding invitations. Then, use a few of these inventive ideas for wedding websites to motivate your own.

What not to say in a wedding speech

The funny thing is, I dated the bride or groom first, so steer clear of these subjects at all costs to avoid awkward moments. I never thought they would get back together after their third breakup, you know. dot. Right now, I’m just so inebriated. No one ever imagined this day would arrive, so kiss your freedom goodbye.

If you’re given a microphone at a wedding, your top priority should be to express your congratulations to the newlyweds. By avoiding these topics, you can avoid an awkward situation.

1. It’s ironic that I first dated the bride or groom.

2. As you may recall, I never imagined they would get back together after their third breakup. any time.

What is the ideal length for a welcome speech?

For smaller events, 1-2 minutes is usually appropriate, and larger, more formal events, like conferences, typically take 5 minutes.

If you have to deliver a welcome speech at a program or event, don’t worry; with the right structure and tone, it’s very simple to write and deliver a welcome speech for just about any occasion. From your opening remarks and acknowledgements to setting the right tone and nailing your closing remarks, we’ve laid out everything you need to know. You’ve got this under control!

Use formal language to greet the audience, as this is a formal gathering. Choose a suitable salutation, such as “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Then use a greeting to welcome the audience to the occasion, such as “It is my pleasure to welcome everyone to our lovely venue tonight.” (1).

Use informal, humorous language to welcome guests. Choose a brief and direct greeting like, “Good morning everyone!” and thank the guests for coming with a sentence like, “It’s so wonderful to see you all here on this sunny day.” (2).

What are some tips for crafting the ideal welcome speech?

Typical welcome speech ingredients include a general greeting to all guests, mentioning the event’s name and the host, and expressing gratitude for their attendance. to provide a quick overview of the event or a brief introduction of the host (the company, organization, family, or individual).

• You will thus deliver the event’s welcome address. Congratulations! Now you want to double-check that you get it right.
• This comprehensive, step-by-step guide will provide you with everything you need to write and deliver a strong welcome speech.
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At a wedding, who makes the opening remarks?

The Welcome Toast After everyone has settled into their seats, the host should speak first and take the microphone. The bride’s parents (or father) are most frequently the ones to make the first toast, which should include a greeting to the guests as well as a toast to the happy couple.

The toasts are a significant wedding custom that you won’t want to miss before you start dancing. When planning the timeline for the evening, be sure to leave time for them because, if they’re done well, they can be among the reception’s most cherished and memorable elements. We’re here to break down the fundamentals of a toast if you’re unsure of how much time to allocate or who should be chosen to speak.

Good preparation is essential for a successful wedding toast. While spontaneous speeches can be lovely, you won’t want to keep your guests away from the dance floor for too long, so leave the open mic at the rehearsal dinner and start by identifying exactly who you want to speak at your reception. Although you can change these roles to suit your preferences, the traditional key speakers are:

Here is a breakdown of wedding speeches.

What do you say when you greet visitors?

Hello, welcome, good morning, welcome, and hello, good afternoon are a few suggestions. Make sure to introduce yourself by name and to keep your tone both formal and informal. “Hello, I’m Nikko. Nice to meet you.”. It’s important to greet new visitors, even if you’re talking to someone else.

What is an example of a wedding speech?

“To my bridesmaids, please know that you are my oldest and closest friends, and I am truly honored to have you in my bridal party. We are grateful for your love, support, and assistance throughout the years as well as at the wedding. I appreciate you being there for me once more on this memorable day. I cherish each and every one of you.”.

The task of writing your wedding speech can be challenging. You can captivate the audience by using our wedding speech examples and advice.

Especially since they’ve gathered to commemorate your newest achievement and bestow their blessings upon you, your wedding is the ideal occasion to express to your loved ones how much you cherish and value them. Take some time to write your wedding speech in advance and practice delivering it as well.

Decide in advance who will say what and who will go first so you don’t end up being repetitive. You can choose to thank the people in your lives collectively as a couple or individually.

How do you draft a cordial welcome speech?

Good morning to everyone! Express your gratitude to the guests for coming by saying something like, “It’s wonderful to see you all here on this sunny day. More casual language might be appropriate for a gathering of close friends and family.

It’s easy to write and deliver a welcome speech for just about any occasion if you follow the right structure and tone, so if you’re in charge of giving a welcome speech at a program or event, don’t worry. From your opening remarks and acknowledgements to setting the right tone and nailing your closing remarks, we’ve laid out everything you need to know. This is in your hands!

For a formal setting, greet the audience in a serious manner. Pick a polite salutation, like “Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Then use a greeting to welcome the audience to the occasion, such as “It is my pleasure to welcome everyone to our lovely venue tonight.” (1).

Use a friendly, light-hearted tone to formally welcome guests. Good morning to all, and please accept my sincere thanks for coming.” (2).

What are a few examples of greeting words?

“To say that we are thrilled to see you is an understatement.” We’re delighted to have you here, and I’d like to extend a warm welcome to everyone. ” dot. Glad to have you. dot. welcoming welcome. dot. Kindly welcome. an amiable welcome.

The challenge of a welcome speech is to come up with alternative ways to convey your sincerity without using a string of meaningless “same-old, same-old” words and phrases to welcome your guests.

There is also a further question regarding that. Your language choices will be influenced by the event’s formality or informality.

Do you plan on making a formal or informal welcome speech?

