mutual respect essay in english

Emerson writes a poem about old friendships and about friendships lost.

A ruddy drop of manly blood The surging sea outweighs, The world uncertain comes and goes, The lover rooted stays. I fancied he was fled, And, after many a year, Glowed unexhausted kindliness Like daily sunrise there. My careful heart was free again, — O friend, my bosom said, Through thee alone the sky is arched, Through thee the rose is red, All things through thee take nobler form, And look beyond the earth, And is the mill-round of our fate A sun-path in thy worth. Me too thy nobleness has taught To master my despair; The fountains of my hidden life Are through thy friendship fair.

W e have a great deal more kindness than is ever spoken.  Maugre all the selfishness that chills like east winds the world, the whole human family is bathed with an element of love like a fine ether. How many persons we meet in houses, whom we scarcely speak to, whom yet we honor, and who honor us! How many we see in the street, or sit with in church, whom, though silently, we warmly rejoice to be with! Read the language of these wandering eye-beams. The heart knoweth.

The effect of the indulgence of this human affection is a certain cordial exhilaration. In poetry, and in common speech, the emotions of benevolence and complacency which are felt towards others are likened to the material effects of fire; so swift, or much more swift, more active, more cheering, are these fine inward irradiations. From the highest degree of passionate love, to the lowest degree of good-will, they make the sweetness of life.

Our intellectual and active powers increase with our affection. The scholar sits down to write, and all his years of meditation do not furnish him with one good thought or happy expression; but it is necessary to write a letter to a friend, — and, forthwith, troops of gentle thoughts invest themselves, on every hand, with chosen words. See, in any house where virtue and self-respect abide, the palpitation which the approach of a stranger causes. A commended stranger is expected and announced, and an uneasiness betwixt pleasure and pain invades all the hearts of a household. His arrival almost brings fear to the good hearts that would welcome him. The house is dusted, all things fly into their places, the old coat is exchanged for the new, and they must get up a dinner if they can. Of a commended stranger, only the good report is told by others, only the good and new is heard by us. He stands to us for humanity. He is what we wish. Having imagined and invested him, we ask how we should stand related in conversation and action with such a man, and are uneasy with fear. The same idea exalts conversation with him. We talk better than we are wont. We have the nimblest fancy, a richer memory, and our dumb devil has taken leave for the time. For long hours we can continue a series of sincere, graceful, rich communications, drawn from the oldest, secretest experience, so that they who sit by, of our own kinsfolk and acquaintance, shall feel a lively surprise at our unusual powers. But as soon as the stranger begins to intrude his partialities, his definitions, his defects, into the conversation, it is all over. He has heard the first, the last and best he will ever hear from us. He is no stranger now. Vulgarity, ignorance, misapprehension are old acquaintances. Now, when he comes, he may get the order, the dress, and the dinner, — but the throbbing of the heart, and the communications of the soul, no more.

What is so pleasant as these jets of affection which make a young world for me again? What so delicious as a just and firm encounter of two, in a thought, in a feeling? How beautiful, on their approach to this beating heart, the steps and forms of the gifted and the true! The moment we indulge our affections, the earth is metamorphosed; there is no winter, and no night; all tragedies, all ennuis, vanish, — all duties even; nothing fills the proceeding eternity but the forms all radiant of beloved persons. Let the soul be assured that somewhere in the universe it should rejoin its friend, and it would be content and cheerful alone for a thousand years.

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new. Shall I not call God the Beautiful, who daily showeth himself so to me in his gifts? I chide society, I embrace solitude, and yet I am not so ungrateful as not to see the wise, the lovely, and the noble-minded, as from time to time they pass my gate. Who hears me, who understands me, becomes mine, — a possession for all time. Nor is nature so poor but she gives me this joy several times, and thus we weave social threads of our own, a new web of relations; and, as many thoughts in succession substantiate themselves, we shall by and by stand in a new world of our own creation, and no longer strangers and pilgrims in a traditionary globe. My friends have come to me unsought. The great God gave them to me. By oldest right, by the divine affinity of virtue with itself, I find them, or rather not I, but the Deity in me and in them derides and cancels the thick walls of individual character, relation, age, sex, circumstance, at which he usually connives, and now makes many one. High thanks I owe you, excellent lovers, who carry out the world for me to new and noble depths, and enlarge the meaning of all my thoughts. These are new poetry of the first Bard, — poetry without stop, — hymn, ode, and epic, poetry still flowing, Apollo and the Muses chanting still. Will these, too, separate themselves from me again, or some of them? I know not, but I fear it not; for my relation to them is so pure, that we hold by simple affinity, and the Genius of my life being thus social, the same affinity will exert its energy on whomsoever is as noble as these men and women, wherever I may be.

I confess to an extreme tenderness of nature on this point. It is almost dangerous to me to "crush the sweet poison of misused wine" of the affections. A new person is to me a great event, and hinders me from sleep. I have often had fine fancies about persons which have given me delicious hours; but the joy ends in the day; it yields no fruit. Thought is not born of it; my action is very little modified. I must feel pride in my friend's accomplishments as if they were mine, — and a property in his virtues. I feel as warmly when he is praised, as the lover when he hears applause of his engaged maiden. We over-estimate the conscience of our friend. His goodness seems better than our goodness, his nature finer, his temptations less. Every thing that is his, — his name, his form, his dress, books, and instruments, — fancy enhances. Our own thought sounds new and larger from his mouth.

Yet the systole and diastole of the heart are not without their analogy in the ebb and flow of love. Friendship, like the immortality of the soul, is too good to be believed. The lover, beholding his maiden, half knows that she is not verily that which he worships; and in the golden hour of friendship, we are surprised with shades of suspicion and unbelief. We doubt that we bestow on our hero the virtues in which he shines, and afterwards worship the form to which we have ascribed this divine inhabitation. In strictness, the soul does not respect men as it respects itself. In strict science all persons underlie the same condition of an infinite remoteness. Shall we fear to cool our love by mining for the metaphysical foundation of this Elysian temple? Shall I not be as real as the things I see? If I am, I shall not fear to know them for what they are. Their essence is not less beautiful than their appearance, though it needs finer organs for its apprehension. The root of the plant is not unsightly to science, though for chaplets and festoons we cut the stem short. And I must hazard the production of the bald fact amidst these pleasing reveries, though it should prove an Egyptian skull at our banquet. A man who stands united with his thought conceives magnificently of himself. He is conscious of a universal success, even though bought by uniform particular failures. No advantages, no powers, no gold or force, can be any match for him. I cannot choose but rely on my own poverty more than on your wealth. I cannot make your consciousness tantamount to mine. Only the star dazzles; the planet has a faint, moon-like ray. I hear what you say of the admirable parts and tried temper of the party you praise, but I see well that for all his purple cloaks I shall not like him, unless he is at last a poor Greek like me. I cannot deny it, O friend, that the vast shadow of the Phenomenal includes thee also in its pied and painted immensity, — thee, also, compared with whom all else is shadow. Thou art not Being, as Truth is, as Justice is, — thou art not my soul, but a picture and effigy of that. Thou hast come to me lately, and already thou art seizing thy hat and cloak. Is it not that the soul puts forth friends as the tree puts forth leaves, and presently, by the germination of new buds, extrudes the old leaf? The law of nature is alternation for evermore. Each electrical state superinduces the opposite. The soul environs itself with friends, that it may enter into a grander self-acquaintance or solitude; and it goes alone for a season, that it may exalt its conversation or society. This method betrays itself along the whole history of our personal relations. The instinct of affection revives the hope of union with our mates, and the returning sense of insulation recalls us from the chase. Thus every man passes his life in the search after friendship, and if he should record his true sentiment, he might write a letter like this to each new candidate for his love.

