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Speech on Good Manners for Students in English [3 Minutes*]

December 10, 2020 by Sandeep

Good Manners Speech: Good manners play a vital role in shaping the personality of children. Good habits and manners reflect on a person’s upbringing, culture, social behaviour and value towards society. They lead to success in life and inculcate values of honesty, truthfulness, loyalty and sincerity in individuals.

Speech on Good Manners 500 Words in English

Below we have provided Good Manners Speech in English, suitable for class 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 students.

Good morning everyone presents here. Respected teachers & my dear friends. Today I am going to tell you all about good manners & its importance. We all live in a society, where the way of thinking, talking & acting must be following social norms. Right Manner is a part of human nature & life. We all must know how to behave well & perform good manners. It helps us to earn respect & dignity in society. People always love a man of good manners.

Good manners are incorporated by parents to their children so that they start adapting to it from a very young age. They teach them how to behave with the family, friends, neighbours, relatives & people around them. Modesty, humbleness & kindness are few of the essential traits of a good manners person. Greeting people with a ‘Namaste’ or handshake with a smile is one of the primary manners which all of learning from a very young age.

Reverting people with ‘thank you’ is one of sweet gesture. Saying ‘sorry’, ’excuse me’ are very common which we practice in our lives. Besides all these treating elders with respect & juniors with love & care is also a trait of good manners. We must take permission from other before using any property of others, offering seats to elders in public transport, being humble & polite, not using any offensive or abusive language are also the characters of a well-mannered person.

Good manners always open up the new doors for good connections in life. It also helps us ease of living life. It allows a new conversation with people which is essential for success in life. Good manners create an effective interaction & healthy discussion. Good manners create positivity in the environment. It is a vital part for the individual as well as for society. However, it is observed that the new generation is forgetting the importance of good manners day by day.

They are becoming rude & arrogant. The cases of indiscipline & irregularity are on hike. Good manners are the rudiment elementary education which starts from home. We all must stress on the fact that children are learning it from the very beginning itself. It is a part of life which impacts our existence in society. So we all must practice & follow good manners in our day to day life.

Short Speech on Good Manners

Below we have provided a short speech Good Manners, written in easy and simple words for class 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 school students.

Good morning to everyone present here. Today I ……. of class….. is going to deliver my speech on good manners.

Good manners are an integral part of our life & society. We all learn it from a very young age from our home. Teachers also teach us all good manners in school. It is essential for all of us as it helps in having a good impression on people around us. Being respectful, humble, caring, kind is few of the example of traits which is included in good manners. I will tell you a few of the traits which we all must practice in our day to day life.

Firstly wishing & greeting people whenever we meet them. We must acknowledge people with ‘Thank You’ whenever anyone does any favour for us. If we are wrong somewhere, we must say ‘sorry’. We all must respect our parents, teachers & all elders as well as must show care & love to the juniors. Maintaining cleanliness must be practised not only in-home or school but everywhere we go to. We must not use any offensive or abusive word ever.

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If you use any of these 9 phrases, you have 'better etiquette skills' than most: Public speaking expert

Actions may speak louder than words, but words still matter — a lot . People can get easily offended, and if you rush around like most folks, it's easy to say the wrong thing in the wrong way .

As a public speaking expert , one thing I focus on is teaching good speech manners. There are nine phrases in particular that instantly show appreciation and respect.

If you use any of them every day, you have better etiquette skills than most people:

1. "What I'm hearing you say is ..."

People don't expect you to agree with everything they say. But they do want to know they've been heard and understood.

Use this phrase to clear your mind and confirm that you did consider their words before responding. If they spoke in a vague way the first time, you'll give them a chance to focus their thoughts and contribute more meaningfully to the conversation. 

2. "You may be right."

This phrase helps pave the way for disagreement, as in: "You might be right, but let's experiment with this new idea this time."

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It's also helpful for responding to off-topic comments and remarks from hyperactive colleagues who talk too much. No one likes to be negated, and a simple affirmation allows conversations to proceed without disharmony. 

3. "You were right, I was wrong."

This phrase is a gold star of conversational selflessness for two reasons:

• It's impossible to say these words unless you mean them.
• They're music to people's ears.

It is a great tool for defusing tension, clearing the slate, and earning respect. Surrender your ego to win the bigger fight for more productive, authentic relationships.

4. "Thank you for doing this ..."  

Old-school, elegant and simple. In a world where gratitude, respect and acknowledgement are hard to come by, it pays to be generous with praise.

If you want to encourage good behavior, force yourself to acknowledge it when you see it.

5. "I'll leave you to it."

Sometimes the hardest and most helpful thing you can do is overcome your impulse to control.

If someone is chopping carrots (rather than landing a plane), offer this simple gesture of trust — especially if your first thought is that you have a better technique. Say it like you mean it, and do it with a smile.

6. "Can you help me with something?"

No one likes to be barked at or ordered around, but most of us enjoy being asked for help.

Note the difference between saying, "Take out the garbage," versus, "Hey, I'm overwhelmed. Can I ask you to help me by taking out the garbage?"

7. "Your [hair/shirt/tie, etc.] looks so nice today!"

Don't lie, but do look for the good. People like compliments, even when they act like they don't.

We're all aging, we're all stressed, we all worry that we forgot something about our appearance. It's nice to hear that we did something right once in a while.

8. "That's interesting."

Even the melodic, prosodic flow of these words demands a slow-down, a bow to the speaker of sorts, before the conversation continues. It's an acknowledgement that something was said, heard and considered.

9. Say nothing at all.

When someone says something rude or ignorant and you're dying to lash back, remember the power of "I'm rubber and you're glue." Be rubber. Take a deep breath. Chalk the words up as somebody else's issue and walk away.

John Bowe  is a speech trainer, award-winning journalist, and author of  "I Have Something to Say: Mastering the Art of Public Speaking in an Age of Disconnection."   He has contributed to The New Yorker, The New York Times Magazine, GQ, McSweeney's, This American Life, and many others. Visit his website  here  and follow him on  LinkedIn .

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Good Manners Speech

Speech on good manners -.

Good manners are always welcomed by the people in society. Good manners are nothing but to treat the people in a polite way and good behaviour in public. Likewise bad manners are impolite—bad or rude behaviour can be referred to as a discourteous way to treat people in public. Every parent must teach their children to behave in a good manner wherever they may be in public or at home.

10 Lines on Good Manners

The base of every relationship is manners. Whether it's a friend or a family member, your manners decide whether it will be a good or bad relationship with the person in front of you.

To win someone's heart you have to maintain good manners as it helps to keep the relationship smooth and positive.

A person with good manners is polite, respectful and shows feelings for the people around him.

A person with good manners will never be proud or arrogant about something which is not based on a proper reason. And always takes care of the feelings of the person in front.

Manners play an important role in every single stage of our life. It matters a lot for living a social life.

Manners say that be thankful for others, be kind to all living beings and give respect. These are 3 mantras for good manners.

Good manners also helps to maintain or improve physical, mental, spiritual and social well-being. It leads to sensibility and dignity.

Saying hurtful things to the person is not a sign of good manners. It will hurt the feelings of a person and will make the relationship negative.

Yelling at every point and giving excuses are part of bad manners. Instead we can talk in a lower voice and can say sorry if we are wrong at some point.

Good manners will help to improve our image and make us a good person.

Short Speech on Good Manners

Possessing good manners refers to one's ability to behave properly in social situations. Living a social life depends greatly on having decent manners. Particularly in youngsters, it should be instilled from an early age. The most crucial aspect of our nature and life is how we behave, whether it is in a good or negative way. While bad manners disgrace us, good manners assist us in gaining respect and dignity in society. Good manners give a proper shaping to a personality.

Good manners makes every person extraordinary in their own way. In everyday life, manners are crucial. Our body language, temperament, demeanour, civility, and manners are all reflected in them. We do our duties in every aspect of life, and our moral character is put to the test. Here are some examples of good manners.

Helping people.

Greetings others respectfully.

Say thank you after receiving something.

Say sorry after making any mistake.

Don't talk back.

We must constantly stand for people who are suffering.

Before touching or utilising someone else's property, we must obtain their consent.

When someone speaks to us, we should pay close attention.

We should always compliment individuals on their positive traits and actions.

To leave a positive impression on others in daily life, good manners are crucial. They aid in enhancing your sense of self-worth and identity. Good manners should be used anywhere you go, including at home with children, at work with coworkers, and with friends.

Long Speech on Good Manners

Our character is created by our manners. Both good and bad manners are possible. Our reputation is ruined by bad manners. It is referred to as bad manners when we treat people poorly, such as when we are impolite or fail to communicate with them appropriately.

Children should start learning manners at a young age.We rarely lose the virtues and conduct that were instilled in us as children. Good manners are a set of characteristics that support us in life. A person should always act politely. That demonstrates moral integrity. A person's good manners are not truly a part of them if they are only used when there is a profit to be gained or to make others think well of them.

Practicing Good Manners

I believe that using excellent manners is essential for success in daily life. The modern man is hard-pressed and impatient. In order to function in society, one must also develop social graces. These are frequently referred to as manners or etiquettes. For instance, if there isn't another seat available, one must offer one to an elderly person. One must cover their lips with a handkerchief or at the very least their hand when they cough or sneeze in public.

Additionally, when in a social setting, one must wait their turn to speak. It's impolite to interject in other people's conversations. Students who behave well benefit from their own personal development and become better people overall. Anyone who is kind to us deserves our gratitude. Being polite is essential to having a great and honourable personality in society. It supports our soul's and mind's positivity. Our admirable conduct demonstrates the strength of our character. To foster constructive contact, we ought to reverence and respect others.

Examples of Good Manners

When you first meet someone, introduce yourself by name. Introduce yourself by name and ask the person you are meeting with their name if you haven't met them previously.

For example, You may say, "Hello, my name is James. Which is yours?" When it comes to introductions, different cultures and nations have distinct customs, so be sure you are aware of them where you are.

Use the words "please" and "thank you" while making requests. Start with saying "please" whenever you need to make a request or need anything. In this manner, it won't appear as though you are expecting the other person to perform tasks for you.

For instance, you might ask, "Could you hand me that book please?" Upon receiving the book, "Would you kindly hand the book to me?" Say "Thank you" after receiving the book.

To demonstrate that you are kind and considerate, offer to assist others. Ask if there is anything you can do for someone if you see them in need.

Take the time to help the other person if the request is reasonable and you can complete it without difficulty. You might not always need to ask someone for aid. You can give your seat on a bus to someone who needs to sit down, or you can hold a door open for someone who is approaching from behind.

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Individuals who opt for a career as an environmental engineer are construction professionals who utilise the skills and knowledge of biology, soil science, chemistry and the concept of engineering to design and develop projects that serve as solutions to various environmental problems. 

Safety Manager

A Safety Manager is a professional responsible for employee’s safety at work. He or she plans, implements and oversees the company’s employee safety. A Safety Manager ensures compliance and adherence to Occupational Health and Safety (OHS) guidelines.

Conservation Architect

A Conservation Architect is a professional responsible for conserving and restoring buildings or monuments having a historic value. He or she applies techniques to document and stabilise the object’s state without any further damage. A Conservation Architect restores the monuments and heritage buildings to bring them back to their original state.

Structural Engineer

A Structural Engineer designs buildings, bridges, and other related structures. He or she analyzes the structures and makes sure the structures are strong enough to be used by the people. A career as a Structural Engineer requires working in the construction process. It comes under the civil engineering discipline. A Structure Engineer creates structural models with the help of computer-aided design software. 

Highway Engineer

Highway Engineer Job Description:  A Highway Engineer is a civil engineer who specialises in planning and building thousands of miles of roads that support connectivity and allow transportation across the country. He or she ensures that traffic management schemes are effectively planned concerning economic sustainability and successful implementation.