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A Guide for Couples Who Want to Write a Great Wedding Welcome Speech

• Intro • First subsection

While the Maid of Honor toast , Best Man speech , and parent speeches are all toasts that will be given in your honor, the couple's toast is your opportunity to express your gratitude and love for everyone celebrating your big day with you.

Do You Have to Give a Welcome Speech?

Let's start with the basics - no, you don't have to give a welcome speech. Just make sure you know whether or not you're giving one, and you align with your partner and your DJ / band, so that you aren't awkwardly handed a mic and wish you knew in advance so you could prep.

Who Gives the Welcome Speech at the Wedding?

If you decide that you do want to give a welcome speech, you and your partner should align on if you're doing it together, or if just one of you is representing the unit. There's no right or wrong way to do this - it totally depends on each individual's comfort level with public speaking.

When Should You Give the Welcome Speech at the Wedding?

When to give the welcome speech is entirely up to you. Some couples prefer to do it at the rehearsal dinner, while others will do it to kick off the reception. Another option is to do it after the final toast to close out the speeches. The most important thing when it comes to timing is just making sure that your vendors know so that they can budget your timeline accordingly.

What Do You Say in a Wedding Welcome Speech?

A Warm Opening - Express Gratitude

Begin your toast by expressing gratitude to everyone for being part of your special day. A simple "thank you" can go a long way in setting a warm and welcoming atmosphere. You can spotlight specific individuals, like a grandparent who traveled far to be there, and even vendors who deserve a round of applause for their incredible work.

Take a Moment to Appreciate Your Partner

While you may have already done your vows, this is an opportunity for a more informal moment of sharing your love for your partner. It's a real-time acknowledgment of what you're feeling and what you're grateful for.

Share Any Announcements

Consider this your time to also shoehorn any important logistical announcements you want people to know, like what time the busses are leaving or where they can find you to say bye tomorrow.

To get started writing your wedding toasts, check out Provenance's Toast Builder

Overcoming Common Challenges

Navigating Nervousness

Feeling nervous is entirely normal. Take a deep breath, focus on your love, and let the authenticity of your emotions shine through. Practice in front of a mirror or with a trusted friend.

Balancing Humor and Emotion

Balancing humor and emotion is key. Injecting humor keeps the mood light, while heartfelt moments deepen the emotional connection.

FAQ: Addressing Your Concerns

Can i have multiple toasts at my wedding.

Absolutely! Having multiple toasts adds variety and allows different perspectives to shine. Coordinate with your officiant and loved ones to ensure a seamless flow.

How Long Should the Welcome Toast Be?

While there's no strict rule, aim for a toast that lasts less than 3 minutes.

Crafting a welcome toast is a wonderful opportunity to share your authentic, real-time feelings, connect with your guests, and set the stage for a memorable celebration. With Provenance's Toast Builder , you can navigate the process effortlessly, ensuring your welcome toast reflects the authenticity and uniqueness of your relationship.

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How To Write A Welcome Speech For A Wedding?

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A wedding welcome speech is a crucial part of the wedding celebration, and it should include a greeting, expressions of gratitude, personal anecdotes or humor, and a general greeting to all guests. It is usually given by the bride or groom’s parents and should cover all bases, from sentimental to silly and sweet.

To write a memorable wedding speech, start planning early, introduce yourself and how you know the bride and groom, and thank hosts, guests, and others. Balancing humor and emotion is key, as humor keeps the mood light while heartfelt moments deepen the emotional connection. There are six common content items in a good welcome speech: greetings to welcome everyone, acknowledging special guests, an introduction of the event itself, and a brief overview of special highlights.

To prepare an engaging wedding welcome speech, follow these steps: understand your audience, plan the structure of your speech, add personal touches, practice and rehearse, and be enthusiastic and authentic. Speak clearly and slowly, and give thanks to everyone for coming to the event.

In conclusion, a warm and memorable wedding welcome speech should include a warm greeting, expressions of gratitude, personal anecdotes, humor, and a heartfelt ending. By following these tips, you can create a memorable and touching speech that leaves everyone feeling touched and inspired.

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What to say in a welcome wedding speech?

Bride, Groom, or Newlyweds. “Welcome! Thank you for coming to celebrate with us. I hope you’re having a great day! I want to thank you all for coming today. Hi everyone! Hopefully you know who I am, otherwise you might be at the wrong wedding. If you don’t know me, I’m the luckiest person in the world! I’m the father of the bride or groom. “Friends and family of NAME and NAME, thank you for being here today to celebrate their marriage.” “The highest happiness on earth is the happiness of marriage.” “Today, promises have become permanent and friends have become family.” “Thank you for joining us today on such a wonderful occasion.””It’s an honor to give a speech today on my child’s wedding day.” “Welcome to the most important day in the lives of NAME and NAME.” “Today is a celebration. We’re here to celebrate with NAME and NAME.” “Love has brought NAME and NAME and everyone in this room together today.”

How do you write a welcome message for a wedding?

Welcome to our wedding website! We can’t wait to share our wedding day with you. … Thanks for visiting our wedding website! … Welcome! … Love is in the air, and our wedding website is where it all begins. How do you describe your wedding in a few words? Choose words that capture the essence of your love story. We’ll show you how to make your wedding website shine. This article offers 20 wedding website welcome message ideas. Make your website exciting and get your guests excited for the big day!