DEAR FRIEND: —

If I was sure of thee, sure of thy capacity, sure to match my mood with thine, I should never think again of trifles in relation to thy comings and goings. I am not very wise; my moods are quite attainable; and I respect thy genius; it is to me as yet unfathomed; yet dare I not presume in thee a perfect intelligence of me, and so thou art to me a delicious torment. Thine ever, or never.

Yet these uneasy pleasures and fine pains are for curiosity, and not for life. They are not to be indulged. This is to weave cobweb, and not cloth. Our friendships hurry to short and poor conclusions, because we have made them a texture of wine and dreams, instead of the tough fibre of the human heart. The laws of friendship are austere and eternal, of one web with the laws of nature and of morals. But we have aimed at a swift and petty benefit, to suck a sudden sweetness. We snatch at the slowest fruit in the whole garden of God, which many summers and many winters must ripen. We seek our friend not sacredly, but with an adulterate passion which would appropriate him to ourselves. In vain. We are armed all over with subtle antagonisms, which, as soon as we meet, begin to play, and translate all poetry into stale prose. Almost all people descend to meet. All association must be a compromise, and, what is worst, the very flower and aroma of the flower of each of the beautiful natures disappears as they approach each other. What a perpetual disappointment is actual society, even of the virtuous and gifted! After interviews have been compassed with long foresight, we must be tormented presently by baffled blows, by sudden, unseasonable apathies, by epilepsies of wit and of animal spirits, in the heyday of friendship and thought. Our faculties do not play us true, and both parties are relieved by solitude.

I ought to be equal to every relation. It makes no difference how many friends I have, and what content I can find in conversing with each, if there be one to whom I am not equal. If I have shrunk unequal from one contest, the joy I find in all the rest becomes mean and cowardly. I should hate myself, if then I made my other friends my asylum.

The valiant warrior famoused for fight, After a hundred victories, once foiled, Is from the book of honor razed quite, And all the rest forgot for which he toiled."

Our impatience is thus sharply rebuked. Bashfulness and apathy are a tough husk, in which a delicate organization is protected from premature ripening. It would be lost if it knew itself before any of the best souls were yet ripe enough to know and own it. Respect the naturlangsamkeit which hardens the ruby in a million years, and works in duration, in which Alps and Andes come and go as rainbows. The good spirit of our life has no heaven which is the price of rashness. Love, which is the essence of God, is not for levity, but for the total worth of man. Let us not have this childish luxury in our regards, but the austerest worth; let us approach our friend with an audacious trust in the truth of his heart, in the breadth, impossible to be overturned, of his foundations.

The attractions of this subject are not to be resisted, and I leave, for the time, all account of subordinate social benefit, to speak of that select and sacred relation which is a kind of absolute, and which even leaves the language of love suspicious and common, so much is this purer, and nothing is so much divine.

I do not wish to treat friendships daintily, but with roughest courage. When they are real, they are not glass threads or frostwork, but the solidest thing we know. For now, after so many ages of experience, what do we know of nature, or of ourselves? Not one step has man taken toward the solution of the problem of his destiny. In one condemnation of folly stand the whole universe of men. But the sweet sincerity of joy and peace, which I draw from this alliance with my brother's soul, is the nut itself, whereof all nature and all thought is but the husk and shell. Happy is the house that shelters a friend! It might well be built, like a festal bower or arch, to entertain him a single day. Happier, if he know the solemnity of that relation, and honor its law! He who offers himself a candidate for that covenant comes up, like an Olympian, to the great games, where the first-born of the world are the competitors. He proposes himself for contests where Time, Want, Danger, are in the lists, and he alone is victor who has truth enough in his constitution to preserve the delicacy of his beauty from the wear and tear of all these. The gifts of fortune may be present or absent, but all the speed in that contest depends on intrinsic nobleness, and the contempt of trifles. There are two elements that go to the composition of friendship, each so sovereign that I can detect no superiority in either, no reason why either should be first named. One is Truth. A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud. I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another. Sincerity is the luxury allowed, like diadems and authority, only to the highest rank, that being permitted to speak truth, as having none above it to court or conform unto. Every man alone is sincere. At the entrance of a second person, hypocrisy begins. We parry and fend the approach of our fellow-man by compliments, by gossip, by amusements, by affairs. We cover up our thought from him under a hundred folds. I knew a man, who, under a certain religious frenzy, cast off this drapery, and, omitting all compliment and commonplace, spoke to the conscience of every person he encountered, and that with great insight and beauty. At first he was resisted, and all men agreed he was mad. But persisting, as indeed he could not help doing, for some time in this course, he attained to the advantage of bringing every man of his acquaintance into true relations with him. No man would think of speaking falsely with him, or of putting him off with any chat of markets or reading-rooms. But every man was constrained by so much sincerity to the like plaindealing, and what love of nature, what poetry, what symbol of truth he had, he did certainly show him. But to most of us society shows not its face and eye, but its side and its back. To stand in true relations with men in a false age is worth a fit of insanity, is it not? We can seldom go erect. Almost every man we meet requires some civility, — requires to be humored; he has some fame, some talent, some whim of religion or philanthropy in his head that is not to be questioned, and which spoils all conversation with him. But a friend is a sane man who exercises not my ingenuity, but me. My friend gives me entertainment without requiring any stipulation on my part. A friend, therefore, is a sort of paradox in nature. I who alone am, I who see nothing in nature whose existence I can affirm with equal evidence to my own, behold now the semblance of my being, in all its height, variety, and curiosity, reiterated in a foreign form; so that a friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.