Field Surveyor

Are you searching for a Field Surveyor Job Description? A Field Surveyor is a professional responsible for conducting field surveys for various places or geographical conditions. He or she collects the required data and information as per the instructions given by senior officials. 

Orthotist and Prosthetist

Orthotists and Prosthetists are professionals who provide aid to patients with disabilities. They fix them to artificial limbs (prosthetics) and help them to regain stability. There are times when people lose their limbs in an accident. In some other occasions, they are born without a limb or orthopaedic impairment. Orthotists and prosthetists play a crucial role in their lives with fixing them to assistive devices and provide mobility.

Pathologist

A career in pathology in India is filled with several responsibilities as it is a medical branch and affects human lives. The demand for pathologists has been increasing over the past few years as people are getting more aware of different diseases. Not only that, but an increase in population and lifestyle changes have also contributed to the increase in a pathologist’s demand. The pathology careers provide an extremely huge number of opportunities and if you want to be a part of the medical field you can consider being a pathologist. If you want to know more about a career in pathology in India then continue reading this article.

Veterinary Doctor

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Gynaecology can be defined as the study of the female body. The job outlook for gynaecology is excellent since there is evergreen demand for one because of their responsibility of dealing with not only women’s health but also fertility and pregnancy issues. Although most women prefer to have a women obstetrician gynaecologist as their doctor, men also explore a career as a gynaecologist and there are ample amounts of male doctors in the field who are gynaecologists and aid women during delivery and childbirth. 

Audiologist

The audiologist career involves audiology professionals who are responsible to treat hearing loss and proactively preventing the relevant damage. Individuals who opt for a career as an audiologist use various testing strategies with the aim to determine if someone has a normal sensitivity to sounds or not. After the identification of hearing loss, a hearing doctor is required to determine which sections of the hearing are affected, to what extent they are affected, and where the wound causing the hearing loss is found. As soon as the hearing loss is identified, the patients are provided with recommendations for interventions and rehabilitation such as hearing aids, cochlear implants, and appropriate medical referrals. While audiology is a branch of science that studies and researches hearing, balance, and related disorders.

An oncologist is a specialised doctor responsible for providing medical care to patients diagnosed with cancer. He or she uses several therapies to control the cancer and its effect on the human body such as chemotherapy, immunotherapy, radiation therapy and biopsy. An oncologist designs a treatment plan based on a pathology report after diagnosing the type of cancer and where it is spreading inside the body.

Are you searching for an ‘Anatomist job description’? An Anatomist is a research professional who applies the laws of biological science to determine the ability of bodies of various living organisms including animals and humans to regenerate the damaged or destroyed organs. If you want to know what does an anatomist do, then read the entire article, where we will answer all your questions.

For an individual who opts for a career as an actor, the primary responsibility is to completely speak to the character he or she is playing and to persuade the crowd that the character is genuine by connecting with them and bringing them into the story. This applies to significant roles and littler parts, as all roles join to make an effective creation. Here in this article, we will discuss how to become an actor in India, actor exams, actor salary in India, and actor jobs. 

Individuals who opt for a career as acrobats create and direct original routines for themselves, in addition to developing interpretations of existing routines. The work of circus acrobats can be seen in a variety of performance settings, including circus, reality shows, sports events like the Olympics, movies and commercials. Individuals who opt for a career as acrobats must be prepared to face rejections and intermittent periods of work. The creativity of acrobats may extend to other aspects of the performance. For example, acrobats in the circus may work with gym trainers, celebrities or collaborate with other professionals to enhance such performance elements as costume and or maybe at the teaching end of the career.

Video Game Designer

Career as a video game designer is filled with excitement as well as responsibilities. A video game designer is someone who is involved in the process of creating a game from day one. He or she is responsible for fulfilling duties like designing the character of the game, the several levels involved, plot, art and similar other elements. Individuals who opt for a career as a video game designer may also write the codes for the game using different programming languages.

Depending on the video game designer job description and experience they may also have to lead a team and do the early testing of the game in order to suggest changes and find loopholes.

Radio Jockey

Radio Jockey is an exciting, promising career and a great challenge for music lovers. If you are really interested in a career as radio jockey, then it is very important for an RJ to have an automatic, fun, and friendly personality. If you want to get a job done in this field, a strong command of the language and a good voice are always good things. Apart from this, in order to be a good radio jockey, you will also listen to good radio jockeys so that you can understand their style and later make your own by practicing.

A career as radio jockey has a lot to offer to deserving candidates. If you want to know more about a career as radio jockey, and how to become a radio jockey then continue reading the article.

Choreographer

The word “choreography" actually comes from Greek words that mean “dance writing." Individuals who opt for a career as a choreographer create and direct original dances, in addition to developing interpretations of existing dances. A Choreographer dances and utilises his or her creativity in other aspects of dance performance. For example, he or she may work with the music director to select music or collaborate with other famous choreographers to enhance such performance elements as lighting, costume and set design.

Social Media Manager

A career as social media manager involves implementing the company’s or brand’s marketing plan across all social media channels. Social media managers help in building or improving a brand’s or a company’s website traffic, build brand awareness, create and implement marketing and brand strategy. Social media managers are key to important social communication as well.

Photographer

Photography is considered both a science and an art, an artistic means of expression in which the camera replaces the pen. In a career as a photographer, an individual is hired to capture the moments of public and private events, such as press conferences or weddings, or may also work inside a studio, where people go to get their picture clicked. Photography is divided into many streams each generating numerous career opportunities in photography. With the boom in advertising, media, and the fashion industry, photography has emerged as a lucrative and thrilling career option for many Indian youths.

An individual who is pursuing a career as a producer is responsible for managing the business aspects of production. They are involved in each aspect of production from its inception to deception. Famous movie producers review the script, recommend changes and visualise the story. 

They are responsible for overseeing the finance involved in the project and distributing the film for broadcasting on various platforms. A career as a producer is quite fulfilling as well as exhaustive in terms of playing different roles in order for a production to be successful. Famous movie producers are responsible for hiring creative and technical personnel on contract basis.

Copy Writer

In a career as a copywriter, one has to consult with the client and understand the brief well. A career as a copywriter has a lot to offer to deserving candidates. Several new mediums of advertising are opening therefore making it a lucrative career choice. Students can pursue various copywriter courses such as Journalism , Advertising , Marketing Management . Here, we have discussed how to become a freelance copywriter, copywriter career path, how to become a copywriter in India, and copywriting career outlook. 

In a career as a vlogger, one generally works for himself or herself. However, once an individual has gained viewership there are several brands and companies that approach them for paid collaboration. It is one of those fields where an individual can earn well while following his or her passion. 

Ever since internet costs got reduced the viewership for these types of content has increased on a large scale. Therefore, a career as a vlogger has a lot to offer. If you want to know more about the Vlogger eligibility, roles and responsibilities then continue reading the article. 

For publishing books, newspapers, magazines and digital material, editorial and commercial strategies are set by publishers. Individuals in publishing career paths make choices about the markets their businesses will reach and the type of content that their audience will be served. Individuals in book publisher careers collaborate with editorial staff, designers, authors, and freelance contributors who develop and manage the creation of content.

Careers in journalism are filled with excitement as well as responsibilities. One cannot afford to miss out on the details. As it is the small details that provide insights into a story. Depending on those insights a journalist goes about writing a news article. A journalism career can be stressful at times but if you are someone who is passionate about it then it is the right choice for you. If you want to know more about the media field and journalist career then continue reading this article.

Individuals in the editor career path is an unsung hero of the news industry who polishes the language of the news stories provided by stringers, reporters, copywriters and content writers and also news agencies. Individuals who opt for a career as an editor make it more persuasive, concise and clear for readers. In this article, we will discuss the details of the editor's career path such as how to become an editor in India, editor salary in India and editor skills and qualities.

Individuals who opt for a career as a reporter may often be at work on national holidays and festivities. He or she pitches various story ideas and covers news stories in risky situations. Students can pursue a BMC (Bachelor of Mass Communication) , B.M.M. (Bachelor of Mass Media) , or  MAJMC (MA in Journalism and Mass Communication) to become a reporter. While we sit at home reporters travel to locations to collect information that carries a news value.  

Corporate Executive

Are you searching for a Corporate Executive job description? A Corporate Executive role comes with administrative duties. He or she provides support to the leadership of the organisation. A Corporate Executive fulfils the business purpose and ensures its financial stability. In this article, we are going to discuss how to become corporate executive.

Multimedia Specialist

A multimedia specialist is a media professional who creates, audio, videos, graphic image files, computer animations for multimedia applications. He or she is responsible for planning, producing, and maintaining websites and applications. 

Quality Controller

A quality controller plays a crucial role in an organisation. He or she is responsible for performing quality checks on manufactured products. He or she identifies the defects in a product and rejects the product. 

A quality controller records detailed information about products with defects and sends it to the supervisor or plant manager to take necessary actions to improve the production process.

Production Manager

A QA Lead is in charge of the QA Team. The role of QA Lead comes with the responsibility of assessing services and products in order to determine that he or she meets the quality standards. He or she develops, implements and manages test plans. 

Process Development Engineer

The Process Development Engineers design, implement, manufacture, mine, and other production systems using technical knowledge and expertise in the industry. They use computer modeling software to test technologies and machinery. An individual who is opting career as Process Development Engineer is responsible for developing cost-effective and efficient processes. They also monitor the production process and ensure it functions smoothly and efficiently.

AWS Solution Architect

An AWS Solution Architect is someone who specializes in developing and implementing cloud computing systems. He or she has a good understanding of the various aspects of cloud computing and can confidently deploy and manage their systems. He or she troubleshoots the issues and evaluates the risk from the third party. 

Azure Administrator

An Azure Administrator is a professional responsible for implementing, monitoring, and maintaining Azure Solutions. He or she manages cloud infrastructure service instances and various cloud servers as well as sets up public and private cloud systems. 

Computer Programmer

Careers in computer programming primarily refer to the systematic act of writing code and moreover include wider computer science areas. The word 'programmer' or 'coder' has entered into practice with the growing number of newly self-taught tech enthusiasts. Computer programming careers involve the use of designs created by software developers and engineers and transforming them into commands that can be implemented by computers. These commands result in regular usage of social media sites, word-processing applications and browsers.

Information Security Manager

Individuals in the information security manager career path involves in overseeing and controlling all aspects of computer security. The IT security manager job description includes planning and carrying out security measures to protect the business data and information from corruption, theft, unauthorised access, and deliberate attack 

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Automation test engineer.

An Automation Test Engineer job involves executing automated test scripts. He or she identifies the project’s problems and troubleshoots them. The role involves documenting the defect using management tools. He or she works with the application team in order to resolve any issues arising during the testing process. 

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Speech Etiquette: 17 Tips to Get Yourself Noticed

How well have you mastered public speaking? Feeling nervous before speaking in front of an audience gets to the best of us.

However, understanding speech etiquette can help you bridge any subject. Here are the mannerisms that meet proper speech etiquette.

Present Yourself as a Competent Speaker

Every message is as good as its messenger. You will need to have a criterion in mind to present your message so that you come off as a competent speaker. Thus, know what you want to accomplish and do exactly that.

Inspire, persuade, or inform without backtracking or going in circles. Understand your audience so you can structure your speech to meet your audience’s purpose.

When you present yourself confidently, you’ll command the audience’s attention. That’s why it pays to be passionate about the subject so you can pass the message with utmost clarity.

Understand the Demands of the Occasion

You’ll benefit from understanding the context. For example, you are the father of the bride and have been asked to give a speech at a wedding. You are naturally required to give a heartfelt story.

In this case, you’re going to have to rise to the demands of the occasion.

Know the difference between formal vs informal presentations .