Create a wedding website. Your wedding website is a great way to share your love story with family and friends. Once you’ve chosen a platform or company to create your website, it’s time to add photos, information, and words to represent you as a couple. First, write your welcome message! Your wedding website’s welcome message is the first thing your loved ones will see. It has more than one purpose.

Where to start with a wedding speech?

If you’re still unsure about how to open your wedding speech, check out our tips. Introduce yourself. Start with a quote or compliment. Use a funny story or anecdote. Thank everyone. Recap your key messages. Share your advice and thoughts. End on a positive note. Wedding speeches are the highlight of the wedding reception. They can make people laugh or cry. But it can be hard to start and finish your wedding speech well. Your opening should be memorable. If you nail the ending, guests will remember it for years. Are you nervous about getting it right? Don’t worry. We’re here to help. In this post, we discuss how to start and end a wedding speech. We discuss how to start and end wedding speeches. Ready to start? Let’s get started.

What is a catchy opening statement for a speech?

Ask a question. Ask the audience a question at the start. Watch the first few minutes of Amy Purdys’ speech. She asks, “If your life were a book, how would you want it to end?”

8 Opening a Speech: Get their attention! Get the audience’s attention or your speech is a waste. I mean it! Most people spend most of their time on the body of their speech and then add an opening and a closing at the last minute. The opening and closing are the most important. Why? If you don’t get the audience’s attention, they won’t listen to you. Lisa Marshall of Toastmasters International says the opening words are important. She spends 10 times more time developing and practicing the opener than any other part of the speech.

How do you welcome at the beginning of a wedding ceremony?

Generic. Dear friends and family of the Bride and Groom, thank you for being here today. We are here to celebrate the marriage of Bride and Groom. We all want to be loved. What do you say at the start of your wedding ceremony? A good welcome speech is essential for a wedding ceremony. It shows how important the wedding is to the couple and everyone there. Here are three examples of wedding ceremony introductions.

1. Generic. Dear friends and family of the bride and groom, thank you for being here. We are here to celebrate the marriage of Bride and Groom.

How do you start a wedding speech example?

Start with a thank you. Thank your guests for coming to your wedding and for their love and support. Thank your family and friends for helping make your wedding day a success. Thank you for being here today to celebrate with us. Your presence makes this day special. Thank you for coming to our wedding. Your love and support mean a lot to us. We feel so blessed to have you here. We’re honored to have you here, and we hope you enjoyed the party. Thank you for being part of our special day. Thank you all for being here today to celebrate our wedding. Your presence means a lot to us. Thank you for joining us on this special day. We are surrounded by our loved ones, and we are grateful for their support and love. We are so happy you’re here to celebrate with us. Thank you for your kind words and gifts. We are lucky to have such great people in our lives, and we look forward to making more happy memories together. Thank you for being there on our wedding day. Your love and support mean a lot to us. Tell a personal story. Your story of how you met can make your speech more personal and engaging. Choose a story about your wedding day and your partner.

How do you start a welcome speech example?

Good morning, everyone. Welcome to all present here, teachers, parents, and students. Thanks to the special guest of the day. It’s an honor to have such an accomplished author and entrepreneur here. Thank you for speaking today. I’m lucky to be here. This school is proud of you. This is a talented group of students. You have done well in school and won many awards. You excel in sports too, like martial arts, football, basketball, and badminton. Our school is a top performer in inter-school events like dancing, singing, speech, elocution, and debate.

How do you write a nice welcome message?

Keep your messages short, spell and grammar check, be respectful, use the right terms, be friendly and welcoming, and tell people what to expect. Make a great first impression. – Will Rogers. You don’t get a second chance to make a good first impression. Would you? Send better welcome messages and make better connections during onboarding. This could be for new employees or customers. We’ll cover the best welcome messages.

How do you start a good opening speech?

Speech introductions: Ask a question to lead. … Start your speech with a quote. … Tell a story to inspire your audience. … Start with an open loop. … Amaze the audience with stories. … Use facts, figures, and statistics to start the speech. … Looking back. You may have to give a speech, but how do you start? The principles for giving a speech are the same whether you’re an employer, colleague, or external speaker. Your preparation is not much different. It doesn’t matter if it’s a keynote at a kick-off event, the festive speech at the company Christmas party, a motivational speech at a team event or even a laudatory speech at an awards ceremony. The search for the right beginning should not be left to chance. How do you get your audience to listen? How do you sound interesting? This article will help you start your next speech to inspire your audience. I have collected these speech introductions and examples from my work as a presenter and keynote speaker in front of over 5 million people. Why is the beginning of a presentation so important? This is how you make a first impression. Your audience decides within a few seconds if they like you and want to follow. Then you have up to three minutes to get your audience interested in your speech.

What are the best opening words and introduction of a wedding ceremony?

Generic. Dear friends and family of the Bride and Groom, thank you for being here. … Intercultural. Today is a day to celebrate. … Religious. Dear family and friends, we are here to witness the marriage of Name of Bride and Name of Groom. What do you say at the start of your wedding ceremony? A good welcome speech is essential for a wedding ceremony. It shows how important the wedding is to the couple and everyone there. Here are three examples of wedding ceremony introductions.