The other element of friendship is tenderness. We are holden to men by every sort of tie, by blood, by pride, by fear, by hope, by lucre, by lust, by hate, by admiration, by every circumstance and badge and trifle, but we can scarce believe that so much character can subsist in another as to draw us by love. Can another be so blessed, and we so pure, that we can offer him tenderness? When a man becomes dear to me, I have touched the goal of fortune. I find very little written directly to the heart of this matter in books. And yet I have one text which I cannot choose but remember. My author says, — "I offer myself faintly and bluntly to those whose I effectually am, and tender myself least to him to whom I am the most devoted." I wish that friendship should have feet, as well as eyes and eloquence. It must plant itself on the ground, before it vaults over the moon. I wish it to be a little of a citizen, before it is quite a cherub. We chide the citizen because he makes love a commodity. It is an exchange of gifts, of useful loans; it is good neighbourhood; it watches with the sick; it holds the pall at the funeral; and quite loses sight of the delicacies and nobility of the relation. But though we cannot find the god under this disguise of a sutler, yet, on the other hand, we cannot forgive the poet if he spins his thread too fine , and does not substantiate his romance by the municipal virtues of justice, punctuality, fidelity, and pity. I hate the prostitution of the name of friendship to signify modish and worldly alliances. I much prefer the company of ploughboys and tin-peddlers, to the silken and perfumed amity which celebrates its days of encounter by a frivolous display, by rides in a curricle, and dinners at the best taverns. The end of friendship is a commerce the most strict and homely that can be joined; more strict than any of which we have experience. It is for aid and comfort through all the relations and passages of life and death. It is fit for serene days, and graceful gifts, and country rambles, but also for rough roads and hard fare, shipwreck, poverty, and persecution. It keeps company with the sallies of the wit and the trances of religion. We are to dignify to each other the daily needs and offices of man's life, and embellish it by courage, wisdom, and unity. It should never fall into something usual and settled, but should be alert and inventive, and add rhyme and reason to what was drudgery.

Friendship may be said to require natures so rare and costly, each so well tempered and so happily adapted, and withal so circumstanced, (for even in that particular, a poet says, love demands that the parties be altogether paired,) that its satisfaction can very seldom be assured. It cannot subsist in its perfection, say some of those who are learned in this warm lore of the heart, betwixt more than two. I am not quite so strict in my terms, perhaps because I have never known so high a fellowship as others. I please my imagination more with a circle of godlike men and women variously related to each other, and between whom subsists a lofty intelligence. But I find this law of one to one peremptory for conversation, which is the practice and consummation of friendship. Do not mix waters too much. The best mix as ill as good and bad. You shall have very useful and cheering discourse at several times with two several men, but let all three of you come together, and you shall not have one new and hearty word. Two may talk and one may hear, but three cannot take part in a conversation of the most sincere and searching sort. In good company there is never such discourse between two, across the table, as takes place when you leave them alone. In good company, the individuals merge their egotism into a social soul exactly co-extensive with the several consciousnesses there present. No partialities of friend to friend, no fondnesses of brother to sister, of wife to husband, are there pertinent, but quite otherwise. Only he may then speak who can sail on the common thought of the party, and not poorly limited to his own. Now this convention, which good sense demands, destroys the high freedom of great conversation, which requires an absolute running of two souls into one.

No two men but, being left alone with each other, enter into simpler relations. Yet it is affinity that determines which two shall converse. Unrelated men give little joy to each other; will never suspect the latent powers of each. We talk sometimes of a great talent for conversation, as if it were a permanent property in some individuals. Conversation is an evanescent relation, — no more. A man is reputed to have thought and eloquence; he cannot, for all that, say a word to his cousin or his uncle. They accuse his silence with as much reason as they would blame the insignificance of a dial in the shade. In the sun it will mark the hour. Among those who enjoy his thought, he will regain his tongue.

Friendship requires that rare mean betwixt likeness and unlikeness, that piques each with the presence of power and of consent in the other party. Let me be alone to the end of the world, rather than that my friend should overstep, by a word or a look, his real sympathy. I am equally balked by antagonism and by compliance. Let him not cease an instant to be himself. The only joy I have in his being mine, is that the not mine is mine . I hate, where I looked for a manly furtherance, or at least a manly resistance, to find a mush of concession. Better be a nettle in the side of your friend than his echo. The condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it. That high office requires great and sublime parts. There must be very two, before there can be very one. Let it be an alliance of two large, formidable natures, mutually beheld, mutually feared, before yet they recognize the deep identity which beneath these disparities unites them.

He only is fit for this society who is magnanimous; who is sure that greatness and goodness are always economy; who is not swift to intermeddle with his fortunes. Let him not intermeddle with this. Leave to the diamond its ages to grow, nor expect to accelerate the births of the eternal. Friendship demands a religious treatment. We talk of choosing our friends, but friends are self-elected. Reverence is a great part of it. Treat your friend as a spectacle. Of course he has merits that are not yours, and that you cannot honor, if you must needs hold him close to your person. Stand aside; give those merits room; let them mount and expand. Are you the friend of your friend's buttons, or of his thought? To a great heart he will still be a stranger in a thousand particulars, that he may come near in the holiest ground. Leave it to girls and boys to regard a friend as property, and to suck a short and all-confounding pleasure, instead of the noblest benefit.

Let us buy our entrance to this guild by a long probation. Why should we desecrate noble and beautiful souls by intruding on them? Why insist on rash personal relations with your friend? Why go to his house, or know his mother and brother and sisters? Why be visited by him at your own? Are these things material to our covenant? Leave this touching and clawing. Let him be to me a spirit. A message, a thought, a sincerity, a glance from him, I want, but not news, nor pottage. I can get politics, and chat, and neighbourly conveniences from cheaper companions. Should not the society of my friend be to me poetic, pure, universal, and great as nature itself? Ought I to feel that our tie is profane in comparison with yonder bar of cloud that sleeps on the horizon, or that clump of waving grass that divides the brook? Let us not vilify, but raise it to that standard. That great, defying eye, that scornful beauty of his mien and action, do not pique yourself on reducing, but rather fortify and enhance. Worship his superiorities; wish him not less by a thought, but hoard and tell them all. Guard him as thy counterpart. Let him be to thee for ever a sort of beautiful enemy, untamable, devoutly revered, and not a trivial conveniency to be soon outgrown and cast aside. The hues of the opal, the light of the diamond, are not to be seen, if the eye is too near. To my friend I write a letter, and from him I receive a letter. That seems to you a little. It suffices me. It is a spiritual gift worthy of him to give, and of me to receive. It profanes nobody. In these warm lines the heart will trust itself, as it will not to the tongue, and pour out the prophecy of a godlier existence than all the annals of heroism have yet made good.

Respect so far the holy laws of this fellowship as not to prejudice its perfect flower by your impatience for its opening. We must be our own before we can be another's. There is at least this satisfaction in crime, according to the Latin proverb; — you can speak to your accomplice on even terms. Crimen quos inquinat, aequat . To those whom we admire and love, at first we cannot. Yet the least defect of self-possession vitiates, in my judgment, the entire relation. There can never be deep peace between two spirits, never mutual respect, until, in their dialogue, each stands for the whole world.