Observe Politeness

It’s human nature to detect tone and attitude. Therefore, it will be difficult to fake politeness if your attitude is a bit off. For this reason, it’s best to recognize that you’re entering someone else’s personal space, and they expect you to respect it.

Whenever you’re presenting your speech, let your facial expressions mirror your words. You don’t want to smile when delivering a sad message and vice versa.

Furthermore, brush up on the best jokes for the occasion while considering that inappropriate jokes do not count as funny.

Maintain Eye Contact

Maintaining eye contact is a learned skill that follows good speech etiquette. You don’t have to read every single thing in your notes.

Losing eye contact will lose your audience engagement and make you feel like you’re presenting the message to yourself.

Present Yourself Confidently

Apart from maintaining eye contact, there are more things that you can do to present yourself confidently .

• Practice good posture when approaching the stage, on the podium , and as you walk off. Do not slump, lean, or twist on the podium or table. Also, do not stand in the projector’s light.
• Wait for the introducer to leave the stage before you start speaking. Remember to thank the introducer before commencing with the speech. This will prevent the scenario where the introducer has to acknowledge the thank you halfway between the podium and their seat – it’s very distracting and unnecessary.
• Make special greetings to the guest of honor, dignitaries, and government officials.
• Use the microphone provided and don’t readjust or tap it more than once.
• Articulate your words by slowing down and speaking up.
• Eliminate verbal crutches like ums and uhs and distracting habits such as fidgeting.
• Use variations in force, speed, and inflictions to enhance meaning and hold the audience’s attention.
• Never quit in between the speech or “lose your cool.”

Practice! Practice! Practice!

Practicing your speech is the only way to be completely prepared and show mastery of the subject. 

For you to nail your speech, you have to be overwhelmingly thorough. A practiced speaker connects to their audience with 100% confidence in their speech.

Arrive Early

Don’t arrive five minutes before giving a speech. You’ll be unprepared; the MC will not know how long the speech will take, and you’ll likely sort any presentation in front of the audience.

Doing this will take away from the audience’s confidence in you.

Stick To Your Time Slot

It’s disrespectful to the audience and other speakers when you speak after your given time is over. Always pay attention to the timing and obey timing signals.

If you take your full time, skip a few low-priority topics. If you expect to answer questions, leave five to ten minutes from your time slot.

The best way to stick to your time slot is by recording yourself and seeing if the speech fits within the allotted time.

Encourage Q&As

Q&As make the speech lively, allowing you to interact with the audience. The audience can ask for clarification on the subject or how a product works if it’s a sales pitch .

In addition, Q&As give the audience the impression that their presence is valued and appreciated. It will also give them the courage to share their thoughts which is valuable when passing any message.

During Q&A, listen thoughtfully and patiently. Then answer the questions respectfully. Furthermore, acknowledge when you don’t have an answer by telling your audience you’ll check and get to them with the appropriate answer.

Move On After Technology Glitches

It would help if you did not rely solely on visual presentation . If something happens to your slides, move on with the rest of the speech.

Do not spend more than a couple of minutes fixing the glitch. Always have alternatives like flow charts or a practiced speech that you can complete without the help of technology.

Make Presentable PowerPoint Slides

Have you ever been at a presentation only for the PowerPoint slides to pass super-fast? Fast slides with a long message in small fonts waste time.

Ensure that the visuals are readable by everyone. Zoom in on the important points, pause and let everyone take in the message.

When presenting visuals, ensure that they are not duplicating the message you’re speaking. The audience gains nothing of value when they have to see slides that repeat the same information.

Don’t Apologize

It may seem counterintuitive, but apologizing draws attention to any mistake like fumbling or tripping.

Even more important, do not apologize for not being prepared. Practice mindfulness techniques to be aware of how much you apologize.

Watch Your Movements

Reduce nervous gestures by practicing the ideal gestures for emphasis.

While some speeches are better done with little movement , some can benefit from a little demonstration and moving around your space.

Avoid Too Many Statistics

The last thing you want is to come across as a statistician. You only require one or two statistics to support a point; any more than that, you’ll start losing audience engagement . 

Again, speak your audience’s language , and share your insights and experiences.

Tell a Good Story

People want to relate to you. When you tell a story or inject a joke, the audience feels comfortable and captures their attention.

Adding humor makes the audience more likely to remember you and your speech. However, don’t tell the audience that you’re going to tell them something funny since it might sound awkward.

Dress for the Occasion

Tidy up and dress appropriately. Tie or slick your hair back to avoid strands getting in your eyes. Also, avoid wearing a hat or cap that could distract the audience.

Get Some Rest

Don’t compromise your energy level by over-exerting yourself before the day of the speech. It may impact your speech delivery since you will likely struggle to deliver a clear message.

In addition, avoid alcohol or caffeine the night before you deliver a speech.

Conclusion: On Speech Etiquette

Anyone can learn speech etiquette and present themselves with confidence. It takes practice to be good at something, especially public speaking. The next time you’re called to deliver a speech, follow these rules to speak for success. Good luck!

Speech On Good Manners [1-3 Minutes]

Are you looking for a guide to draft a speech on good manners? The good news for you is here below I have provided some engaging speeches on the same topic. You can take an idea on how to formulate an influential speech that is worth appreciation and recognition.

Speech on Good Manners | 1 Minute | 100 Words

Very First, I would like to thank you all for having me a chance to deliver this speech. And I wish you all greetings and best wishes.

Good manners will carry you where money won’t go. – Margaret walker

This is the quote that always inspired me to pursue good manners. But have you ever brainstormed about what good manners are? It is actually a set of good behaviours towards others. These good manners are taught to us by our parents and family members first and then by our school teachers.

The next question is -why do good manners hold so much weight in society? That is because Good Manners give shape to personality and behaviour oneself. In fact, Good manners are characteristics of a gentleman . Everyone should adopt good manners in life in order to make a distinct identity in society. Good manners bring us respect and appreciation in society.

My speech on good manners is done.

Thank you all

Speech on Good Manners | 2 Minutes | 150 Words

Before I get started I would like to wish you all greetings and good wishes. And I want to thank you all for having me this great opportunity to deliver a speech about good manners.

Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot. Clarence Thomas

This line is written by Clarence Thomas and I personally believe that it is true. All the successful people in the world possess extraordinary good manners that make their personalities very distinct from others. As we all know good manners decide the personality and behaviour of a person. This is why good manners hold intense significance in one’s life.

Everyone likes a person who shows good manners. Don’t you? It is human nature to like someone who treats everyone with love and respect. In fact, most people that are very famous and loved by all are because of having self-confidence and good manners.

Everyone must know the power of words in relation to good manners. Thank You “, “ Sorry “, “ Excuse Me “, “ Good Morning ” and “ Good Evening “. These words can make you liked and well-recognised in society. Using these words in daily life will shine your character and this will strengthen brotherhood and relations.

There is a lot to say but we should respect time as time is limited. So, I sum up this speech here.

Thank you all.

Speech on Good Manners | 3 Minutes | 250 Words

Good manners are the fundamental lesson taught to any child. A person with good manners is forever loved and cherished. These sorts of people hold a magnetic attraction in society. The quality of having good manners is the ladder to achieving success. So, Everyone must practise and follow good manners because they decide the character of a person.

How we can improve good manners to become gentle people? Good manners develop over time and we understand that observation has a higher weight than teaching. Kids use to observe and replicate the styles of people all around them. So, it is also vital for parents to adopt good manners rather than only training their kids about good manners.

Good manners assist us to enhance our personality and offer a good position in society. Plus, these practices render us a chance to be liked and loved by everyone. Whether at home, school , college or any area of the world we should always respect our elders irrespective of appearance, creed or caste. Apart from respect, always speak politely to everyone be it a kid, youth or senior.

Moreover, generosity and helpfulness are also features of a gentleman. These qualities cause a person to be a true human. Words leave a magical influence on human beings. So always use “ Thank You “, “ Sorry “, “ Excuse Me “, “ Good Morning ” and “ Good Evening “. Using these words in daily life will shine your character and this will strengthen brotherhood and relations.

You can use some quotations on good manners to make your writing project more personalised and unique.

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10 Tips for Improving Your Public Speaking Skills

Few are immune to the fear of public speaking. Marjorie North offers 10 tips for speakers to calm the nerves and deliverable memorable orations.

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Snakes? Fine. Flying? No problem. Public speaking? Yikes! Just thinking about public speaking — routinely described as one of the greatest (and most common) fears — can make your palms sweat. But there are many ways to tackle this anxiety and learn to deliver a memorable speech.

In part one of this series,  Mastering the Basics of Communication , I shared strategies to improve how you communicate. In part two, How to Communicate More Effectively in the Workplace , I examined how to apply these techniques as you interact with colleagues and supervisors in the workplace. For the third and final part of this series, I’m providing you with public speaking tips that will help reduce your anxiety, dispel myths, and improve your performance.

Here Are My 10 Tips for Public Speaking:

1. nervousness is normal. practice and prepare.

All people feel some physiological reactions like pounding hearts and trembling hands. Do not associate these feelings with the sense that you will perform poorly or make a fool of yourself. Some nerves are good. The adrenaline rush that makes you sweat also makes you more alert and ready to give your best performance.

The best way to overcome anxiety is to prepare, prepare, and prepare some more. Take the time to go over your notes several times. Once you have become comfortable with the material, practice — a lot. Videotape yourself, or get a friend to critique your performance.

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2. Know Your Audience. Your Speech Is About Them, Not You.

Before you begin to craft your message, consider who the message is intended for. Learn as much about your listeners as you can. This will help you determine your choice of words, level of information, organization pattern, and motivational statement.

3. Organize Your Material in the Most Effective Manner to Attain Your Purpose.

Create the framework for your speech. Write down the topic, general purpose, specific purpose, central idea, and main points. Make sure to grab the audience’s attention in the first 30 seconds.

4. Watch for Feedback and Adapt to It.

Keep the focus on the audience. Gauge their reactions, adjust your message, and stay flexible. Delivering a canned speech will guarantee that you lose the attention of or confuse even the most devoted listeners.

5. Let Your Personality Come Through.

Be yourself, don’t become a talking head — in any type of communication. You will establish better credibility if your personality shines through, and your audience will trust what you have to say if they can see you as a real person.

6. Use Humor, Tell Stories, and Use Effective Language.

Inject a funny anecdote in your presentation, and you will certainly grab your audience’s attention. Audiences generally like a personal touch in a speech. A story can provide that.

7. Don’t Read Unless You Have to. Work from an Outline.

Reading from a script or slide fractures the interpersonal connection. By maintaining eye contact with the audience, you keep the focus on yourself and your message. A brief outline can serve to jog your memory and keep you on task.

8. Use Your Voice and Hands Effectively. Omit Nervous Gestures.

Nonverbal communication carries most of the message. Good delivery does not call attention to itself, but instead conveys the speaker’s ideas clearly and without distraction.

9. Grab Attention at the Beginning, and Close with a Dynamic End.

Do you enjoy hearing a speech start with “Today I’m going to talk to you about X”? Most people don’t. Instead, use a startling statistic, an interesting anecdote, or concise quotation. Conclude your speech with a summary and a strong statement that your audience is sure to remember.

10. Use Audiovisual Aids Wisely.

Too many can break the direct connection to the audience, so use them sparingly. They should enhance or clarify your content, or capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

Practice Does Not Make Perfect

Good communication is never perfect, and nobody expects you to be perfect. However, putting in the requisite time to prepare will help you deliver a better speech. You may not be able to shake your nerves entirely, but you can learn to minimize them.

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North is a consultant for political candidates, physicians, and lawyers, and runs a private practice specializing in public speaking, and executive communication skills. Previously, she was the clinical director in the department of speech and language pathology and audiology at Northeastern University.