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Wedding speeches are a long-time tradition of weddings. And, if you have an important role at a wedding, such as best man, father of the bride or maid of honor, you would be expected to give a speech. While the thought of giving a speech might be nerve-wracking, it might comfort you to know that the best speeches are short and sweet. So, don’t feel any stress or pressure, because short wedding speeches are not only the best, they are easy to deliver.

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Short Wedding Speeches Examples

Bride’s wedding speech.

“ Hello, everyone! Thanks for sharing this special day with us. A big shoutout to my amazing parents for making my dream wedding a reality. To my incredible groom (name), your joy fills my heart every day. I’m beyond grateful to have you as my husband, and today marks the start of countless joyous celebrations together. Cheers to love and a lifetime of happiness!”

Groom’s Wedding Speech

There are many ways to give groom short wedding speeches. Use this example as a guide to inspire you when writing your own.

“Hello, everyone! Thank you for celebrating this special day with us. A big thanks to our parents for making today possible. Today is beyond special, and we’re overflowing with gratitude. To my love, you’ve been my rock and best friend. Thank you for accepting me, flaws and all. I promise to be there for you always and to love you forever. Cheers to a lifetime of love and joy together!”

Father’s of the Bride Wedding Speech

“Ladies and gentlemen, thank you for joining us on this special day. As (bride’s name)’s father, I’m overjoyed and grateful. Today, we gain a son and a supportive family. Thanks for making our dreams come true. I’m confident that (name of groom) will bring endless happiness to my daughter. Here’s to love, security, and many more joyous days ahead! Cheers!”

Father’s of the Groom Wedding Speech

“Thank you all for being here to celebrate with us. I am the happiest man today welcoming a new daughter into my family. Also, I am grateful to her family as well for being the best in-laws ever and supporting us in putting all of this together. I could not have asked for a better day for them, and all I can say is that I wish them the best. To you both, may this day be the beginning of a long and fruitful journey together. My wife and I love you both. Once again, thank you all. Cheers.

Wedding speech for mother of the bride

“Hello everyone. Thank you all for being here. My heart is full today, as you all must know. Watching my daughter take this important step in her life has made me very happy. We are all so happy to support them both in starting this new chapter in their lives. I have dreamed of this day so much; I am grateful to finally be able to see it. (Groom’s name) has been an excellent son-in-law and I am beyond happy to welcome him into our family. I am extremely proud of my daughter and happy to give her to someone who loves her just as much as we do. As we celebrate with you two today, may the sounds of celebration never leave you. All our love.”

Wedding speech for the mother of the groom

Another one of our short simple wedding speeches examples for the mother of the groom.

“Warm greetings to you all. I appreciate the time that you have taken to join us in celebrating (bride and groom). From the day my son introduced me to (name of bride), I have grown to love her as my own daughter, and it has been a joy to watch them grow in love with each other. I used to have a lot of anxiety about my son’s relationships in the past, but when I met (bride), I knew that he had met his match. I am happy to celebrate you both today in not just your union, but the union of our families too. Much love to you both. Cheers everyone!”

Best Man Speech

“Ladies and gentlemen, if I could have your attention, please. Today, I stand beside an extraordinary couple, [Couple’s Names], on their special day. To [Bride’s Name], you look absolutely stunning, and [Groom’s Name], well, you clean up pretty well too! Here’s to a lifetime of laughter, love, and countless adventures. May your journey together be as incredible as this celebration. Cheers!”

Maid Of Honor Speech

Ladies and gents, let’s talk about the dazzling duo we’re celebrating today, [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. To my gorgeous bestie, you’ve found your lobster! And to the lucky guy who snagged her, good luck – you’re stuck with us now! Here’s to a love that’s as endless as the dance floor tonight. Cheers to the newlyweds!

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One-Line Wedding Speech Examples

Crafting the perfect wedding speech is an art. Here are five examples that blend sentiment, humor, and celebration for your inspiration.

Today, we not only witness the union of [Couple’s Names] but also the merging of two hearts that beat as one. Here’s to a love story that transcends time and space.

As I stand before this extraordinary couple, I can’t help but marvel at the love between [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. Today, we celebrate not just a wedding but a promise of forever.

In the grand storybook of love, [Couple’s Names] have written a chapter filled with laughter, tears, and endless love. Here’s to turning the page to a beautiful new beginning.

To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your marriage be the masterpiece of a lifetime, painted with strokes of joy, understanding, and boundless love.

As witnesses to the love between [Couple’s Names], let us raise our glasses to a journey that begins today and unfolds into a lifetime of shared dreams and cherished moments.

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To the couple, may your love be as timeless as the vows you share today and as joyous as the celebration we’re all a part of!

Here’s to love, laughter, and a happily ever after for [Couple’s Names]. May every day be an adventure filled with shared dreams and endless love!

To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your journey together be as sweet as the cake we’re about to devour! Cheers to a lifetime of love and happiness!

Let’s raise our glasses to [Couple’s Names], whose love story is as enchanting as today’s setting sun. May your love glow brighter with each passing day!

A toast to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your marriage be as perfect as today’s weather, and your happiness as everlasting as the memories we’re creating!

How To Write a Short Wedding Speech

With this guide, you can create short and sweet wedding speeches that will just flow organically. Write a killer speech that would be easy to read and will convey your love for the couple perfectly.