What is so great as friendship, let us carry with what grandeur of spirit we can. Let us be silent, — so we may hear the whisper of the gods. Let us not interfere. Who set you to cast about what you should say to the select souls, or how to say any thing to such? No matter how ingenious, no matter how graceful and bland. There are innumerable degrees of folly and wisdom, and for you to say aught is to be frivolous. Wait, and thy heart shall speak. Wait until the necessary and everlasting overpowers you, until day and night avail themselves of your lips. The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one. You shall not come nearer a man by getting into his house. If unlike, his soul only flees the faster from you, and you shall never catch a true glance of his eye. We see the noble afar off, and they repel us; why should we intrude? Late, — very late, — we perceive that no arrangements, no introductions, no consuetudes or habits of society, would be of any avail to establish us in such relations with them as we desire, — but solely the uprise of nature in us to the same degree it is in them; then shall we meet as water with water; and if we should not meet them then, we shall not want them, for we are already they. In the last analysis, love is only the reflection of a man's own worthiness from other men. Men have sometimes exchanged names with their friends, as if they would signify that in their friend each loved his own soul.

The higher the style we demand of friendship, of course the less easy to establish it with flesh and blood. We walk alone in the world. Friends, such as we desire, are dreams and fables. But a sublime hope cheers ever the faithful heart, that elsewhere, in other regions of the universal power, souls are now acting, enduring, and daring, which can love us, and which we can love. We may congratulate ourselves that the period of nonage, of follies, of blunders, and of shame, is passed in solitude, and when we are finished men, we shall grasp heroic hands in heroic hands. Only be admonished by what you already see, not to strike leagues of friendship with cheap persons, where no friendship can be. Our impatience betrays us into rash and foolish alliances which no God attends. By persisting in your path, though you forfeit the little you gain the great. You demonstrate yourself, so as to put yourself out of the reach of false relations, and you draw to you the first-born of the world, — those rare pilgrims whereof only one or two wander in nature at once, and before whom the vulgar great show as spectres and shadows merely.

It is foolish to be afraid of making our ties too spiritual, as if so we could lose any genuine love. Whatever correction of our popular views we make from insight, nature will be sure to bear us out in, and though it seem to rob us of some joy, will repay us with a greater. Let us feel, if we will, the absolute insulation of man. We are sure that we have all in us. We go to Europe, or we pursue persons, or we read books, in the instinctive faith that these will call it out and reveal us to ourselves. Beggars all. The persons are such as we; the Europe an old faded garment of dead persons; the books their ghosts. Let us drop this idolatry. Let us give over this mendicancy. Let us even bid our dearest friends farewell, and defy them, saying, 'Who are you? Unhand me: I will be dependent no more.' Ah! seest thou not, O brother, that thus we part only to meet again on a higher platform, and only be more each other's, because we are more our own? A friend is Janus-faced: he looks to the past and the future. He is the child of all my foregoing hours, the prophet of those to come, and the harbinger of a greater friend.

I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them where I can find them, but I seldom use them. We must have society on our own terms, and admit or exclude it on the slightest cause. I cannot afford to speak much with my friend. If he is great, he makes me so great that I cannot descend to converse. In the great days, presentiments hover before me in the firmament. I ought then to dedicate myself to them. I go in that I may seize them, I go out that I may seize them. I fear only that I may lose them receding into the sky in which now they are only a patch of brighter light. Then, though I prize my friends, I cannot afford to talk with them and study their visions, lest I lose my own. It would indeed give me a certain household joy to quit this lofty seeking, this spiritual astronomy, or search of stars, and come down to warm sympathies with you; but then I know well I shall mourn always the vanishing of my mighty gods. It is true, next week I shall have languid moods, when I can well afford to occupy myself with foreign objects; then I shall regret the lost literature of your mind, and wish you were by my side again. But if you come, perhaps you will fill my mind only with new visions, not with yourself but with your lustres, and I shall not be able any more than now to converse with you. So I will owe to my friends this evanescent intercourse. I will receive from them, not what they have, but what they are. They shall give me that which properly they cannot give, but which emanates from them. But they shall not hold me by any relations less subtile and pure. We will meet as though we met not, and part as though we parted not.

It has seemed to me lately more possible than I knew, to carry a friendship greatly, on one side, without due correspondence on the other. Why should I cumber myself with regrets that the receiver is not capacious? It never troubles the sun that some of his rays fall wide and vain into ungrateful space, and only a small part on the reflecting planet. Let your greatness educate the crude and cold companion. If he is unequal, he will presently pass away; but thou art enlarged by thy own shining, and, no longer a mate for frogs and worms, dost soar and burn with the gods of the empyrean. It is thought a disgrace to love unrequited. But the great will see that true love cannot be unrequited. True love transcends the unworthy object, and dwells and broods on the eternal, and when the poor interposed mask crumbles, it is not sad, but feels rid of so much earth, and feels its independency the surer. Yet these things may hardly be said without a sort of treachery to the relation. The essence of friendship is entireness, a total magnanimity and trust. It must not surmise or provide for infirmity. It treats its object as a god, that it may deify both.

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Respect is the foundation of humane and ethical behavior, and mutual respect underpins good relationships. To have respect for a person involves a fundamental belief in their right to exist, to be heard, and to have the same opportunities as everyone else.

Respect doesn't mean ignoring people's differences, or simply tolerating them. Rather, it involves recognizing differences, understanding their significance, and responding with interest, politeness and care.

Mutual respect is also based on a shared belief in the benefits of diversity – the variety of backgrounds, abilities and viewpoints within your team.

But it also means looking beyond differences. With mutual respect, you avoid labeling people in unhelpful ways. Instead, you celebrate the unique things that each of us brings – and capitalize on all that we have in common.

Mutual respect should be apparent throughout the workplace, from policies and processes to individual interactions. It has a guiding role to play in face-to-face meetings, written communications, body language   , and the ways in which people behave together.

You can still tackle difficult conversations, as long as you do so with tact and diplomacy   . And of course you don't have to agree with other people's ideas or beliefs. You can still form friendships and alliances. You can feel proud of your individuality, and of any connections you share with others at work.

But be sure to contribute to the culture of respect. Mutual respect can only be achieved when everyone sees it as a crucial and positive force at work.

Why Does Mutual Respect Matter?

Imagine trying to work freely, collaboratively and creatively with someone you don't respect, or who doesn't respect you. Maybe you don't need to imagine!

Lack of mutual respect not only gets in the way of your work, but it can also damage your relationships and your self-esteem. And it could lead to illegal or unethical behavior such as bullying or harassment.