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Being polite means being aware of and respecting the feelings of other people.  We may not always notice politeness but we usually notice rudeness or inconsiderate behaviour.

This page takes a step back and covers some of the fundamentals of building and maintaining relationships with others.  We provide examples of the most common behaviours that are considered polite.

Politeness can and will improve your relationships with others, help to build respect and rapport, boost your self-esteem and confidence, and improve your communication skills.

Many of the points raised on this page may seem obvious (in most cases they are common-sense) but all too often social manners are overlooked or forgotten.  Take some time to read through the following points and think about how being polite and demonstrating good social etiquette can improve your relationships with others.

It is easy to recognise when people are rude or inconsiderate but often more difficult to recognise these traits in yourself. Think carefully about the impressions you leave on others and how you can easily avoid being considered ill-mannered or ignorant.

Politeness Guidelines

You can apply the following (where appropriate) to most interactions with others – friends, colleagues, family, customers, everybody!

Always use common sense and try to behave as appropriately as possible, taking into account any cultural differences.

Say hello to people – greet people appropriately, gain eye contact and smile naturally, shake hands or hug where appropriate but say hello, especially to colleagues and other people you see every day. Be approachable. Do not blank people just because you’re having a bad day.

Take time to make some small talk - perhaps mention the weather or ask about the other person’s family or talk about something that is in the news. Make an effort to engage in light conversation, show some interest, but don’t overdo it. Remain friendly and positive and pick up on the verbal and non-verbal signals from the other person.

Try to remember things about the other person and comment appropriately – use their spouse’s name, their birthday, any significant events that have occurred (or are about to occur) in their life.  Always be mindful of others’ problems and difficult life events.

Always use ‘please’ and ‘thank you’.   Make sure you thank people for their input or contribution and always include ‘please’ when asking for something. If somebody offers you something use ' Yes please ' or ' No thank you '.

Praise and/or congratulate others on their achievements.  Praise needs to be seen as genuine – this can be difficult if you feel jealous or angry.

At work be polite and helpful to your subordinates as well as your bosses.  Respect and acknowledge the positions, roles and duties of others.

Use appropriate language – be respectful of gender, race, religion, political viewpoints and other potentially controversial or difficult subjects.  Do not make derogatory or potentially inflammatory comments.

Learn to listen attentively - pay attention to others while they speak – do not get distracted mid-conversation and do not interrupt. (See our pages on Listening Skills for more.)

Respect other people's time.   Try to be precise and to-the-point in explanations without appearing to be rushed.

Be assertive when necessary but respect the right of others to be assertive too.  (See our pages on Assertiveness for more.)

Avoid gossip.  Try to have positive things to say about other people.

Apologise for your mistakes.  If you say or do something that may be considered rude or embarrassing then apologise, but don’t overdo your apologies. (See our page: Apologising | Saying Sorry )

Avoid jargon and vocabulary that may be difficult for others to understand – explain complex ideas or instructions carefully.  Do not appear arrogant.

Respect , and be prepared to listen to, the ideas and opinions of others.

Dress appropriately for the situation.  Avoid wearing revealing clothing in public and avoid staring at others who are wearing revealing clothing. Avoid being dressed too casually for the situation. (See our page: Personal Appearance )

Use humour carefully.   Aim not to cause any offence and know the boundaries of appropriate language for different situations. (See our page: Developing a Sense of Humour )

Practise good personal hygiene.   Wash and brush your teeth regularly, change your clothes and use deodorant. Avoid strong perfumes, after-shaves or colognes.

Be punctual.   If you have arranged to meet somebody at a certain time make sure you are on time, or even a few minutes early.  If you are going to be late let the other person/people know as far in advance as you can.  Do not rely on feeble or exaggerated excuses to explain lateness.  Respect other people’s time and don’t waste it. (See our page: Time Management for more information.)

Always practise good table manners. When eating around others avoid foods with strong odours, do not talk with your mouth full or chew with your mouth open, and eat quietly.

Do not pick your nose or ears, chew on your fingers or bite your fingernails in public. Also avoid playing excessively with your hair.

Good manners cost nothing but can make a big difference to how other people feel about you, or the organisation you are representing. When you’re polite and show good manners others are more likely to be polite and courteous in return.

You can improve your face-to-face or interpersonal relationships with others in many different ways – SkillsYouNeed has numerous pages providing in-depth advice and discussion on specific topics related to interpersonal skills.

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Public Speaking Etiquette - 10 Solid Ways to Get Yourself Noticed

Etiquette Expert and Modern Manners Authority; Owner, The Protocol School of Texas

Most people would rather have a root canal than stand up in front of a crowd and make a speech, even among their own peers. Yet, one of the most efficient and effective venues for getting yourself noticed is speaking to a group of people with a message that supports your knowledge, intelligence, and strengths. People will not only listen, but take note of your presentation skills. I often hear the remark, "You are so lucky, you don't have to worry about making a fool of yourself!" On the contrary, every speech is a prime opportunity to do something or say something that may come across as foolish. A joke may tank, a remark may be delivered incorrectly or you may fall on your face (and I have!). Over the years, I've learned how to minimize these risks by utilizing a few simple tools.

• Speak hands-free. Glancing down, relying on note cards is distracting. Put down your papers and speak directly to your audience, connecting with eye contact and engaging with a smile and strong knowledge. Don't worry about getting off course. No one will know you have skipped ahead of your presentation. Complete your thoughts and incorporate the material you missed into another segment of your speech.
• Avoid sputtering off too many statistics. One or two relevant statistics to support a comment is acceptable, but most participants would rather you speak their language than come across as a statistician. Share your own thoughts, experiences and insights on the topic.
• Get some rest. When your energy level is compromised, you may struggle to deliver a concise message. Make time to get enough sleep and steer clear of caffeine or alcohol the night before an early morning presentation.
• Inject humor. People enjoy seeing the presenter as a relatable human. Tell a story or a joke that you feel comfortable relaying. A good story captures the audience's attention. A joke can easily work against you if it appears as if you are trying too hard.
• Encourage Q and A's. If someone has a question, mention they are welcome to ask during the presentation. It's a great icebreaker and sets the stage for two way dialogue rather than a talking head in the front of the room. Let the audience know they are free to give their opinion or share a thought.
• Stay mindful of the sound of your own voice. Record yourself and listen carefully to how you sound under pressure. Taping yourself will indicate if you need to practice slowing down, speaking up, or articulating your words more clearly. Look out for "up speak," ending each sentence with a question mark rather than a period.
• Make sure your words mirror your facial expressions. If you are telling a serious story, or delivering bad news, a wide smile will not correspond with your message. On the other hand, if you are attempting to come across as light and breezy, a pensive furrow and a tight lipped smile sends a conflicting message. Practice your speech in the mirror to work out the body language kinks.
• Understand the power in a pause. A brief lapse of words can express thoughtful contemplation, or emphasize a particular point. It can also be used to let others know you are uncertain and thinking the answer through. If you are caught off guard, don't be afraid to say "I don't know, but I will find out and get back to you."
• Hire a professional to coach you. When I first started out, I hired a speech trainer that worked with me on my personal idiosyncrasies and nuances. She methodically taped me, critiqued me, and gave me honest feedback. I sharpened my presentation skills with each session and eventually found my natural voice. Years later I went on to do the same for others, and took over her clients when she retired. Study with the best and the results will be well worth the cost of training.
• Relax and have fun. Once you have mastered your speech, and practiced until you are pitch perfect, trust your own ability to deliver a message that is foolproof and inspirational.

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The importance of good manners

By Your Headspace Mindfulness & Meditation Experts

Good manners cost nothing. These are wise words that we probably remember being taught as children, and those who are now parents probably repeat to their own kids.

But while these gifts are free to give, the simple offerings of being polite and kind — like saying please and thank you, listening carefully, and making eye contact with people — can bring huge benefits to ourselves and those around us.

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Mindfulness your manners, how to teach kids good manners.

They can help us appear more confident, maintain more fulfilling personal relationships, lead to us prospering at work and generally enjoying happier and healthier lives.

But what we probably didn’t realize when we were being taught to be well-mannered as children — and perhaps those teaching it didn’t recognize either — is that when we were learning about good manners, we were often learning about mindfulness .

By living more mindfully, it can lead to us naturally having better manners and help us to live a more prosperous life — without spending a cent.

What are good manners?

By practicing basic good manners, we are showing those around us that we respect them and are considerate to their feelings. This makes them feel better, and us too.

Most of us have heard the old adage: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” This wisdom is so ingrained in our life lessons, it has become known as “the golden rule.”

Examples of good manners can manifest themselves in seemingly small actions and rewards — like holding the door open for someone and receiving a silent smile of recognition in return. But it can also make or break crucial relationships and be the difference between harmony and conflict at home, at work, or even between countries and cultures on the world stage.

Like any rule, there are some exceptions , and we must appreciate that others’ experiences, needs, and boundaries can be different from our own.

But it is a concept with solid and natural roots. And Kristen Monroe, director of the University of California Irvine Interdisciplinary Center for the Scientific Study of Ethics and Morality, says : "There is a lot of good, if emerging, scientific work suggesting people have an innate sense of fairness built into them and that the golden rule captures much of that innate moral sense. A lot of people instinctively follow it.”

So if that moral sense of respect and fairness is already built into us, let’s look at how to unlock it naturally to benefit ourselves and others around us.

Meditation can be a great training ground for mindfulness . We meditate to practice being more present in the moment and then develop the ability to use these skills in our day-to-day lives, and that is living mindfully.

Being more present is crucial when it comes to looking at how to get good manners. That could mean being focused on one thing — or person — without being lost in the thoughts in your head. If we are present when we meet someone, for example, we are more likely to remember their name, which is an admirable skill associated with well-mannered people.

Empathy is another of the most important building blocks of a healthy relationship and treating others with kindness. And being able to understand how someone else is feeling — and having a spirit of generosity — is an important component of how to improve manners.

Headspace co-founder and former Buddhist monk Andy Puddicombe says , “Empathy does not require that we have been through the same thing as another person, simply that we meet them where they are now.”

Meditation for compassion — or loving kindness meditation — can help to nurture and release our natural empathy. This meditation encourages us to direct good will first onto ourselves, and then to others. The more we practice this meditation, the more we can let go of judgment and hostility, and apply this kindness to our everyday interactions.

Researchers from Emory University discovered that compassion meditation could improve our ability to empathize with those around us and to activate the areas of the brain associated with compassion.

And an important way to make those around you feel happy, positive, and at ease is to embrace that state of mind yourself. Headspace offers guided meditations to help us change our relationship with the thoughts that can sometimes cloud our happiness and reconnect with our underlying sense of contentment; it includes a 10-day happiness course. A study published in the Journal of Happiness Studies found 10 days of Headspace increased happiness by 16%.

Another example of where we can be more present in our lives — and where a lot of our life lessons on social etiquette are taught from an early age — is having good table manners.

Mindful eating encourages us to remove distractions and sit uninterrupted with our food and fellow diners. This encourages a healthier relationship with our food and with those eating with us.

The dinner table is often one of the key places we discuss manners with our children – but we also know there are many other elements to encouraging good manners for kids.

Headspace offers specific meditation for kids that can help nurture a kind, focused, and calm young mind. Headspace for Kids splits its content into three age groups: 5 and under, 6-8 and 9-12 and features collaborations with Sesame Street to teach kids about mindfulness.

Among the specific themes are helping children to be calm with simple breathing exercises, using their imagination to practice a relaxed, precise kind of focus, and encouraging kindness using visualization exercises to teach children about openness and generosity.

Headspace founder Andy says, “It’s almost as though meditation was designed for kids. They just get it – there is this elasticity and freedom in their minds which allows them to be present in the moment and free from any external thoughts or pressures.”

“By introducing meditation and mindfulness at an early age, not only can we build on this and help nurture their mind development, but we are also making meditation simple and accessible.”