• Remember who is in the audience: Whether you are giving short wedding speeches as the best man or groom, it is important to keep your audience in mind. Introduce yourself and acknowledge them. Focusing on the audience and engaging them will help you speak from the heart.
• Avoid alcohol: While getting some liquid courage can be tempting, it is best to lay off the alcohol until after your speech. Alcohol could turn short funny wedding speeches into something long and nonsensical. This is because you might slur or forget your words under the influence, and this is something you absolutely do not want.
• Use note cards: Although you are not encouraged to read out your short wedding rehearsal dinner speech completely, note cards are encouraged. With these cues, you can glance at your notes from time to time to help you remember your lines and keep you on track. The audience might not even notice, and your speech would be better for it.
• Structure your story: Structure your speech in a way that focuses on the bride and groom. Fine one, two or three points about them that you can elaborate upon and stories in which they are the hero. This will keep your message in the right direction, and you can be sure to end on a positive note.

In the next part, we have a list of some of the best short wedding speeches that can help inspire you to write your own.

Example of a Short Wedding Toast

“Cheers to [Couple’s Names]! May your days be filled with love, laughter, and countless joyous moments. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness together!”

How to Make a Short and Sweet Wedding Speech

Focus on key points like expressing happiness for the couple, sharing a brief anecdote, and offering a toast. Keep it concise, heartfelt, and light-hearted for impact.

Is a 1 Minute Wedding Speech Too Short?

No, a 1-minute wedding speech can be perfect. A concise speech ensures guests stay engaged and leaves a lasting impression. Focus on the essentials – expressing joy, sharing a quick story, and toasting the couple.

Not many people are trained public speakers, but it is hard to go wrong with short wedding speeches. Allow these tips and examples to guide you in making the best wedding speeches ever.

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Offbeat Wedding Welcome & Opening Remarks: Examples for a Non-traditional Ceremony!

Published Monday, Mar. 8th, 2021

Written by Jessica Levey

Opening remarks set the tone of a wedding! Try these examples for a non-traditional, offbeat wedding ceremony, with a creative officiant wedding welcome.

We’ve all been to that wedding.

The kind that starts off so painfully that within minutes of the officiant’s greeting, you and other guests quickly begin exchanging wild-eyed glances, collectively cringing inwardly at the realization that you’ll have to endure another 20 minutes before the saving grace of the cocktail hour. 

Luckily, it’s easy to avoid a rough ceremony start -- as long as you know how to deliver a heartfelt welcome! For some ceremonies, keeping your opening remarks familiar and traditional might be the best approach. As long as your customary words are refreshed by context and stories that are authentic to the couple, you can’t go wrong!

But for the folks looking for something a little different, here are a few offbeat opening remarks for a non-traditional, non-religious, and unpredictable wedding ceremony. We suggest that new officiants use these as a starting point, and then modify them to better suit the personalities of the people getting married. 

Example One: 

Officiant: .

"Today is a day to breathe a big sigh of relief, and give a huge shout of joy -- because at least two of us here have finally found someone to spend the next thirty years curling up on the couch next to, with a plate of tacos and a set of matching Star Wars onesies. It’s what we’ve all been looking for, and Tamara and Jake have managed to find it. 

In a world with so many people -- and yet so few who actually get us on a deep, lasting level -- this is straight up miraculous, and absolutely worthy of our celebration and support. 

So before we begin, let’s take a moment to shout them out -- to really show our overwhelming enthusiasm for the perfect fit these two have found in each other. 

Can I get a ‘hell yes!’?" 

(The crowd shouts out!)

"That’s right, let's revel in the miracle of these two loveable, spectacular, late-night-snack loving misfits finding each other!"

Example Two: 

"Alright y'all, before you take your seats, I want you to take a quick look around. All these people standing here today? We’re all here because we love Henry and Mark, and we love the love they share together. Can you feel it? That energy? 

Yeah! Smile at each other! Give each other a hug! We’re here to hold up and celebrate the joy that Henry and Mark bring into the world. They bring us together! They’re such a tremendous part of our community, of our families, of our lives -- they don’t stop at loving each other, they love all of us too! 

So just take a minute and feel that! You feel it? Yeah, let’s give it right back to them! 

You can take your seats, and keep that joy in your heart as we get these two married!"

Example Three:  

"You may all settle down and take a seat. For some of you here today, this isn’t the first time you’ve heard me say that, right? -- I’m Bonnie’s mother, Cicely, and I’ll be the officiant today. Now sit down, all of you! We have a wedding to get to.  

That’s right. Welcome! Friends and family, all these generations of loved ones -- Bonnie’s great grandparents over here, Calvin’s little nieces over there trying hard not to giggle -- we see you all and we are honored and delighted to all be here today, showing our support of these two as they continue down this road together. 

Bonnie and Calvin met almost ten years ago now, childhood friends! And childhood friends with a lot of you all, too. They were best friends from that first day, basically inseparable, and their devotion for one another, and respect and appreciation for one another’s true selves has only gotten stronger as they’ve gotten older! 

So it’s a blessing to be here today, loving these two and holding them up, while they show us all they plan to keep right on loving each other for the rest of their lives. Because marriage is about commitment, it’s about showing up, through every awkward growing pain and every new challenge. It’s about growing up together, over and over, and these two have shown they’re in it for the long run!" 

The key to crafting creative, non-boring opening remarks is taking the time to understand and relate to the couple getting married. Find out why they work as partners, and you’ll have no trouble finding a unique wedding welcome that works, too.  