So, it's important to share respect with everyone you meet, however different from you they may appear to be – whether because of age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, physical ability, experience, skill, education, or religion, for example.

The many benefits of mutual respect include:

• Improved well-being and decreased absenteeism.
• A more positive and focused working atmosphere.
• Trusted and open communication.
• Collaborative decision making.
• Better creativity, problem solving and innovation.
• More high-quality applicants for jobs.
• Increased loyalty among staff – leading to better retention of valued people.
• A reputation for fairness and ethical strength.

Research by McKinsey and Company showed that organizations that welcome diversity are better at attracting, retaining and motivating talent. What's more, they're likely among the most profitable companies in their sector. [1]

Identifying Disrespect – and Dealing With It

To play an active part in a culture of mutual respect, you first have to take a "zero tolerance" approach to anything that goes against it.

The following questions will help you to spot when you or others are being disrespectful – whether overtly, or in more subtle ways:

Does the behavior:

• Come across as rude, hostile or discourteous?
• Harm, disrupt or upset someone unnecessarily?
• Negatively affect people's work or their relationships?
• Undermine your team's cohesion?
• Damage your organization's mission or reputation?
• Break organizational rules, or is it dishonest or illegal?

If you answer "Yes" to any of these questions, you've likely seen something that needs to be stopped.

This may mean changing your own behavior – possibly breaking long-held habits. Or you might need to take time to learn more about the situation or topic for yourself.

When someone else is being rude or disrespectful   to you or a colleague, think carefully about whether it would be best to challenge them yourself, or whether you'll need support from a manager or from HR. And if you're acting on someone else’s behalf, always find out what they would like to happen next.

Our article Bad Behavior at Work   has advice about identifying – and dealing with – anything that doesn't fit in a culture of mutual respect. And Benne and Sheats' Group Roles   is a useful tool for recognizing some of the more subtle forms of negative behavior that may be impacting your team.

Whatever level you're at, it's important to be familiar with your organization's policies on harassment and bullying   . This will help you to know your own rights, and to treat others fairly, in line with the anti-discrimination laws   of your particular country, region or state.

Creating a Culture of Mutual Respect

There's no "one-size-fits-all" approach to instilling mutual respect. There are, however, several positive practices that you can adopt.

Before doing so, think carefully about the needs of your organization and the people within it, and highlight any specific areas of concern.

When you've worked out your priorities, here are six strategies to boost mutual respect at work:

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1. Get to Know One Another

Sometimes, people are disrespectful out of carelessness or ignorance.

To counter this, encourage your people to take an interest in one another's beliefs, behaviors and preferences. The Perceptual Positions    technique is a good way to boost empathy and explore different points of view. And the Johari Window   is a powerful tool for boosting self-awareness and trust in teams.

You could also offer coaching in active listening   and  mindful listening   skills to improve communication and understanding. But remember that it's hard to see the whole picture of something if it’s not your own personal experience.

Perhaps there are particular social events that would allow helpful conversations to take place, or ways to let people share aspects of their personal or cultural lives. However, these will only work if there's an atmosphere of trust, and if no one feels pressure to reveal or explain more than they want to.

2. Learn About Your Differences

Some differences are harder to understand than others, particularly those rooted in unfamiliar cultures. And sometimes, when you start to get to know people, you find yourself with bigger questions than before – and new areas of potential conflict.

So it's a good idea to get expert advice as you explore the differences in your organization. A Forbes report listed 10 of the most trusted specialists in this field. [2] And professional bodies such as The Society for Diversity in the U.S., and Inclusive Employers in the U.K., can support you to have respectful and meaningful discussions about diversity.

In addition, a tool such as The Seven Dimensions of Culture   can help you to understand different cultures' preferences and values.

Many organizations use Employee Resource Groups   (ERGs) to improve awareness of specific aspects of diversity. Before commenting on the Black Lives Matter agenda, for example, or participating in a Pride event, a company could consult with the appropriate ERGs to ensure that its approach was appropriate, expressed well, and supported from within the organization.

3. Promote Good Manners

Good manners   are clear markers of your respect for someone. They show that you want them to feel respected, and that you've made an effort to do so.

When possible, take time to research the rules of etiquette that apply in particular context. Our article Avoiding Cross-Cultural Faux Pas   explains some useful steps to take, particularly when you're working with people in different countries. You may still make mistakes, but your efforts to be respectful will usually reassure others about your good intent.

Whenever you're in any doubt, asking other people how they'd like to be treated is the most respectful thing to do.

Author Rosanne Thomas says that respecting other people's preferences is a step up from the "Golden Rule" (to treat others as we would wish to be treated). In our Expert Interview   , she calls it the Platinum Rule: showing people respect by finding out how they want to be treated. ​

4. Let People Work Differently

Not everyone works in the same way. In a culture of mutual respect, managers should consider encouraging their people to find the approach that suits them best – and which doesn't negatively impact your team and organization's goals and objectives.

Use psychometric tests like the DiSC Model®   , Myers-Briggs® Personality Testing   , and the Big Five Personality Traits Model   to help your team members to appreciate their own working styles, and recognize other people's. This can help them to identify strengths, negotiate any potential conflicts, and cooperate more effectively.

5. Maintain Boundaries

Not everything is appropriate to share with co-workers, and not all communication is right for work. Political campaigning, for example, or trying to argue down others' views, can create unnecessary tensions, and put mutual respect at risk.

It's important to know where the boundaries lie between sharing your experiences and views, on one hand, and being confrontational or causing embarrassment on the other. Think carefully about what's useful or necessary to share at work, and be alert to any particularly sensitive topics.

Maintaining clear personal boundaries   also helps you to know if someone is encroaching on your rights. In addition, it helps you to see when you overstep the mark with others and risk upsetting or disrespecting them.

Our article How to Handle a Personal Relationship at Work   has further advice on setting boundaries and maintaining high standards of behavior among your team. It also explains the importance of consent within relationships, to further strengthen a culture of respect – and to stay on the right side of the law.

6. Be a Role Model for Respect

A study by Georgetown University – involving around 20,000 employees worldwide – named respect as the single most important aspect of leadership. [3]

Diverse teams often require a more active, "involved" management style, because of the wider scale of knowledge, experience and opinion within such teams.

As a leader, let people know that it's important to challenge behavior that they feel is unacceptable, and that it's OK to be assertive   (but not aggressive) in doing so. Our article Managing Emotion in Your Team   has advice for maintaining respect even when feelings are running high.

Whatever level you're at, your words and actions can influence others, so it's important to lead by example. Work on your self-awareness   and manage your own biases   , so that you don't unintentionally favor people who you feel a close affinity with.

Always model the accepting, inclusive, welcoming attitudes and behaviors that you want to see other people adopt.

Mutual respect is about everyone being valued for who they are and what they bring to the table. It involves seeing people's unique contributions, recognizing and understanding differences, and celebrating diversity – but also capitalizing on common ground.

