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When your child outright refuses to do homework, it’s a clear signal to pause and evaluate. Resistance stems from underlying issues, be it academic challenges, stress, or a lack of interest. Instead of immediate consequences, open a non-judgmental dialogue.

When our kids complain through nightly homework, it digs into us. I’m hesitant to say it causes us physical pain, but it kind of does. However, by stepping back, not trying to reason with emotions and teaching our kids how to motivate themselves, we will see improvement.

Sometimes, the mere thought of buckling down for homework after a long day of school is enough to invite meltdowns and anguish from students with ADHD and executive function challenges. You know they are tired and worn out, but still the work must be done — and without nightly terrors. Try these tricks to defuse the situation.

5 Ways to End the Homework Battle for Good. Instead of waging a nightly battle of wills with your kids over multiplication tables and verb conjugations, try tailoring your approach to their temperament. By Alison Masemann. Updated Jul 29, 2024. Photo: @cloisteredaway on Instagram.

What can your child do when taking a brain break? You might ask: “What makes you feel better or gives you comfort when you’re feeling frustrated?” You can share some restorative ideas like walking outside and breathing in the fresh air, doing some jumping jacks or a yoga pose, getting a drink of water, or visiting a favorite stuffed friend.

Kids, even defiant ones, usually don’t consciously choose to fail. Yet, your child refuses to do her homework, which causes her to fail. Neither you nor your child know why she is sabotaging herself. Most moms and dads struggle with getting their youngster to complete homework after school.

Quick tip 1. Try self-calming strategies. Try some deep breathing, gentle stretching, or a short walk before starting homework. These strategies can help reset the mind and relieve anxiety. Quick tip 2. Set a time limit. Give kids a set amount of time for homework to help it feel more manageable.

So, how can you encourage your child to do their homework without a nightly battle? Check out these six tips to take the hassle out of homework. Homework is important and provides countless benefits like improved comprehension, cognition and memory.

Method 1. Overcoming Homework Frustration Together. 1. Acknowledge your child’s frustration. At one point or another, every child becomes frustrated with their homework. At times, they may explode with anger, or become extremely sad or anxious.

If your child is resisting her work and says, “I hate homework” or “I don’t want to do it,” accept and acknowledge her emotions.