A quick word on sample scripts: 

Sample wedding scripts are a phenomenally helpful tool for new officiants! 

They provide the basic building blocks of a conventional wedding ceremony, with simple transitions from one part to the next. Working with their couple, officiants can gather several templates with the tone or vibe they’re looking for, and cut and paste their favorite pieces from each one to turn them into a new, customized script. 

This is why we’ve written dozens of sample wedding ceremony scripts of all types and shared them in our Ceremony Script Library! You’ll find scripts for weddings that include children, civil weddings, Christian and Jewish weddings, seasonal weddings, non-religious weddings, and even handfastings!

Visit the Ceremony Script Library!  

And for more help creating a custom ceremony that will keep guests tuned-in and on the edge of their seats in the best way, order Asked to Officiate . 

Lead Staff Writer & Illustrator

Jessica loves exploring the history and magic of ritual, the connections between people and places, and sharing true stories about love and commitment. She's an advocate for marriage equality, LGBTQ+ rights, and individuality, and is an ordained Minister with AMM. When she’s not writing or illustrating for AMM, she enjoys city hikes, fantasy novels, comics, and traveling.

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Wedding speeches  are a cherished tradition that brings heartfelt moments to every celebration of love. These special words have the power to touch hearts, spark laughter, and create lasting memories for the newlyweds and their guests. Crafting a unique wedding speech can feel daunting, but with the right guidance, anyone can deliver a  memorable toast  that honors their role in the couple’s life.

This article will explore how to create  personalized wedding speeches  for different family roles. Readers will learn about the  key elements  that make a speech stand out, tips for tailoring their words to their specific relationship with the couple, and strategies to deliver their toast with confidence. Whether you’re a best friend, parent, or sibling, this guide will help you craft a wedding speech that truly shines.

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Understanding Different Family Roles in Wedding Speeches

Wedding speeches  play a crucial role in celebrating the love between newlyweds. Each family member has a unique perspective to share, adding depth and emotion to the occasion. Let’s explore the different roles and expectations for key family members when it comes to delivering wedding speeches.

The father of the bride often gives the first speech of the day. This emotional moment marks a significant transition as he welcomes guests and expresses his love for his daughter. A father’s speech typically includes:

• A warm welcome to all guests • Heartfelt anecdotes about his daughter’s life • Words of wisdom for the happy couple • A toast to the newlyweds

The speech should balance humor with sincerity, avoiding embarrassing stories or clichés. It’s a chance for the father to show his pride and support for his daughter’s new chapter in life.

Mother of the Bride

More mothers are choosing to give speeches at their daughters’ weddings, breaking from tradition. A mother of the bride speech often includes:

• Personal stories from the bride’s childhood • Insights into the bride’s character and achievements • A warm welcome to the new son-in-law or daughter-in-law • Advice for a happy marriage

Mothers often have a unique perspective on their daughter’s journey, making their speeches particularly touching and memorable.

The best man’s speech is usually the last of the day and is expected to be both funny and heartfelt. Key elements of a best man’s speech include:

• Humorous anecdotes about the groom • Stories about the couple’s relationship • A tribute to the bride • A toast to the newlyweds

While humor is important, the best man should avoid embarrassing stories or inside jokes that might confuse guests. The speech should celebrate the groom’s character and his relationship with the bride.

The maid of honor’s speech is an opportunity to celebrate her friendship with the bride and welcome the groom to the family. A typical maid of honor speech includes:

• Stories about her friendship with the bride • Anecdotes about the couple’s relationship • Words of encouragement for their future together • A toast to the happy couple

The maid of honor should aim for a balance of humor and sincerity, sharing stories that highlight the bride’s best qualities and her compatibility with her new spouse.

Each of these speeches offers a unique perspective on the couple’s love story. By understanding their roles, family members can craft wedding speeches that truly celebrate the newlyweds and create lasting memories for everyone involved.

Key Elements of a Memorable Wedding Speech

Creating a  memorable wedding speech  requires a delicate balance of  humor ,  heartfelt emotions , and  personal anecdotes . These elements work together to captivate the audience and celebrate the couple’s love story.

Personal Anecdotes

Personal stories form the foundation of a great wedding speech. They offer a unique glimpse into the couple’s lives and relationships. When sharing anecdotes, it’s essential to choose stories that highlight the bride or groom’s best qualities or showcase their journey together. For instance, a maid of honor might share a funny story about the bride’s college days, while a best man could recount a memorable adventure with the groom.

To make these stories more engaging, provide specific details that help the audience visualize the scenario. This approach allows guests to connect with the couple on a deeper level and creates a more intimate atmosphere. Remember to keep the anecdotes appropriate for all ages, avoiding anything too embarrassing or controversial.

Injecting humor into a wedding speech can help put everyone at ease and make the moment more enjoyable. However, it’s crucial to strike the right balance between wit and warmth. Start with a light-hearted anecdote or a clever pop culture reference to draw your audience in. When crafting jokes, consider the couple’s quirks and shared characteristics as inspiration.

Remember that a wedding speech is a toast, not a roast. Keep the humor tasteful and avoid mean-spirited jokes or embarrassing stories that might make the couple uncomfortable. Instead, focus on funny moments that highlight the couple’s compatibility or endearing qualities. For example, you could share a humorous story about how the bride and groom met or a lighthearted mishap from their dating days.