A mutual respect culture begins with a zero-tolerance approach to disrespect – particularly toward discrimination.

Help people to get to know one another and to become more informed about their differences.

Promote good manners, respect how people want to be treated, and let them work in ways that they're comfortable with whenever possible.

Use clear boundaries to be professional, guard people's rights, and realize when others might experience disrespect.

Model the behavior you want to see, and lead others to take a positive and principled stance toward respect for all.

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• Over a month ago BillT wrote Hi ShahGul, Thank you for sharing that in-depth perspective of your view on mutual respect. Work environments can still function without respect, but as you point out the productivity will be low and rates of attrition will be high. BillT Mind Tools Team
• Over a month ago ShahGul wrote Giving respect to employees at all the level in any type of organization can increase the efficiency of that particular organization. If an organization wants to increase the loyalty of the employees with an organization or achieving the goals and objectives, respect to employees must be given. The self-respect of each employee must be the first priority at all the level. Treating employees with dignity will have a positive impact on the overall working environment of the organization. Respect in the field can’t be one way either from the employer or either from the employees, it’s a parallel process. By giving respect, the efficiency or productivity of the organization will increase, and especially employees will put more effort to accomplish the organizational goals. For example, giving respect through listening to the opinion of the employee can decrease the stressful environment and increase the productivity of the organization. Respect must be given while working individually or working as part of team members. If a team member does not allow to share their view or is not giving opportunity than, the outcome of that group will not be fully reliable or standardized. So at any level by giving respect to employees and in returns employees to an employer will become the strength of the organization.

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Mutual Respect in Relationships

The 3 Components of Healthy Relationships  include  open communication , mutual respect , and healthy boundaries .

Mutual respect is an important part of all of our relationships.

Mutual respect means that you treat others and yourself in a thoughtful and respectful way. It is the understanding that even we all don't share the same beliefs and values but that we are all deserving of respect.

Mutual respect is the foundation for healthy relationships because it ensures that everyone in the relationship is being treated in a positive way.

How do you practice mutual respect?

Accept differences

Mutual respect requires that we recognize that that we all have our own unique experiences, values, and beliefs. We can show respect by valuing both the similarities and differences between us and other people.

Support each other's goals

Supporting people's dreams and goals shows that we respect who they are as individuals.

Maintain honesty

Speaking the truth even when we fear rejection is an important part of respecting people in our lives.

This means finding common ground between you and your partners needs.

Honor boundaries

Our personal boundaries are what empower us. When you honor these boundaries you are respecting yourself and other. When you honor another person's boundaries you demonstrate love and care for them.

Share admiration

Sharing gratitude and appreciation for other people can help deepen our connections and cultivate mutual respect.

Consider feelings and needs

Talk about what you feel and need and allow other people to do the same.

Signs of disrespect in relationships:

Dismissing feelings

Criticism To tell the faults of someone.

Resistance to compromise

Trust issues

Poor consideration

More resources Materials to help someone. :

Love Is Respect  is an organization that offers 24/7 support to teens and young adults with questions or concerns about dating and relationships.

Call 1-866-33-1-9474

Text 'LOVEIS' to 22522

National Domestic Violence Hotline A phone line set up for a specific purpose, especially for use in emergencies. offers 24/7 to survivors of abuse Violent treatment of a person. .

Call 1-800-799-7233

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Essays About Respect: Top 5 Examples and 8 Prompts

If you are looking for the next topic for your essay, read our helpful prompts and example essays about respect to get started.

Respect is a fundamental pillar in a harmonious society. At a young age, we are taught that everyone is deserving of respect and should likewise respect others, regardless of diverging beliefs, cultures, and origins. The underlying golden rule is never to do what we don’t want others to do to us.

However, as we grow older, we find it harder to respect people who go against our moral standards and social mores. Nevertheless, acknowledging people and their rights could already be a form of respect. But when people do not care to meet this bare minimum for respect, conflicts and crimes can ensue. 

5 Essay Examples

1. on self-respect by joan didion, 2. respect, trust and partnership: keeping diplomacy on course in troubling times by ted osius, 3. the respect deficit by richard v. reeves, 4. the emotional attachment of national symbols by karina lafayette, 5. filipino hospitality and respect for the aged by kashiwagi shiho, 1. how to show respect to criminals, 2. respect vs. love in relationships, 3. showing respect on social media, 4. respecting indigenous cultures, 5. how to respect data privacy rights, 6. what is respect for parents day, 7. when employees do not feel respected , 8. respect for animals.

“To assign unanswered letters their proper weight, to free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves—there lies the great, the singular power of self-respect.”

Didion explores misplaced self-respect through her experience of not making it to Phi Beta Kappa and the experience of others. What has been primarily associated with flattering others, self-respect, to Didion, is a virtue that can be developed when we emancipate ourselves from the expectations of others. 

“…[W]hen we show respect it has a big impact. Showing respect means figuring out what is really, truly important to our partners and taking that seriously. It costs America almost nothing and gets us almost everything.”

A former US ambassador to Vietnam shares that respect is a powerful tool to build and strengthen trading partners’ relationships. In the end, he suggests strengthening diplomacy with country partners, such as developing language and regional expertise.

“Here is a much deeper kind of inequality, caused not by a lack of resources, but by a lack of respect. You might be much richer or poorer than I am. But if we treat each other with mutual respect, we are, relationally speaking, equal.”

The essay talks about relational equality and how the lack of it could undermine both the sense of respect for others and the self. It touches on how the world’s meritocratic system has furthered the divide between classes and driven respect away from their reach. The urgent goal is to restore the sense of respect amid the bustle of our daily motions in life.

“National symbols deserve respect not because they are static representations of unchanging ideals, but because they offer a focal point for diverse societies to express and navigate what it is that unites and represents them.”

Respect for national symbols is imperative. But when the approach turns to one that is resistant to prospects of modifying national symbols, then we are missing out on opportunities to re-evaluate and re-invent how we can best represent our collective ideals. Instead of treating national symbols as sacred icons impervious to change, the best way to respect them and what they represent is to brave the thorny road of change. 

“When a Filipino child meets an older family member, the youth customarily greets them with a gesture called ‘mano po,’ taking the older relative’s hand and placing it on his or her own forehead to express profound respect for the elder.”

The essay thoroughly navigates how the Philippine society defends its elders, from the gestures of greeting to how the government, private sector, and non-profit organizations band together to support elders living alone. Other countries can learn from the Philippines’ experience in caring for their elders, especially in the quality care their nurses provide.

8 Thought-Provoking Prompts on Essays About Respect

It is easy to respect those who have worked hard and are deemed as typically well-behaved. But what about criminals who are stereotyped as not showing respect to others, or working hard? Are they deserving of our respect? Answer these questions and determine whether criminals are provided decent facilities and programs that inspire them to change. You can also look into how police officers keep track of their value of life to avoid the abuse of power and putting an end to life with unnecessary force. 