And, of course, a good first step in showing kids the importance of good manners is to be a positive role model with our own behavior. Mindful parenting involves being fully present with our children, free from distractions and judgment, and with a soft and open mind.

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How to Have Good Manners

Last Updated: August 5, 2023 Approved

This article was co-authored by Tami Claytor and by wikiHow staff writer, Hunter Rising . Tami Claytor is an Etiquette Coach, Image Consultant, and the Owner of Always Appropriate Image and Etiquette Consulting in New York, New York. With over 20 years of experience, Tami specializes in teaching etiquette classes to individuals, students, companies, and community organizations. Tami has spent decades studying cultures through her extensive travels across five continents and has created cultural diversity workshops to promote social justice and cross-cultural awareness. She holds a BA in Economics with a concentration in International Relations from Clark University. Tami studied at the Ophelia DeVore School of Charm and the Fashion Institute of Technology, where she earned her Image Consultant Certification. There are 15 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. wikiHow marks an article as reader-approved once it receives enough positive feedback. This article received 35 testimonials and 93% of readers who voted found it helpful, earning it our reader-approved status. This article has been viewed 2,310,164 times.

Good manners are an important thing to have since it shows that you’re courteous to other people. Having good social etiquette can help you develop better relationships and make you more enjoyable to be around. If you’re having a meal with others, then make sure you use good manners while you’re eating to show that you’re respectful. You should maintain etiquette while you’re online so you don’t offend or overshare with others.

Having Good Conversational Etiquette

• For example, you may say, “Can you please hand me that book?” Once they hand you the book, say, “Thank you.”
• Say “thank you” whenever someone helps you in a small way, such as a person ringing you up at a store or a person taking your order at a restaurant.
• If someone says “thank you” to you, respond with “you’re welcome” to stay polite.

• For example, you can say, “Hi, my name is James. What’s yours?”
• Different cultures and countries have different manners when it comes to introductions, so make sure you’re familiar with the etiquette where you are.
• If you’re with another person and you run into somebody you know, be sure to introduce them to one another if they haven’t met before. For example, you may say, “Hi John, this is Melissa. Melissa, this is John.”

• If you and another person start talking at the same time, stop and ask them to continue to show that you care about what they have to say.

• For example, you may use the words “dang” or “darn” in place of harsher curse words.
• You may also find more descriptive adjectives in place of bad words. For example, instead of saying something is “f***ing great,” you may say it was “amazing” instead.

Tip: Keep a rubber band or bracelet on your wrist and snap it on your skin whenever you catch yourself swearing or thinking about swearing. That way, you’ll associate swearing with hurting and you’ll do it less.

Showing Respect to Others

• For example, you can approach the person and say, “Would you like any help carrying that?”
• Sometimes you may not need to ask to help someone. For example, you can hold a door open for someone who’s coming in behind you or you may offer your seat on a bus to someone who needs to sit down.

• If you accidentally bump into someone, say something like, “Excuse me, I’m sorry.”

• Don’t make someone else’s success about you. For example, if someone won a game against you, don’t say, “It’s only because I made some bad plays.” Instead, say something like, “You did a great job. You had a really good strategy.”

• For example, you may write, “Dear Jane, Thank you for the journal you got me for my birthday. I can’t wait to write in it and keep it with me every day. I really appreciate it! Best, John.”
• For example, rather than asking where somebody is from because their face looks different from yours, show your interest in their life and personality by asking about their profession, hobbies or similar things.
• Rather than complimenting the looks of somebody you do not know well, compliment their choice of clothes.

Practicing Table Manners

• If you need to respond to a text or take a phone call, excuse yourself from the table first by saying something like, “Excuse me, I need to take this. I’ll be right back.”

• This goes for eating at home or at a restaurant.

• Be sure to use the proper silverware for your meal. If you have multiple knives and forks, use the outermost ones first before using the others for additional courses.

• Cut your food into smaller pieces so your mouth isn’t too full and so you can chew your food easier.

• For example, you may say, “Julia, could you please pass me the butter?”
• If there’s no room on the table in front of you to put the item down, ask the person if they could put it back for you. For example, you may say, “Can you please set the bowl back down for me? Thank you.”

Tip: Different cultures may have different etiquette when it comes to keeping your elbows on the table. Research the manners of the area you’re in to double-check what’s considered proper.

• If you aren’t able to get the food out of your teeth within a few seconds, excuse yourself from the table so you can go to the bathroom.

• For example, you may say, “Excuse me, I’ll be right back,” when you get up from the table.

Being Respectful Online

• Try writing out angry or negative posts in a different document rather than on social media sites. That way, you can come back to them later and determine if it’s something you really need to post.
• Talk directly to people rather than posting an angry or offensive status about them. That way, you can work through the problem privately so you don’t post anything publicly.

Tip: Many jobs and schools look at social media accounts when they’re looking at prospective hires and students, so don’t post anything that could affect their decisions.

• Tagged photos usually show up prominently on someone’s social media account, so other people could see the photo and judge the person you tagged for it.
• Think about if you would want your friend to post a picture of you in a similar situation. If you wouldn’t want the picture of you posted online, then chances are your friend wouldn’t want the photo posted either.

• Social media sites like Twitter are more acceptable for posting multiple times throughout the day as opposed to sites like Facebook or Linkedin.
• Never post personal information like addresses, phone numbers, or passwords online since you could get hacked or scammed.

• For example, “PLEASE READ MY NEW POST!” reads much more aggressive than, “Please read my new post!”

• Check your social media settings so you can limit who sends you things if you’re worried about receiving unsolicited messages.

Expert Q&A

• Treat other people how you want to be treated so you stay respectful and friendly. Thanks Helpful 3 Not Helpful 0
• Read etiquette guides or books to learn more about how to behave properly in various social settings. Thanks Helpful 2 Not Helpful 0

Tips from our Readers

• Whenever you ask someone a favor, always start the request with “please” and end with “thank you.” This frames it as an appeal rather than a demand.
• Listen fully when others speak without interrupting. Let them finish, then respond to show you truly heard them. This basic courtesy builds trust.
• If excusing yourself from a meal for any reason, say "Excuse me” and push your chair in as you stand. This simple courtesy shows respect.
• When congratulating someone’s achievement, keep the focus on them rather than comparing to yourself. Recognition should uplift others.
• Before posting anything online, pause and read it as if someone else wrote it. If it seems negative or offensive, reword or don't post.
• Hold doors open for others when possible, allow others to exit elevators first, etc. Small courtesies make a big impression.

• Different countries have different manners and etiquette, so be sure to check what’s rude or acceptable in your area. Thanks Helpful 30 Not Helpful 2
• Never post personal information online. Thanks Helpful 27 Not Helpful 4

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Essay on Importance of Good Manners

How a person behaves towards the other can be termed ‘manner’. Manners play an important part in everyone’s life. Someone’s manners can tell us so many things about that person, like their background, their education etc. But ‘Manner’ is a general term, that is to say, it does not necessarily mean that manners are always good, though they always should be good, if not cultivated properly they can be bad, which is generally termed as ‘bad – Manners’. And therefore, manners, that is to say, ‘Good Manners’ are cultivated in every child from childhood.

The learning of manners starts from the home since parents are the first teacher of the child, the parents also become the first to teach manners to the child. But one thing to understand here is that the mind of a human is receptive, and hence we, the human, receive or rather learn and grasp so many things that happen in our surroundings. And this surrounding also up to an extent plays a role in the cultivation of manners in the child.

Hence, good surroundings cultivate good manners and vice-versa.

Afterwards, the parents and the surrounding school and teachers play an important part in teaching good manners to the students. For instance, the students must greet the teacher good morning, or good afternoon (according to the time) whenever the teacher enters the classroom, also the use of phrases such as “may I come in” and “may I go” are taught to be used in the school. And these phrases remain with the students for the rest of their life.

Understanding Good Manners

The one thing to understand here is that good manners are not formalities, neither are they social protocol or the rules, which one has to follow to avoid the fine. But it is something that comes from the inside most naturally and by itself, it is something that should not be forced or faked. The way in which we want others to behave with us is also how they want us to behave to them, it can be the simplest way to understand good manners.

People with good manners are liked by everyone, while on the other hand, those who do not possess good manners are more often than not despised by others. It does not matter how wealthy one is, how well educated one is, or how great marks one managed to score, if the person does not possess good manners people are not going to admire him. But if the person knows how to act and behave with others, then everyone likes that person. Also, good manners turn into good nature, and a person who has a good nature is liked by everyone.

Writing an Essay on the Importance of Good Manners

As discussed, good manners are important in life, writing about the same helps it in a better manner. And hence students are required to write an essay on the importance of good manners. Because for writing an essay students have to think about it, and therefore it also in a way allows the students to check their manners.

But one thing is also important which is, essay writing should be good, and hence Vedantu provides the essay on the “importance of good manners” for free to guide the students in writing the same.

From our childhood, good manners have been cultivated as a major part of every being's life. Being a human it plays an important role in every one day to day life. Our parents nurtured us since our childhood with good mannerism, good behavior and discipline. These three features are a vital part of good manners. Manners either its bad or good can't be imposed to the child, some basically inherited from their parents and other social mannerism etiquettes will be taught by parents itself at home first, since a home is the first school of any child to start its learning process where parents both mother and father plays an important role in developing good social etiquette or good manners to enhance the child’s upbringing in a good shape. 

Good manners has its own definition. If a person needs to be liked by someone then he or she needs to act like a good person with good behavior or manners. No matter what level of studies you did, either highly qualified or simply 10th passed out doesn’t make a difference if a person knows how to act or behave in front of others. 

Respect and courtesy are the major assets in developing good manners. One should be polite and courteous to others, even while communicating we need to be kind, calm and patient enough to listen to others, which means he or she should be a good listener. These qualities even makes life problems more simple and makes the person think more broadly.   

Types of Good Manners:  

Here are some specific mentioned good manners which helps a person in enhancing

Speak politely to others

Say thank you always wherever needed in conversation.

Open doors for others.

 Maintain eye contact while shaking hands. 

Stand up while elders enter the room. 

Polite phone manners.

Serve people when any guest enters your home. 

Highlights of Good Manners

Good manners can differentiate between in two aspects that is one in school and other at-home itself.

At Home: Home is the first place where child traits develop from, the parent is the first teacher who makes them (child) understand the differences between good and bad manners. Keeping in mind future aspects, a child needs to develop traits as polite, calm, and patient. Since childhood, we have taught of maintaining hygiene habit after having lunch or dinner, while eating or drinking not to make bad sound, say THANKYOU and SORRY are the important words to use while making in conversation, keeping own belonging in exact place after taking out from the place, brushing off teeth and bath daily, do not disturb others while working something important task, always take permission for picking up thing while visiting any neighbor place, always mention PLEASE word for requesting or asking for something and so on.

There are various add on traits which give support in child mannerism to act as disciplined and good nature human beings. These are basic traits and habits which a child develops from childhood by learning and observing the parents. 

At School: School manners consist of some different patterns of ethics that need to be followed by the child. Respecting teachers is the most important quality of good manners, here (School) environment also develops hygiene habits as such maintain a distance of put hands while sneezing or coughing, to carry a handkerchief, washing off hands after having lunch, always asks permission to the teacher for going to washrooms, daily completion of homework, maintain focus in class, talk politely to classmates and obey class monitor or teachers instructions, not to push children while standing in a queue. These are some major qualities that help children in enhancing good manners in all aspects.

Good Manners vs Discipline

There is a thin line between these two words which makes a big difference, generally, we cannot identify these differences. Good manners is completely associated with a  person's act or behavior such as politeness, patience, good listener, courtesy, helping nature and so on are some of the traits that signify good manners. Whereas Discipline describes a person's own set of rules and standards which he/ she follows throughout their life for example if a person is a smoker but here his discipline says not to smoke in front of parents or any elders this follows as same by any means. 