Heartfelt Emotions

While humor is important, it’s equally crucial to include touching moments that showcase the  deep bond  between the speaker and the couple. Express your genuine feelings about the newlyweds and their relationship. Share how you’ve seen them grow together and what their love has taught you about happy relationships.

When expressing emotions, be authentic and speak from the heart. You could describe the bride or groom’s best qualities and how they complement each other. For siblings giving a speech, you might reflect on childhood memories and how your relationship has evolved over the years. Parents can share proud moments and offer words of wisdom for a happy marriage.

Ultimately, a memorable wedding speech should reflect the love, admiration, and support you have for the couple as they embark on this new chapter of their lives. By weaving together personal anecdotes, tasteful humor, and heartfelt emotions, you can create a speech that not only entertains but also touches the hearts of everyone present, leaving a lasting impression of joy and celebration.

Tailoring Your Speech to Your Specific Role

Crafting a  wedding speech  that resonates with the couple and the audience requires careful consideration of one’s role in the celebration. Whether you’re the  best man ,  maid of honor , or a close family member, understanding the expectations associated with your position is crucial to delivering a memorable toast.

Expectations for Each Role

Different roles come with unique expectations for wedding speeches. The best man’s speech is often anticipated to be  humorous and entertaining , while the  father of the bride ‘s speech is expected to be more  sentimental and reflective . The maid of honor’s speech typically balances  heartfelt emotions  with  lighthearted anecdotes  about the bride.

For example, as the best man, you might share funny stories about the groom’s bachelor days, while also highlighting his growth and the positive influence of his partner. On the other hand, if you’re the father of the bride, your speech might focus on your daughter’s journey and your pride in the person she’s become.

Appropriate Topics

Choosing suitable topics for your wedding speech is essential to ensure it resonates with the couple and their guests. When selecting stories or anecdotes, consider the couple’s preferences and the overall tone of the wedding. It’s crucial to avoid mentioning ex-partners or embarrassing incidents that might make the couple uncomfortable.

Instead, focus on  positive experiences  that showcase the couple’s  love and compatibility . Share stories that highlight their individual strengths and how they complement each other. For instance, you could talk about how they met, their  shared interests , or moments that demonstrate their  commitment to one another .

Time Considerations

One of the most important aspects of delivering a great wedding speech is keeping it  concise . Long-winded speeches can quickly lose the audience’s attention and disrupt the flow of the reception. As a general rule, aim to keep your speech between  three to five minutes .

To make the most of your allotted time, structure your speech with a clear beginning, middle, and end. Start with a brief introduction, share two or three key points or stories, and conclude with a  heartfelt toast  to the newlyweds. Remember, it’s better to leave the audience wanting more than to overstay your welcome at the microphone.

By tailoring your speech to your specific role, choosing appropriate topics, and being mindful of time constraints, you can create a wedding toast that truly celebrates the love between friends and leaves a lasting impression on all who hear it.

Tips for Delivering a Flawless Wedding Speech

Delivering a  memorable wedding speech  requires more than just well-crafted words. It’s about  connecting with the audience  and  honoring the couple  in a way that feels authentic and heartfelt. Here are some essential tips to help you deliver a flawless wedding speech that will leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and their guests.

Practice and Preparation

The key to a successful wedding speech lies in thorough preparation. Start by jotting down ideas as soon as you’re asked to give a speech. This early brainstorming will give you plenty of time to refine your thoughts and create a well-structured speech. Remember, the goal is to strike a balance between  humor and sincerity , focusing on the  couple’s love story  and your relationship with them.

Once you have a draft, practice  reading it aloud . This will help you gage the  timing and flow  of your speech. Aim for a length of  two to three minutes , which is generally considered the sweet spot for wedding speeches. If you’re one of several speakers, you may need to keep it even shorter.

As you rehearse, pay attention to your body language and tone. Practice making eye contact and using natural gestures to enhance your delivery. Consider recording yourself or practicing in front of a trusted friend to get feedback and make improvements.

Managing Nerves

It’s normal to feel nervous about public speaking, especially at such an important event. However, there are several strategies you can use to manage your nerves and deliver your speech with confidence.

First, remember that the audience is on your side. They want you to succeed and are there to celebrate love and friendship. Take  deep breaths  before you begin speaking to calm your nerves and center yourself. If you feel yourself getting emotional, it’s okay to pause and take a moment to compose yourself.

Avoid the temptation to rely on alcohol for liquid courage. While a small drink might help you relax, too much can impair your ability to deliver your speech effectively. Instead, focus on  staying hydrated  and eating something before your speech to maintain your energy levels.

Engaging the Audience

To truly connect with your audience, start by making eye contact with people around the room, including the newlyweds. This simple act helps establish a rapport and makes your speech feel more personal and intimate.

When crafting your speech, include  stories and anecdotes  that highlight the couple’s relationship and your connection to them. These  personal touches  will resonate with the audience and make your speech more memorable. However, be mindful of  inside jokes  or references that might confuse guests who aren’t familiar with the details.

Remember to speak clearly and at a measured pace. When people are nervous, they tend to speak quickly and quietly. Take your time and project your voice so everyone can hear and understand you. If you’re using humor, make sure it’s appropriate for the diverse audience at a wedding.

Lastly, end your speech on a high note with a  heartfelt toast  to the newlyweds. This final gesture brings your speech to a satisfying conclusion and invites everyone to join in celebrating the couple’s love and future together.