Take a deep dive into the differences between respect and love and discuss which is more important in a relationship. But first, explain the two and provide narrative examples to demonstrate their contrasts.

For example, with love, one might be inclined to say, “I’m willing to change myself for you.” But with a respect-filled relationship, boundaries are drawn. Hence, people can live comfortably with their true selves without having to worry about losing a partner.

Social media encourages people to say what they wouldn’t otherwise say in the physical world primarily because of the anonymity that social media grants them. In your essay, describe the effects of disrespect on social media. Social experts observe that disrespect propels cancel culture and decreases our tolerance of people with differing views. Do you agree with this? Add in other observations you have about mutual respect, or the lack of it, on social media.

Indigenous groups call for recognition and respect for their land and rich cultures. In this prompt, cite the challenges in promoting respect for the rights of indigenous peoples.

For example, how does the government reconcile the need to preserve their traditions with the need to alter practices that negatively impact the environment? Write down what else the government can do to support indigenous groups. One example is ensuring their participation in deliberating their lands’ use to enable them to give free, prior, and informed consent.

Data privacy is a fundamental human right, but our data can be easily harvested through every transaction and activity we make using our phones. This essay discusses the data privacy law in your country or state.

Write about the obligations the law has set for companies to sufficiently safeguard the personal data of their clients. Suppose you want to look at international data privacy standards. In that case, you can explore the General Data Protection Regulation , dissect its seven principles and find out how they play in the data privacy cycle from collection to disposal. 

Respect for Parents Day is celebrated in the US every August 1 to recognize the importance of parents’ roles in their children’s lives and the larger society. Dedicate this essay to celebrating your parents. Share with readers the hard work they do to raise you while handling a job or a business to build your future. Briefly narrate the origins of Respect Your Parents Day and provide tips on how families can best spend this day.  

In the workplace, some bosses abuse their power, overstep their boundaries and forget the basics of respect. How does disrespect affect the motivation and productivity of workers? Mull over this question and try to enumerate the negative impacts of disrespect in the workplace. Then, with the support of research studies, find out what motivational methods managers can employ to reinforce employees positively and help them receive the respect they deserve.

Over the years, the call for respect has extended beyond humankind and to the animal kingdom. First, hear the calls of advocacy groups combating the cruel practice of commoditizing animals or their parts for profit. Track how far their efforts have progressed.

You can also look into the International Convention for the Protection of Animals , a proposed treaty to address all animal issues, and research how it has moved forward to fill in the gap of an international agreement to protect animals.

Make sure your essays are clean and understandable with our list of the best essay checkers .

Tip : If writing an essay sounds like a lot of work, simplify it. Write a simple five-paragraph essay instead.

Yna Lim is a communications specialist currently focused on policy advocacy. In her eight years of writing, she has been exposed to a variety of topics, including cryptocurrency, web hosting, agriculture, marketing, intellectual property, data privacy and international trade. A former journalist in one of the top business papers in the Philippines, Yna is currently pursuing her master's degree in economics and business.

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A good part of the argument of Democracy and Disagreement appeared earlier in Gutmann and Thompson’s influential essay “Moral Conflict and Political Consensus.”1 That piece begins by observing that “religious controversy has traditionally been regarded as the paradigm of moral conflict that does not belong on the political agenda”2 (because it is intractable) and fairly quickly turns into a discussion of how to exclude from that agenda policies favoring racial discrimination. The authors think of themselves as going against the grain of Nagel-like appeals to higher-order principle, but in the end (and predictably) they make just such an appeal themselves in the name of”mutual respect.”

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Understanding the importance of mutual respect in building healthy relationships is crucial. It is essential to acknowledge the worth of others and treat them with dignity, which is the foundation of mutual respect.

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Mutual respect is the key to building healthy relationships with others. It means acknowledging the value of others and treating them with dignity. When we show mutual respect, we create a safe and positive environment for everyone involved.

Mutual Respect In Relationship

Mutual respect is all about giving and receiving respect from each other. It involves listening to others’ opinions and considering their feelings. It means being open-minded and accepting of others’ differences, regardless of their race, gender, or religion. When we show mutual respect, we create a foundation for healthy relationships. It allows us to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and maintain positive interactions with others.

In conclusion, mutual respect is essential for building healthy relationships with others. It involves treating others with dignity and acknowledging their value. When we show mutual respect, we create a safe and positive environment for everyone involved. By being open-minded and accepting of others’ differences, we can build strong and positive relationships that can last a lifetime.

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Essay on Respect 11 Models

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Writing an Essay on respect is important, because respect is a noble quality that every person should have.

Respect for others is a good thing, and therefore we will present articles or paragraph examples about respect and the importance of respect for both the individual and society, and why we should acquire this civilized behavior, which is beneficial for everyone.

We will also explain the importance of raising children and teaching them to respect others, even if they differ from us in thinking, gender, opinion, or otherwise. We will present many topics to suit all educational levels.

Essay on respect

Respect is a noble trait and we must teach it to our children from a young age, because educating children is much easier than educating young people.

When a child learns some good behaviors in his childhood, he gets used to them, and it becomes a distinctive behavior for him.

In order for the society to be safe, we must promote the idea of ​​respect for others, and various media can be used to promote this idea so that it becomes a behavior for individuals.

Respect for others helps the progress and prosperity of peoples, because when we respect others, we will listen seriously to their opinions and thus benefit from everyone’s experiences.

Respect defintion

We can define respect in a simple way as not contempt of others, no matter how we differ with them in opinions, ideas and beliefs. A person must also be respected without regard to his nationality, gender, religion, color, or anything else.

This requires that we treat others with respect, even if they are less educated than us, less money, beauty, or otherwise.

The importance of respect

It is important that respect prevail among people, even if their education and abilities differ. Every individual in society has a great role that we cannot do without, and we should not consider some people as unimportant, because each of us needs the other.

The rich needs someone to work for him in his factories, farms or trade, in order for this money to grow and increase, and the poor needs to work for the rich in order to get the money he needs to buy his food, housing, clothes, and so on.

From the foregoing it becomes clear that the relationship between the rich and the poor is a beneficial relationship, in which both parties benefit. Therefore, respect must be the basis for dealing between them, because if workers strike, the rich will not be able to invest his money, and thus it will not increase.

Likewise, if the rich do not provide job opportunities for the poor, they will not find the money necessary to purchase their needs, and thus each of them needs the other.

The state has established laws regulating the relationship between businessmen and workers in order to guarantee the rights and duties of each.

How do we develop respect among people?