FAQs on English Essay for Students – Importance of good manners

1. What is Good Manners? 

Good manners are expressed by our behavior and implemented on others. Being polite and courteous is good manners. The cultured and well-mannered person was always demanded in the society and appreciated by all. And the person who doesn’t know how to behave and act to others will not be liked by anyone and he or she loses its respect. This quality (good manners) has been developed since childhood to take firm roots. 

2. What are the Advantages of Good Manners? 

Good manners make a person civilized to live in society, it maintains peaceful relations among people and builds up social relations between person to person.

3. What Types of Good Manners Child Learns in School? 

To say PLEASE

Say EXCUSE ME

Always keep a good smile on your face while talking. 

Maintain eye contact while asking any question to the teacher 

Shows respect to others.

Always encourage classmates in any difficult task performance. 

Helping classmates. 

Building up communication with others and classmates as well. 

 4. What are the basic behaviors which are regarded as good manners?

There is much such behavior, below given are some of them.

Greeting others good night, good day, good morning etc, according to the time.

Thanking others when someone helps us.

Saying phrases like “you are most welcome” or “mention not” when someone thanks us after receiving our help.

Serving the guests at home.

Maintaining eye contact when someone is talking with us.

Behaving politely and respectfully on the phone.

Always be polite and humble to others.

The list is endless, but the first and foremost thing is that it has to come from the inside by itself.

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10 Paragraphs: Good Manners

Understanding and practicing good manners is an essential aspect of interpersonal communication and social interaction. Good manners reflect our respect, consideration, and empathy towards others, and they play a crucial role in creating a harmonious and pleasant environment. When it comes to writing a paragraph on good manners, it provides an opportunity to explore the importance of courteous behavior, etiquette, and the positive impact it can have on our relationships and society as a whole. 

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Tips On Writing A Paragraph On Good Manners

Define good manners: Begin by providing a concise definition of good manners. Explain that good manners are a set of social behaviors and etiquettes that reflect respect, consideration, and politeness towards others. Emphasize that good manners are not merely a set of rules, but a genuine display of kindness, empathy, and cultural awareness.

Highlight the importance: Discuss the significance of good manners in our daily lives. Explain how practicing good manners fosters positive relationships, enhances communication, and creates a harmonious environment. Mention that good manners promote empathy, tolerance, and understanding, allowing individuals to navigate social interactions with grace and respect.

Discuss key elements: Identify and elaborate on key elements of good manners. These may include behaviors such as saying “please” and “thank you,” using polite language, offering assistance, practicing active listening, being punctual, respecting personal space, and showing appreciation for others. Illustrate these elements with real-life examples to make the paragraph more relatable and impactful.

Address cultural and situational contexts: Acknowledge that good manners can vary across different cultures and situations. Explain the importance of being aware and respectful of cultural norms and customs when interacting with individuals from diverse backgrounds. Additionally, highlight the adaptability of good manners in different contexts, such as formal settings, social gatherings, and digital communication.

Emphasize positive outcomes: Conclude the paragraph by emphasizing the positive outcomes of practicing good manners. Discuss how good manners contribute to building trust, fostering healthy relationships, and creating a positive social atmosphere. Explain that good manners promote empathy, reduce conflict, and enhance overall well-being, both for individuals and society as a whole.

Paragraph 1

Good manners are the cornerstone of positive social interactions. They encompass behaviors and etiquettes that reflect respect, consideration, and politeness towards others. Simple acts like saying “please” and “thank you,” holding the door for someone, or offering a warm smile can make a significant difference in creating a harmonious environment. Good manners demonstrate our values and character, enhancing communication, fostering empathy, and building strong and meaningful relationships.

Paragraph 2

Practicing good manners is not just about following a set of rules; it is a genuine display of kindness and empathy towards others. It involves actively listening to others, showing respect for their ideas and opinions, and refraining from interrupting or speaking over them. Good manners also include giving others the space to express themselves, being patient and understanding, and treating everyone with dignity and courtesy, regardless of their background or social status.

Paragraph 3

Good manners extend beyond face-to-face interactions and also apply to our digital communication. In this era of technology, it is important to be mindful of our online behavior. Using polite language, refraining from offensive or disrespectful comments, and practicing digital etiquette, such as responding promptly to messages, are all part of exhibiting good manners in the virtual world. Being respectful and considerate online helps build trust and fosters a positive online community.

Paragraph 4

Good manners play a crucial role in formal settings, such as the workplace or educational institutions. They include arriving on time for meetings or classes, being attentive and engaged, and respecting the opinions and contributions of others. Good manners also involve professional communication, such as using appropriate language, maintaining a polite tone, and expressing gratitude towards colleagues and superiors. Demonstrating good manners in professional settings can enhance productivity, teamwork, and overall job satisfaction.

Paragraph 5

Cultural awareness is an essential aspect of good manners. Different cultures may have varying customs and social norms, and being respectful and sensitive to these differences is crucial. Good manners involve educating ourselves about different cultures, traditions, and practices, and adapting our behavior accordingly. This includes understanding appropriate greetings, gestures, and customs when interacting with individuals from diverse backgrounds and showing appreciation for their cultural heritage.

Paragraph 6

Good table manners are a significant aspect of demonstrating respect and consideration during meals. They include using utensils correctly, chewing with your mouth closed, not talking with food in your mouth, and waiting for everyone to be served before starting to eat. Good table manners create a pleasant dining experience, foster a sense of unity, and show respect for the efforts of those who have prepared the meal.

Paragraph 7

Practicing good manners also involves being mindful of personal space and boundaries. Respecting someone’s personal space means maintaining an appropriate physical distance and refraining from touching others without consent. It is important to be aware of cultural differences in personal space preferences and to always prioritize the comfort and well-being of others.

Paragraph 8

Being a good listener is an integral part of good manners. It means giving our full attention to the person speaking, maintaining eye contact, and refraining from distractions such as using our phones. Actively listening allows us to understand others’ perspectives, show empathy, and respond thoughtfully. It is a sign of respect and consideration for the thoughts and feelings of others.

Paragraph 9

Good manners also involve showing appreciation and gratitude towards others. Saying “thank you” when someone does something kind or helpful, expressing gratitude for a gift or gesture, and acknowledging the efforts of others are all essential components of good manners. Gratitude not only strengthens relationships but also cultivates a positive outlook and fosters a sense of well-being.

Paragraph 10

In conclusion, good manners serve as a foundation for positive social interactions and contribute to a harmonious and respectful society. They involve behaviors such as being polite, respectful, and considerate towards others, both in person and online. Good manners transcend cultural boundaries, adapt to different contexts, and enhance communication and relationships. By practicing good manners, we show empathy, build trust, and create a positive and inclusive environment for everyone.

About Mr. Greg

Mr. Greg is an English teacher from Edinburgh, Scotland, currently based in Hong Kong. He has over 5 years teaching experience and recently completed his PGCE at the University of Essex Online. In 2013, he graduated from Edinburgh Napier University with a BEng(Hons) in Computing, with a focus on social media.

Mr. Greg’s English Cloud was created in 2020 during the pandemic, aiming to provide students and parents with resources to help facilitate their learning at home.

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Importance of Good Manners Essay for Students and Children

500+ words essay on importance of good manners.

Man is the most intelligent creation of God on the earth as he lives in society. Also, he has the capacity to think, talk and act accordingly. So, he must know how to behave well and perform good manners. Parents must teach their kids about their behavior with family members, neighbors, friends, teachers, etc. Some people behave well with sweet words only in front and not behind. This is not a good manner. Good manners are very essential in life as they help us to behave well in society. Good manners help us to win the heart of people in the public place. Therefore, one can create a unique personality due to good manners.

What are Good Manners?

A person with good manners shows respects towards feelings and sentiments of others living in the surroundings. He/she never differentiates people and shows equal regard to everyone. Modesty, humbleness, kindness, and courtesy are the essential traits of a well-behaving person. Hence, a well-behaved person never feels proud or arrogant and always take care of the feelings of others. Practicing good manners and following them all through the day will definitely bring sunshine and add qualities to life.

Must have Good Manners

Though traits within good manners are uncountable, some traits are a must. These good manners are necessary for all. Some of such good manners which we can practice in our daily life are like:

• We must learn the habit of sharing things to others.
• We should be helpful, polite and humble to others in every possible way.
• We must use the words ‘sorry’, ‘please’, ‘thank you’, ‘excuse me’ and ‘time wish’ as and when required.
• We must respect the other’s property and always take permission before using.
• We must be responsible as well as self-dependent for everything at every place.
• We must behave in a good way with humble respect to our teachers, parents, other elders and senior citizens.
• We should always maintain cleanliness at home, school, and all other public places.
• We should not use any offensive or abusive language to others at home or any other place.
• We must give the seat for senior citizens while using public transport.

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Importance of Good Manners in our Life

Good manners are very important in our daily life. Importance of these in life is the well-known facts. Good manner creates an effective interaction with friends as well as make a good impression on a public platform. It helps us to be positive throughout the day. Therefore, parents must help their kids to inculcate all possible good manners in their habit.

Good manners always give the opportunity for a new conversation with people and hence the ultimate success in life. If someone talks to you badly, then still don’t talk him in the same way. Always talk him in your own positive way of behaving to give him the chance to change.

Good manners are vital to each and everyone in the society. These will definitely help us for getting popularity and success in life because nobody likes mischief and misbehaved person. Good manners are like a tonic to the people living in society.

People with polite and pleasant nature are always popular and respectable by a large number of people. Obviously, such people are having magnetic influence over others. Thus, we must practice and follow good manners in our life always.

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English Etiquette

A history of English etiquette and good manners

Ben Johnson

Whilst the English penchant for manners and socially appropriate behaviour is renowned across the world, the word etiquette to which we so often refer actually originates from the French estiquette – “to attach or stick”. Indeed the modern understanding of the word can be linked to the Court of the French King Louis XIV, who used small placards called etiquettes , as a reminder to courtiers of accepted ‘house rules’ such as not walking through certain areas of the palace gardens.

Every culture across the ages has been defined by the concept of etiquette and accepted social interaction. However, it is the British – and the English in particular – who have historically been known to place a great deal of importance in good manners. Whether it be in relation to speech, timeliness, body language or dining, politeness is key.

British etiquette dictates courteousness at all times, which means forming an orderly queue in a shop or for public transport, saying excuse me when someone is blocking your way and saying please and thank you for any service you have received is de rigueur.

The British reputation for being reserved is not without merit. Overfamiliarity of personal space or behaviour is a big no-no! When meeting someone for the first time a handshake is always preferable to a hug and a kiss on the cheek is reserved for close friends only. Asking personal questions about salary, relationship status, weight or age (particularly in the case of more ‘mature’ ladies) is also frowned upon.

Traditionally, one of the best examples of the British etiquette is the importance placed on punctuality. It is considered rude to arrive late to a business meeting, medical appointment or formal social occasion such as a wedding. As such it is advisable to arrive 5-10 minutes early to appear professional, prepared and unflustered as a mark of respect to your host. Conversely, should you arrive too early to a dinner party this could also appear slightly rude and ruin the atmosphere for the evening if the host is still completing their preparations. For the same reason an unannounced house call is often frowned upon for risk of inconveniencing the home owner.

Should you be invited to a British dinner party it is customary for a dinner guest to bring a gift for the host or hostess, such as a bottle of wine, a bouquet of flowers or chocolates. Good table manners are essential (particularly if you want to be invited back!) and unless you are attending a barbeque or an informal buffet it is frowned upon to use fingers rather than cutlery to eat. The cutlery should also be held correctly, i.e. the knife in the right hand and the fork in the left hand with the prongs pointing downwards and the food pushed onto the back of the fork with the knife rather than ‘scooped’. At a formal dinner party when there are numerous utensils at your place setting it is customary to begin with the utensils on the outside and work your way inward with each course.