Crafting a unique wedding speech is a blend of  heartfelt emotions ,  personal anecdotes , and thoughtful delivery. By understanding your role and tailoring your words to the couple’s story, you can create a toast that truly resonates. Remember, the key is to be authentic and speak from the heart, focusing on the love and joy that brought everyone together for this special day.

In the end, a great wedding speech has a lasting impact on both the newlyweds and their guests. It’s a chance to honor the couple’s journey, share in their happiness, and offer words of wisdom for their future together. With careful preparation and genuine emotion, your speech will be a cherished part of the wedding celebration, creating memories that will be treasured for years to come.

How can one craft an exceptional wedding speech? To create a remarkable wedding speech, begin with a captivating opening statement or question, avoiding clichés about nerves or generic jokes. Focus on weaving personal stories that resonate with the audience, aiming for content that will delight and engage them. Make sure to jot down your ideas and practice your speech regularly to ensure smooth delivery.

What are effective opening lines for a wedding speech? Effective ways to begin a wedding speech include welcoming and thanking the guests for their presence, such as saying, “We would like to welcome everyone here today to celebrate with us and thank you for sharing this special day.” Alternatively, a simple and heartfelt greeting like, “Hello everyone, it’s a joy to be here with you all,” sets a warm tone.

Can you provide an example of a brief yet heartfelt wedding speech? A concise and heartfelt wedding speech might go like this: “Ladies and Gentlemen, please join me in raising a glass to the newlyweds. Congratulations to the wonderful couple! Witnessing the beauty of their love, which brings them together today, is truly a joy for us all.”

What are the components of an outstanding officiant speech at a wedding? An outstanding wedding officiant speech should include a structured flow with an introduction, a recount of the couple’s love story, imparting some words of wisdom, and a thoughtful closing statement. Enhance the speech by incorporating personal touches such as inside jokes, memorable anecdotes, and elements reflecting the couple’s cultural or religious backgrounds.

How should I handle giving a maid of honor speech if I’m not close to the bride? If you find yourself in the position of giving a maid of honor speech despite a distant relationship with the bride, focus on general well-wishes and the significance of the occasion. Express your genuine love and hopes for her happiness. Discuss the beauty of marriage and the joy of the day, and conclude with a warm gesture or a toast as suggested by the bride. This approach maintains sincerity without delving into personal anecdotes that may not be authentic.

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This was the first Indian wedding at Villa Baulieu in the South of France

Sangeeta and Jake Gomez chose the chateau in Provence with a 2,000-year-old vineyard for their destination wedding

It took Sangeeta and Jake Gomez six months to find their dream wedding venue. The Sikh-British bride and English groom wanted a destination that would allow them to celebrate both their cultures in a harmonious blend. “We both adore the vibe of the South of France, and unanimously agreed upon it. But we had to scour the French Riviera for six months to find the perfect venue that we believed would be the cornerstone of our celebrations,” explains the bride. When they finally came across Villa Baulieu—a chateau in Provence with a 2,000-year-old vineyard — they knew this was it. “When we reached out, we were informed that they only host three weddings a year, and had only one slot remaining for 2023,” reminisces the bride. The duo instantly said yes, making them the first British couple to exchange vows at the property, and the first Indian wedding to take place there too.

Sangeeta and Jake were first introduced by a mutual friend, though it took a year and a chance encounter for the acquaintance to turn into a romance. Following a proposal in Tulum in Mexico, they tied the knot last year with guests flying in from all over the world to raise a toast to them. The couple wanted the wedding to be modern but equally steeped in their cultures and customs. Hence the itinerary included events such as the haldi, jago, mehendi, choora, Anand Karaj and white wedding. The jago also doubled as a Saint Tropez-inspired welcome party with traditional Sikh elements. The vow exchange was all about contemporary elegance and minimalistic décor, while the Anand Karaj and reception had Indian music and dhol players to set the mood.

The tasteful couple wanted to bring their unique point of view to various aspects of the wedding, and this informed the vendors they worked with. For instance, they discovered Kaitlin Case, a digital fashion illustrator from Arizona via TikTok, had asked her to create their wedding stationery suite even though she had never worked on one before.

The couple also considers themselves to be fashion-forward, so the wardrobe was an important focus too. Sangeeta wore a lehenga from Liz Paul for the mehendi and choora ceremony, and a Kashmiri pearl-embroidered sari from Manish Malhotra for the welcome party, while Jake was in a Qbik sherwani. For the wedding, she chose a timeless Alena Leena gown with a two-tier cathedral veil, with the groom in a tuxedo from Scabal and a bow tie from Huntsman Savile Row. She went with a classic red Sabyasachi lehenga for the wedding and the groom wore Seema Gujral. The bride then changed into a mint green lehenga from Ejaaz Couture lehenga, which was so voluminous and big that it had its own seat on the flight to France!

The couple spared no detail. While they served wine from the estate’s vineyard, they travelled through the region of Champagne to pick out bubbly for the wedding, ultimately settling on Champagne J.H Quenardel from a family-owned independent vineyard. They tweaked customs to remain authentic to themselves too. The bride’s mother walked her down the aisle, and gave her away. The groom brushed up his Punjabi speaking skills to address the bride’s grandmother, their “VIP guest,” as they call her, in his speech. As glamorous as the setting was, it was all deeply personal, lending the wedding the ultimate kind of inimitable charm.