Given the importance of respect in strengthening relationships between people, it is important to work on developing respect among members of society, by following several means, including:

• The role of the family in making its children respect others

The child’s behavior is determined from a young age by what he learned from his parents, siblings and relatives. These are the first to influence the child’s behavior. The child acquires his behavior by imitating his family members. Therefore, there must be respect among family members so that the child learns this good manners.

• The role of the school in making students respect others

The school plays a major role in developing respect among students, by raising awareness of the importance of the teacher’s role, and that students must respect their teacher and appreciate the effort he makes for their education.

There must also be mutual respect between students, and that we respect the opinions of others and do not underestimate their abilities.

• The role of the media in spreading a culture of respect for others

There must be a positive role for the media in spreading a culture of respect for others, through programs, series and films that show that people are different in customs, traditions and religions, but there must be mutual respect between them.

At the end of an essay on respect and its importance, we must teach our children this good behavior, and that is through our own behavior towards others.

The child imitates what he sees of behavior and cannot differentiate between good behavior and bad behavior, and therefore the responsibility lies with the family to raise its children well and teach them to respect others, then the role of the school and the various media comes.

Importance of respect essay

Respect is a noble character that should be possessed by all members of society. When respect prevails between people, this reduces the problems that arise as a result of differences in thinking or customs and traditions. Respect for others brings points of view closer together, and thus everyone lives in peace.

In many cases, the problems stem from a lack of respect for the rights of others, whether this is between family members, classmates or work colleagues.

Respecting the rights of others is important, but this does not conflict with fair competition. The family must cultivate this benign behavior among its children. The elder must be respected and the elder be sympathetic to the younger, thus strengthening the bonding between family members, and cooperation and love being the basis for dealing with them.

Self respect essay

Self-respect is one of the reasons for success. When you respect yourself, you will be able to overcome the difficulties you face, and one of the manifestations of self-respect is that you respect the rights of others. Because the infringement of the rights of others will be faced by the infringement of your rights by others.

Also, your interest in excel in your education is a manifestation of self-respect, because people love a hardworking person who is successful in his work, and so your respect for yourself will make others respect you as well.

One of the manifestations of self-respect is the interest in your appearance and elegance, personal hygiene and other things that make you a person loved by others.

In fact, the importance of respect is great for both the individual and society.

Respect For Others Essay

Respect for others is a good behavior that we must learn from childhood. I have learned to respect others from my family members, as I witnessed my mother respecting and appreciating my father, and they consulted in all matters pertaining to the family, and none of them made a decision without the consent of the other.

Also, my brothers respect my father and mother, and obey their orders, so there is mutual respect and love between my family members. I also learned this good behavior. I respect my parents and I respect my brothers. Respect for others has become a constant behavior for me throughout my life.

I respect my teachers and my schoolmates. Respect is a noble behavior that everyone should have in order for security and cohesion to prevail among people.

Short Essay on Respect

There is no doubt that respect is a good behavior that we must promote among all individuals, because respect makes us listen to the ideas of others seriously, and thus we can benefit from their experiences. Respecting others leads to cooperation and the progress of the country.

I grew up in a close-knit family, in which the young respect the elder, and the elder sympathize with the young, and therefore there is love and affection between my family members.

Respecting others is the duty of every individual, and there are many laws that regulate the relationship between people so that respecting others and not offending them is the prevailing system in society.

Learning to respect others from a young age is very important, because this trait will make you loved by others.

Respect for elders essay

One of the good manners that we must learn from childhood is to respect the elderly, and in my family I have acquired this good behavior. We respect my grandparents and listen to their advice, they are very experienced.

Adults give us advice and guidance, and make us feel love and affection, which makes us happy. We help them to do household chores, and to purchase their requirements.

I visit my grandfather and grandmother every week. On the weekend, I go to visit my grandfather and grandmother. I spend a good time with them, as I listen to my grandfather talking about different historical stages about my country.

Respecting and providing assistance to the elderly is essential and benefits everyone. I feel proud when I speak with my grandfather and learn from him the history of my country, the old customs and traditions.

Respect your parents essay

One of the most important things that we must learn is to respect our parents, they are the reason for our existence in this life, and they are the people who love us the most in this life.

The great effort that each father and mother makes to provide for the needs of their children must be met with thanks from the children.

Respecting our parents is our duty, as it is the least expression of our appreciation for their great efforts to make us happy.

Our parents are the ones who give us love and affection and they support us in life. We go to them in times of difficulties, and they always find solutions to our problems.

Respect for father and mother is the most important kind of respect, and if you get used to respecting them, you will respect others as well, and there is no love without respect. Your love for your parents must be accompanied by respect for them.

Respect your elders essay

It is important to respect everyone who is older than us, especially if these are our grandparents or teachers. This is because their preference over us is great, so my grandparents are my origin and they protect me and support me in my life.

My grandparents are not stingy with money or psychological support, they are indeed a support for me in this life.

They give me advice wholeheartedly, and they like me to be a successful person. I feel safe because I have grandparents.

Also, respecting my teachers is a duty, as they made a great effort to teach and educate me, and they always guided me to the path of success and excellence.

It is my duty to respect my teachers, I respect them very much and will continue to appreciate their kindness to me throughout my life.

Respecting our elders is an indication of the good education of our children, and that they will be great men in the future.

100 Word essay on respect

Respect is a good moral that must be taught to children from a young age, because education in childhood is much easier and better than education in adulthood. The child in his first years learns by imitating others, especially family members. The child must learn from an early age to respect his parents and his siblings.

Respecting those who are older than us is essential, because this will allow us to benefit from their experiences and make us feel loved by others. It is important to respect our parents and teachers, as we must respect our brothers and colleagues.

Respect for others makes us feel safe and avoid much harm, because everyone around us will reciprocate love and respect.

Respect for parents essay

When we realize how our parents suffered to provide our needs, our respect for them will be the least we can do for them. Sometimes we may feel that our parents treat us harshly, but in fact they are working for our best interest.

Our parents are the most caring people for us, they wish us success  in our lives, and our parents endure many hardships in order for their children to be happy. They don’t skimp on us with effort or money.

Respecting our parents increases their ability to give and makes them feel happy. In fact, our parents do not expect any thanks from us in return for their great effort, but respecting them is something we must do, and this is the least gratitude and appreciation we can express for them.

Respect definition essay

Difference is an essential thing in human life. There is no congruence between people in ideas, beliefs, customs, traditions, and others. Therefore, respect was an essential thing in dealing with human beings.

By respecting others, we can listen to their opinions and study their ideas, then discuss with them objectively and show them our point of view, and why we differ with them.

There is no doubt that respecting the rights of others leads people to live in peace. Therefore, laws have been established that regulate the relationship between individuals within the same society, as well as laws that respect the rights of states.

When these laws are adhered to, security and peace will prevail, and nations will develop and progress.

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