As the guest it is polite to wait until everyone at the table has been served and your host starts eating or indicates that you should do so. Once the meal has begun it is impolite to reach over someone else’s plate for an item such as seasoning or a food platter; it is more considerate to ask for the item to be passed to you. Leaning your elbows on the table whilst you are eating is also considered rude.

Slurping or making other such loud noises whilst eating is completely frowned upon. As with yawning or coughing it is also considered very rude to chew open-mouthed or talk when there is still food in your mouth. These actions imply that a person was not brought up to adhere to good manners, a criticism against not only the offender but their family too!

Social classes

Rules of etiquette are usually unwritten and passed down from generation to generation, although in days gone by it was common for young ladies to attend a finishing school to ensure their manners were up to scratch. An attribute which was felt particularly crucial in securing a suitable husband!

Whilst today good manners and etiquette are seen as a sign of respect, particularly to those more senior (in either age or position), in Victorian England when the class system was alive and well, etiquette was often used as a social weapon in the interests of social advancement or exclusion.

The evolution of etiquette

More recently, a rise in multiculturalism, a changing economy and the introduction of social and gender specific equality laws have all played a part in Britain moving away from its rigid class system of old and therefore a more informal attitude to social etiquette has arisen. However, today – like the rest of the world – Britain has been influenced by the importance of corporate etiquette, with a shift in focus from the social or household setting to an emphasis on business etiquette and protocol. With the whole concept of etiquette being dependent on culture, for a business to succeed internationally it is important to be aware that what is considered good manners in one society may be rude to another. For instance the “okay” gesture – made by connecting the thumb and forefinger in a circle and holding the other fingers straight, is recognised in Britain and North America as a signal to question or confirm that a person is well or safe. However in parts of southern Europe and South America this is an offensive gesture.

Thus the etiquette of business has become a set of written and unwritten rules of conduct that make social interactions run more smoothly, whether during interaction with a co-worker or contact with external or international colleagues.

Indeed, the rise in online business and social media sites has even seen the creation of a worldwide ‘online society’, necessitating its own rules of conduct, commonly referred to as Netiquette, or network etiquette. These rules regarding the protocol for such communications as email, forums and blogs are constantly being redefined as the internet continues to evolve. So whilst the traditionally accepted behaviours of old may not have the influence they once did, it could be argued that etiquette is as crucial in today’s far-reaching society as it has ever been.

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22 Simple Manners All Kids Should Know

Need a proper etiquette refresher? Helping your child master this list of good manners will get them noticed—for all the right reasons.

Your child's bad manners aren't always intentional. Sometimes kids don't realize it's impolite to interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe something about a stranger's appearance. They might also simply need an etiquette reminder or help managing their impulses.

What's a busy parent to do? Focus on teaching these 22 good manners to your little one—preferably before they turn 9 years old. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says it's also important to model this good behavior to your child, who learns by watching everyone around them.

Instilling Good Manners in Kids

When teaching good manners, give clear explantations using age-appropriate language, and offer consistent reminders. Don't forget to mimic the manners in your everyday life too!

Important Manners That Kids Should Know

Proper etiquette doesn't always come instinctually to kids. By instilling these good manners, you'll end up with a thoughtful and polite child who gets recognized for the right reasons!

Say 'Please'

Teach your child that it's polite to say "please" when asking for something. You can model this good behavior by saying "please" when you make a request of your child. For example, "Please pick up your toys before turning on the TV."

Say 'Thank You'

Likewise, when receiving something—whether it's a physical thing or an intangible one, like help or a compliment—your kids should express gratitude by saying "thank you." Again, modeling these good manners will go a long way. When your child picks up their toys, enthusiastically thank them for being a big helper.

Wait Your Turn

Learning to take turns in conversation, without interruption, can be difficult for young children. Develop this skill by explaining why taking turns is important: It allows everyone to be heard equally. Also, kids should understand that sometimes it's OK to interrupt adults, like when there's an emergency. Otherwise, they should wait for a pause in the conversation before interjecting.

Say 'Excuse Me'

Sometimes your child will need to interrupt you. They might have a bathroom emergency, for example, or their sibling fell and got hurt. In these cases, the phrase "excuse me" is the most polite way to enter the conversation.

Ask Permission

Teach your child to ask permission when they have any doubt about doing something. You may also have standing rules about situations that require permission, like answering the door, downloading an app , or making a purchase. These manners can save you from many hours of grief later!

Don't Remark on Appearance

Kids tend to be masters of blurting out inappropriate comments and observations. They're not trying to be mean; they just haven't developed the social skills to avoid saying what they think. Curb uncomfortable moments by instilling one fundamental rule: Do not comment on other people's physical characteristics.

Reciprocate Greetings

Explain to your child how customary greetings work. For example, when someone asks how you are, give your response, and then reciprocate by asking how they are.

Express Gratitude

Teach your kid when to express gratitude to others. For example, after spending time at their friend's house, they should thank their friend and their friends' parents for having them over. They'll be impressed by your child's good manners!

Knock on Closed Doors

Doors are for privacy, so if a door is closed, your child should knock before entering. But it's not enough to knock and barge right in! Rather, the next step is waiting to see if there's a response, then get permission before entering.

Introduce Yourself

Phone etiquette is also important for kids. Teach them to introduce themselves after placing a call, then ask to speak with the person they're trying to reach.

Send Thank-You Cards

If your child receives a gift, tell them it's important to be appreciative and say "thank you." A lost art that younger kids might enjoy is making a thank-you card (or if they don't prefer artistic expression , sending a thank-you email).

Don't Use Foul Language

Uh oh, has your kid picked up on some colorful language? Don't worry; it happens to the best of us. Teach kids not to use foul or impolite language by cleaning up your own words. From there, explain that everyone tolerates cuss words differently, so to be respectful, it's best not to use them in public.

Don't Call Names

You've probably have heard the adage, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me," but we all know that's not true. Most kids can recall a time when mean names hurt their feelings. Draw on their empathy by explaining their words can also hurt their friends, and they should never call people mean names.

Don't Tease

Just like mean names, teasing can also lead to hurt feelings. Proper etiquette involves not making fun of anyone for any reason. Even though teasing might be done in jest, everyone has different sensitivity levels, and it can be cruel and deeply harm someone. To be a good friend, avoid teasing at all costs.

Say 'Pardon Me'

Sometimes we bump into people. It's fine if accidents happen, but your child should acknowledge their mistake by saying "pardon me."

Don't Spread Germs

Germs can spread through air or touch. When kids understand how to practice good hygiene , they decrease their chances of getting sick and avoid spreading illness to others—and that's a good manner in itself! Teach kids to wash their hands after using the bathroom, cover their mouth when they cough or sneeze, and avoid picking their nose.

Hold the Door

It's polite to hold the door for other people. The hope is that, whenever your child walks through a door, they'll look around to see if they can hold it open for someone else.

Offer to Help

Let your kids know that it's courteous to help people out, whether it's a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on a project. When they see someone struggling—perhaps a friend whose arms are overloaded with books—they should offer to give them a hand.

Do Tasks Without Grumbling

It's not always easy to do chores when you don't feel like it—even if you're an adult. But negativity can make matters worse, so even when your child feels grumpy about their tasks, they should try their best complete them without grumbling.

Use Eating Utensils Properly

One important table manner for kids is using eating utensils properly. Kids often learn this manner through observation, but sometimes, they have trouble incorporating the skills because they adapted their own way of holding forks and spoons when they didn't have the dexterity for big-kid table manners. It's never a bad idea to share a refresher on the proper etiquette!

Use a Napkin

Another key table manner is keeping a napkin handy on your lap. Your child can use it—instead of their sleeve—to wipe their mouth when necessary.

Pass Dishes at the Table

One last essential table manner to teach: Don't reach for things at the table. Instead, ask to have them passed. Passing dishes not only limits bumping elbows, but it also reduces the likelihood of spilling!

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2 Minute Speech On Good Manners In English

Good morning everyone present here, today I am going to give a speech on good manners. Parents teach good manners to their children so that they might begin to pick them up at an early age. They instruct kids on how to act around their neighbors, family, friends, and other nearby individuals. A person with good manners must possess a number of qualities, including modesty, humility, and kindness. One of the fundamental etiquettes that everyone learns from an early age is to shake hands with a smile and say “Namaste” to people.

One kind act is to respond to someone by saying “thank you.” We frequently use the words “sorry” and “pardon me” in daily life. In addition to all of this, proper manners include treating juniors and elders with love and respect. The traits of a well-mannered person also include asking permission before using anybody else’s property, giving older passengers a seat on public transportation, being modest and polite, and refraining from using vulgar or harsh language.

Good manners are always the key to making new contacts in life. Additionally, it makes life easier for us. A new conversation with others is made possible, and this is crucial for success in life. Good manners enable successful communication and fruitful debate. Positive attitudes improve the surroundings. It is essential for both the individual and society. However, it appears that the younger generation is losing sight of the value of manners on a daily basis. Thank you.

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Speech on Good Behaviour

Good behaviour is like a key that opens many doors. It’s about treating others the way you want to be treated.

Remember, your actions can influence how people perceive you. So, it’s important to always display good manners and respect.

1-minute Speech on Good Behaviour

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Good behaviour is like a key that opens many doors. It’s a quality that makes us better people. When we behave well, we show respect. We show respect to ourselves, to others, and to the world around us.

Think about a time when someone was kind to you. How did it make you feel? Happy, right? That’s the power of good behaviour. It spreads happiness. It makes people feel valued. It builds strong, healthy relationships. It’s like a magic wand that turns a frown into a smile.

But good behaviour isn’t just about being nice. It’s also about being responsible. It’s about doing what’s right, even when no one is watching. It’s about keeping your word and standing up for what you believe in. It’s about treating people fairly and equally, no matter who they are or where they come from.

Good behaviour is also about patience and understanding. It’s about listening to others, even when you don’t agree with them. It’s about being patient, even when things don’t go your way. It’s about understanding that everyone makes mistakes and that it’s okay to forgive.

In conclusion, good behaviour is a choice. It’s a choice we make every day. It’s a choice that shapes our lives and the lives of those around us. It’s a choice that can make the world a better place. So, let’s make the choice to behave well, not just today, but every day. Thank you.

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2-minute Speech on Good Behaviour

Today, we gather to talk about a very important topic, ‘Good Behaviour’. You might wonder, why is it so important? It’s simple. Good behaviour is the key to a happy and successful life. It’s like a magic key that opens all doors for us.

Let’s start with a simple idea. Good behaviour means being nice and kind to others. It means saying “please” and “thank you”. It means helping someone who needs it. It means not hurting others with words or actions. Even a small act of kindness can make a big difference. When we behave well, we make others happy. And when we make others happy, we feel good too.

Now, let’s think about something bigger. Good behaviour also means being honest and fair. It means telling the truth, even when it’s hard. It means playing by the rules, even when no one is watching. It means treating everyone the same, no matter who they are or where they come from. When we are honest and fair, we earn trust and respect. And trust and respect are very important for success in life.

Next, let’s talk about self-control. Good behaviour means being patient and calm, even when things go wrong. It means not losing our temper, even when we are angry. It means not giving up, even when things are tough. Self-control helps us make good choices. It helps us stay focused and reach our goals.

Lastly, good behaviour means taking care of our world. It means not littering or wasting resources. It means being kind to animals and plants. It means doing our part to protect our planet. When we take care of our world, our world takes care of us.

In conclusion, good behaviour is not just about being nice. It’s about being kind, honest, fair, patient, and responsible. It’s about making the world a better place. And the best part is, anyone can learn to behave well. It’s not about being perfect. It’s about trying our best, learning from our mistakes, and never giving up.

So, let’s all try to be a little kinder, a little more honest, a little more patient, and a little more responsible. Let’s all try to behave a little better. Because good behaviour is not just good for us, it’s good for everyone. Thank you.

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Miss Manners: If I invite others to dinner, do I have to foot the bill?

Dear Miss Manners: I have been slowly slogging through grad school — one course a semester — and after four long years, I’m finally going to graduate. I work in the industry I’m going to school for, and I’d like to invite some of my co-workers out to dinner to celebrate.

While I’d love to foot the bill for everyone, I’m not financially able to do so. How can I tactfully word the invitation so everyone knows I’m inviting them to dinner, not treating them to one? I don’t want anyone to be embarrassed due to assumptions or expectations.

Here is a lesson about the real world: If you cannot afford to do something, you cannot do it.

It is true that getting others to pay your bills has become a national sport, whether it is through gift registries, fundraising drives or by charging people you claim to entertain. The ruse of “come and honor me at your expense” is a common ploy. Miss Manners will not help you do that.

Why didn’t you ask, instead, how you could entertain your colleagues inexpensively? Perhaps you could treat them all to a toast in the office cafeteria, or in a bar after work. Or invite them to a weekend tea party. Or you could just bubble over about how happy you are to be graduating and to have a great job working with people you admire. Then perhaps someone might think of toasting you.

Dear Miss Manners: Should the bride and groom be shown the best man’s speech before the wedding? Or, if not them, someone else?

What makes you think the best man needs vetting? Oh, right — he is the bridegroom’s best friend, so it is not hard to guess his notion of what should be said. Miss Manners supposes that that is the problem. Perhaps that should have been considered before he was assigned the role.

But yes, the bridegroom can inquire, in the spirit of friendship, what his buddy is thinking of saying. He could even drop some remarks about the sensitivity of the crowd, and what topics should be avoided, however amusing. But in the end, he has to trust that his best man will do his best to please him.

Dear Miss Manners: Over the last few years, I have been introducing recently bereaved female relatives and friends as “the widow X.” I was surprised to learn that this offends some people, so thought I might vary the introduction with an occasional “the relict X.”

Which term do you think most women would prefer? In the case of a bereaved male, would the term “relicter” be appropriate? Thanks for any guidance you can offer.

Some guidance: Please stop annoying the bereaved by showing off your familiarity with defunct terms that identify them as leftovers.

Dear Miss Manners: Is there any way to politely back out of an invitation one has already accepted? I know this is done all too frequently for any reason, but there are some situations where something more important truly does come up. Is there a mannerly way to handle this?

Disease and death are excuses that any host should recognize as valid for canceling an invitation. “Something more important” is not.

New Miss Manners columns are posted Monday through Saturday on washingtonpost.com/advice . You can send questions to Miss Manners at her website, missmanners.com . You can also follow her @RealMissManners.

© 2024 Judith Martin

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Advice | Miss Manners: Should the bride be told what the best man is going to say?

Plus: apparently, widows are offended when i introduce them as widows.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : Should the bride and groom be shown the best man’s speech before the wedding? Or, if not them, someone else?

Oh, right — he is the bridegroom’s best friend, so it is not hard to guess his notion of what should be said. Miss Manners supposes that that is the problem. Perhaps that should have been considered before he was assigned the role.

But yes, the bridegroom can inquire, in the spirit of friendship, what his buddy is thinking of saying. He could even drop some remarks about the sensitivity of the crowd, and what topics should be avoided, however amusing.

But in the end, he has to trust that his best man will do his best to please him.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : Over the last few years, I have been introducing recently bereaved female relatives and friends as “the widow X.” I was surprised to learn that this offends some people, so thought I might vary the introduction with an occasional “the relict X.”

Which term do you think most women would prefer? In the case of a bereaved male, would the term “relicter” be appropriate? Thanks for any guidance you can offer.

GENTLE READER : Some guidance: Please stop annoying the bereaved by showing off your familiarity with defunct terms that identify them as leftovers.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : I have been slowly slogging through grad school — one course a semester — and after four long years, I’m finally going to graduate.

I work in the industry I’m going to school for, and I’d like to invite some of my co-workers out to dinner to celebrate. While I’d love to foot the bill for everyone, I’m not financially able to do so.

How can I tactfully word the invitation so everyone knows I’m inviting them to dinner, not treating them to one? I don’t want anyone to be embarrassed due to assumptions or expectations.

GENTLE READER : Here is a lesson about the real world: If you cannot afford to do something, you cannot do it.

It is true that getting others to pay your bills has become a national sport, whether it is through gift registries, fundraising drives or by charging people you claim to entertain. The ruse of “come and honor me at your expense” is a common ploy.

Miss Manners will not help you do that.

Why didn’t you ask, instead, how you could entertain your colleagues inexpensively? Perhaps you could treat them all to a toast in the office cafeteria, or in a bar after work. Or invite them to a weekend tea party.

Or you could just bubble over about how happy you are to be graduating and to have a great job working with people you admire. Then perhaps someone might think of toasting you.

I know this is done all too frequently for any reason, but there are some situations where something more important truly does come up. Is there a mannerly way to handle this?

GENTLE READER : Disease and death are excuses that any host should recognize as valid for canceling an invitation. “Something more important” is not.

Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, [email protected]; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.

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Miss Manners: Can bride, groom ask to see a rough draft of best man’s speech prior to event?

• Published: Apr. 22, 2024, 9:47 a.m.

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DEAR MISS MANNERS: Should the bride and groom be shown the best man’s speech before the wedding? Or, if not them, someone else?

GENTLE READER: What makes you think the best man needs vetting?

Oh, right -- he is the bridegroom’s best friend, so it is not hard to guess his notion of what should be said. Miss Manners supposes that that is the problem. Perhaps that should have been considered before he was assigned the role.

But yes, the bridegroom can inquire, in the spirit of friendship, what his buddy is thinking of saying. He could even drop some remarks about the sensitivity of the crowd, and what topics should be avoided, however amusing.

But in the end, he has to trust that his best man will do his best to please him.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Over the last few years, I have been introducing recently bereaved female relatives and friends as “the widow X.” I was surprised to learn that this offends some people, so thought I might vary the introduction with an occasional “the relict X.”

Which term do you think most women would prefer? In the case of a bereaved male, would the term “relicter” be appropriate? Thanks for any guidance you can offer.

GENTLE READER: Some guidance: Please stop annoying the bereaved by showing off your familiarity with defunct terms that identify them as leftovers.

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Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com ; to her email, [email protected] ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.

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Not a good look, USC: Cancel culture comes for colleges as graduation season begins

Higher education leaders should not make an unsettling time an excuse to censor perfectly fine speech just because they fear a difficult situation..

Things are not well on America’s college campuses. The disgusting antisemitism that seems only to be building – and campus administrators’ lackluster response – has led to some truly frightening displays .

Violence and rule-breaking behavior must not be tolerated. Period. 

Yet, higher education leaders cannot make an unsettling time an excuse to censor perfectly fine speech just because they fear a difficult situation.

That’s what happened at the University of Southern California when the Los Angeles school decided last week to cancel valedictorian Asna Tabassum’s commencement speech in May – the first time USC has prevented its top graduate from speaking at the ceremony. 

College officials claimed they were concerned about the “alarming tenor” that had taken place on social media after Tabassum was named valedictorian. The ongoing Israel-Hamas war in Gaza has led to increased tensions in the United States following Hamas’ brutal attack against Israel on Oct. 7.

Detractors were displeased about Tabassum’s support of Palestinians and accused her of “anti-semitic and anti-Zionist rhetoric.” 

"The intensity of feelings, fueled by both social media and the ongoing conflict in the Middle East, has grown to include many voices outside of USC and has escalated to the point of creating substantial risks relating to security and disruption at commencement," Provost Andrew Guzman said in a statement . "This decision is not only necessary to maintain the safety of our campus and students, but is consistent with the fundamental legal obligation."

Following controversy over the decision to prevent Tabassum from speaking, USC has since doubled down by canceling appearances of other speakers and honorees .

How is any of this fair to valedictorian Asna Tabassum?

Not only is USC’s decision an affront to free speech, it’s also fundamentally unfair to Tabassum, who undoubtedly worked hard in her years at the university to earn this achievement.

She shouldn’t have this experience taken from her.

In a statement, Tabassum has said that she is surprised USC “abandoned” her . 

Hey, Berkeley: Violence isn't free speech. Colleges still struggle with antisemitic protests.

Now, Tabassum may well have repugnant personal views and her speech may stoke division on campus. Even so, her academic accomplishments should not be undermined because of fears of possible violence and a speech she likely hadn’t even written yet. 

Rather, the university should have committed to keeping her and others attending graduation safe. And if it knew of a tangible security threat, it should be upfront about that.

The Foundation for Individual Rights and Expression faults USC for how it handled this situation . While USC is a private university, it commits to First Amendment-like free speech. And FIRE points to how California law requires private, secular colleges and universities to give students the same speech rights they’d have at the state’s public institutions.

“Implicit in the idea of a campus committed to robust expressive rights is that administrators won’t censor their students just because they have controversial views,” FIRE said in a statement .

Adrian College offers a better way to handle controversy

Meanwhile, administrators at private Adrian College in Michigan are handling their own “controversy” in much better fashion. 

They’re pretty much ignoring it. 

Last month, Adrian College announced that Riley Gaines would be its commencement speaker on May 5.

Gaines, who is often described in the media as an “ anti-trans rights activist ,” is a lot more than that. She is an accomplished former NCAA competitive swimmer who became well-known after she tied transgender swimmer Lia Thomas in the 200-yard NCAA freestyle championship race in 2022. 

Following that experience, Gaines has become an outspoken defender of fairness in women’s sports and speaks frequently on the issue at universities around the country.

Athletes sue NCAA: These women say transgender rules discriminate against them. So they're suing the NCAA.

Gaines is used to attracting pushback – and even violence – on campuses, so it’s probably no surprise to her that there are factions of the Adrian community who aren’t happy that she will speak at the school. A student LGBTQ+ group started an online petition urging the college to “disinvite” Gaines. It now has more than 1,600 signatures .

But the college isn’t backing down .

“Adrian College has never shied away from presenting and debating substantive disagreements on campus,” Adrian President Jeffrey Docking said in a news release. "In fact, this is precisely the purpose of universities – to engage in civil discourse of controversial issues. We welcome Riley Gaines to our beautiful campus, and we feel confident our students will be inspired by her commencement address.”

I hope Docking and fellow administrators stay firm in their commitment. And even though it may be embarrassing for USC to backtrack, it should reinstate valedictorian Tabassum as a speaker at commencement.

More than ever, college students need examples of what free expression really looks like.

Ingrid Jacques is a columnist at USA TODAY. Contact her at [email protected] or on X, formerly Twitter: @ Ingrid_Jacques .

Miss Manners: Should the bride and groom be shown the best man’s speech before the wedding?

• Published: Apr. 22, 2024, 8:00 a.m.

"Miss Manners" Judith Martin Courtesy Andrews McMeel Universal

• Judith Martin

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Should the bride and groom be shown the best man’s speech before the wedding? Or, if not them, someone else?

GENTLE READER: What makes you think the best man needs vetting?

Oh, right -- he is the bridegroom’s best friend, so it is not hard to guess his notion of what should be said. Miss Manners supposes that that is the problem. Perhaps that should have been considered before he was assigned the role.

But yes, the bridegroom can inquire, in the spirit of friendship, what his buddy is thinking of saying. He could even drop some remarks about the sensitivity of the crowd, and what topics should be avoided, however amusing.

But in the end, he has to trust that his best man will do his best to please him.

(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com ; to her email, [email protected] ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)

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